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What has happened?
Hello,
My friend and I have been friends since FOREVER!, but she is always constantly taking the guys that i like and every time i try telling her she gets mad and i don't want her to get mad at me and hate me. I mean we have been friends for so long! Also we have had trouble with other friends, for instance if i am friends with someone that she is not friends with and i hang out with them instead of her she will get upset...how can i tell her about the guys and other friends?
Thank You,
Cassie
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Helloooo Cassie =)
I've been through the same kind of thing.
And what you should do is speak to her about it....Fair enough she might get upset over it but you should explain that you feel her behaviour is out of order and that it's upsetting you!!
If she doesn't listen hang out with your other friends for a while and have a good time!!
Don't worry about it....Friends out grow each other sometimes.
Take Care, Let Me know how it goes.
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If she was really your friend, she wouldn't go & talk to the guys she knows you like. Real friends would know you like him & know he's off limits instead of whoring it up the minute he comes around.
Not only that, but she's territorial with you. She gets mad when you hang out with anyone other than her. That's no good either. Your friends cannot be greedy with you & you cannot be greedy with them. Everyone is friends with someone else & everyone has to accept it. My friends from highschool are friends with girls I absolutely cannot stand, but I don't mind it because it is not my decision & I will not make the mistake of getting upset or telling them otherwise. I am usually one to voice my opinion, but I would rather see my friends happy than have them mad at me.
Ditch her. She's trash.
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Honey, I am gonna say it straight and that is well she isnt much of a friend if she is going with guys that she knows you like. As for the friends situation, I had a friend like that and I ended up confronting her and all went well after that.So what you need to do is confront her on both counts by sitting her down and having a good talk. If she goes off angry then let her, you are not the one acting like a jealous wife she is and therefore she's the one that will be back with her tail firmly between her legs so to speak. Yes you may feel bad if she does go off on one but at the end of the day she is the one acting more like a child than a friend and you are the one acting like an adult. So be strong and all will work out in the end!!
Good luck and hope I helped.
Luv Dxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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It sounds like, even tho you have been friends "forever", she isn't committed to the friendship as much as you. She has no right to get mad at you for the people you want as friends. Best friends are supposed to be able to tell each other anything. Tell her about your other friends. It doesn't matter if she gets mad. If she is your friend, she will get over it. My best friend from high school was kinda the same. She always went after the guys I liked. Well, now that we graduated, and are adults, I don't ever hear from her. I tried to keep in touch, but she obviously didn't want that. Things change as you grow up, even friends.
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