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Used or not used?


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 11:56 pm

Hey well i have a problem, this guy that i really liked my freshman year(know a senior). He lives with his girlfriend but his girlfriend, but she doesnt give him any sex and he comes to me. How would i know if he is using me or not? Please let me know i am desperate to know, he tells me he loves me and i dont know if i should believe him because he says he says that he will never hurt me. I dont know if he is just using me for sex or not. i need help. i really like him and i like when i have sex with him too but i dont know.

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GuYs...


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 8:48 pm

Okay... I am a fifteen year old female and i have this male friend that is 17 years old and we are talking about becoming b/f-g/f and he doesnt want to become b/f-g/f right now but he wants to do more with me than i want to do with him unless we are going out and i dont know how to tell him without him getting the wrong message

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Did I miss my only chance?


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 7:02 pm

This guy asked me out like two years ago and I said no but now he and I are sort of friends. And I think he might still like me. So if I hinted around and flirted and stuff do you think he would ask me out again? Or do you think I already missed my only chance?

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confused!


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 6:39 pm

ok.....i like this guy. lets call him bob. and i've liked bob for a couple months now. and we've become good friends. and i had a friend ask how he felt about me, and he said that he just liked me as a friend. but...lately, there had been some stuff goin' on.....rumors if you will, about him likin' me. and i mean A LOT of rumors. i heard it in a lot of different places. someone even told me that bob had been tellin' people on his bus that him and i were goin' out. and then i got this news about him likin' me as just a friend. BUT I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO BELIEVE! I'M SO CONFUSED! please help!

sry for the length and thx in advance (:

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Steppin it up.


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 5:07 pm

I want to do more than just make out with my boyfriend, but we've just been goin to the movies so it's kinda hard to do anythin else when so many people are around. So any ideas on what we could do or what i could say that would turn him on?

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hurt and confused


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 2:56 pm

ok my x and i have known echother sence sixth gradewe started going out in 8th and hrew the summer then all the sudden he dumps me then asks me out a week later saying hed never do anything like that to hurt me again.... then 3 months later he falls for another girl and dumps me again... so thats like having my heart broken twice first for beig dumped by a boy i lovd very much then finding he already likes another girl soo we dont talk or a good month then out of the lue he says he loves me and he miss's me and he wants me back but i take time to think about it and before i can say yes he tells me he likes ssomeone else soo thats th gourth time he broke my heart.... but we were friendly still but just now hes stating to tell me he still lik...

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PLEASE HELP


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 1:56 pm

my bf isnt excactly the cutest person in the world but i love him so much. alot of the time some of my friends that i'm not that close to always ask me questions about why im going out with him. and this girls in one of my classes always says how she would only go out with a guy if he was cute. and my bf sits right behind me in that class. he's not like ugly or anything but he's not hot either. i don't know what 2 do about it when pple tell me that i shouldnt go out with him or ask me why i am going out with him. please help........

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Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 1:52 pm

A few days ago the guy I used to like asked me out... of course I said yes. Last night his friend dumped me for him. Later that night the same friend imed me saying how sry they are that they would do that to me. At first i was confused on what happened, but as they kept talking to me a realized that it was a joke. They made a bet that if i went out with him for a few days he would get money. I'm not mad b/c i still like him (now i hate him), I'm mad at them b/c they were my close friends and they thought it was ok to do something like that. The thing is, is that i'm not sure if i should forgive them, they were my friends and i know i might be sry if i never talk to them again.
thanks for the help
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Does he like me??


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 1:52 pm

I have this friend(a guy)who i really like...yesterday he came over to hang out wth me and my other friend...me and him wrestled for like an hour and he kept hugging me...he also held my hand but we were playin around so after a second of owkward silence he pushed me and we started playin mercy...im not sure if he likes me or not...Please Help!

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This Guy...


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 1:46 pm

There is this guy,lets call him pauli.And i really like him!i like him a lot.and we always talk and hug n stuff.and we got really close then my cousin and him met and they became friends but after he met her in persin he didnt like her and she didnt like him.and she started being all mean 2 him and now whenever i talk 2 him online he ignores me.i dnt kno WHAT 2 do or HOW 2 feel.

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Should i really be upset?


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 1:33 pm

ok well my friend (shes a girl)we'll call her krys..shes over for x mas and so is my other friend (he's a guy)we'll call him bob...well krys has a way to kinda like hypnitize guys and i really really like my friend bob but krys did her lil eye thing and now he likes her...she does it to all the guys she see's, she knows she can do that and she takes advantage of it...well at first i wasnt upset becuz i thought maybe she didnt relize she was flirting...then after i talked to her and told her how i feel she still does it...now im mad at her cuz ive told her that i like him and that shes flirting and when i asked if she liked him she said "no" and now im mad at her but im not sure if i should be...PLEASE HELP!!!

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???????


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 11:54 am

my boyfriend broke up with me 2 weeks ago and we got back together a couple of ays ago. I love him more than anything and I don't want to mess things up this time. When he broke up with me he didn't really give an explanation why he did it. And I couldn't get him to tell me, he would just say, "It's hard to explain." He had told me he loved me and we were about to do certain "things" but i don't know if he still wants to do those "things" So my question is do you think he still loves me? Also do you think he still wanys to do those "things". And how should I bring the subject up with him? Thanks a ton! Please help...

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i like my bff


Posted Saturday December 25 2004, 5:00 am

im a 13/f n my bestfriend is 13/m i like him alot and we went to the movies yesterday with 2 other friends a boy and a girl. i was sitting inbetween the girl and my best friend n all during the movie he kept sorta kicking me and rubbing his leg against my leg. i thought it was cute. then he didnt mean to well at least i dont think he meant to, but he moved his hand like in between the seat and he touched my theigh a couple of times. i like him alot but do you think he was making moves on me? well he knows i like him but im sort of clueless right now!! thank you


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heeellp!


Posted Friday December 24 2004, 11:47 pm

okay my "friend" i guess wants me to give him a handjob and i want to but . i dont know how to and im scared. but i really want to and i was just wondering do all guys like it the same way? or what cuz he always asks me for one and he expects me to like i guess know how and so he must not care how. but like i want to basically know how.

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Posted Friday December 24 2004, 11:21 pm

are u gay

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So I have a problem


Posted Friday December 24 2004, 10:33 pm

Ok..I went out with this boy who is 2 years younger than me for 6 months. I totally fell in love with him and we did a lot of stuff together but we didn't have sex. We were planning on it but it just never happened. Neways. I was soo in love with him and planning spending a lot more time with him when all of a sudden he wanted to take a break..we did for like a week and then he started saying some really mean stuff to me so i just ended it. Was that the right thing to do? And then like a week later he ended up giving his sweatshirt to a girl who use to be my best friend. 2 weeks later they started dating. and now i'm hearing stuff that he told people he likes me a lot still and is mad because of stuff. but when asked about it..he denies it...

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Should I ask him back out?


Posted Friday December 24 2004, 10:25 pm

Me and my ex-boyfriend broke up...well, about a month or two ago. But lately, I can't get him out of my mind (I haven't been able to since the break-up), and I asked my friends if they thought he still liked me, they said yes that he talks about me a lot and what we did when we were together. The only reason we broke up is because we were bored with each other, but I think now we realized what a great relationship it was. He looks at me a lot and I look at him (right in the eyes), we talk a lot and we're pretty good friends still, I want to ask him out so badly but I'm scared to. So my two questions are: Should I ask him out again, and: How should I do it? (Through a friend, note, IM, etc.) Thank you!! <3 (Sorry this was so long. xoxo)

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confused


Posted Friday December 24 2004, 9:03 pm

my bf broke up with me about a week and a half ago, but then we got back together a couple days ago. i was never able to figure out why he broke up with me in the first place, he just said he was confused. when he asked me out again, he said he was being stupid and he was really sorry for doing that to me. i want to find out why he broke up with me. i also need 2 ask him if things we talked about doing, are still things he wants 2 do....but i dont no how to bring up the question....please help...

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ConfuZing


Posted Friday December 24 2004, 7:49 pm

Well lets c where to start...I met this girl at camp and we became friends kinda talked time to time..she ended up going to the same school as my best friend and she like(d) him.. and he liked her but my best friend alrdy ahs a g/f so he is chaeting anways...he brought her over to my house and shit and Like I have liekd her and my friend likes her...well she stayed the nite and so now he thinks she likes me becuz when she stayed the night we went for 2 walks and she like constantly kissed me and then took me into someone elses yard to make out 3 different times for like 10 minutes...so he starts to get mad cuz she is hangin out with me and me nd her were layin in the same bed and held hands and rubbed on each other and shit while my friend ...

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Posted Friday December 24 2004, 4:58 pm

Hey, I'm 13, and my bf wants to take it to the next level. I'm not sure what to say, I want to, but my parents would kill me. Pleaz help....

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