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sex for the first time..
Posted Monday September 15 2008, 3:47 pm
hey
im a college sophomore.. ive never had sex before..hard to beleive i know.. but i want to. i feel like i need to get it over with. i know its supposed to be special but im kinda over that. i wont regret doing it now. im dating someone ive been with for about a month and i want to have sex with him because everytime we're together it sort of is about to happen but im scared. he doesnt know ive a virgin. ive been fingered numerous times..some of which has hurt a little bit after so im wondering if this is how sex will hurt for the first time? or is it going to be worse? and will he be able to know that im a virgin? any tips will really be appreciated. i know its stupid but i feel like he should be a little drunk so that if i do anything dumb/wrong, im not embarassed. thanks!!
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ill
Posted Monday September 15 2008, 11:02 am
heyy
i gave me bf head last wednesday and ever since ive been ill, when i eat it realy hurts and after it gets worse and well night tym i cant sleep i swallowed his cum and i was thinkin if it was that but ive done it loads well not loads but ive never felt like this b4 .. i just feel i wana be sick but nothin cums out and ive tryd makin my self sick but nothing. should i go to the doctors but i wouldnt wanna say i think it his cum that made me sick if you get me ?
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bj
Posted Monday September 15 2008, 1:22 am
how do you give one?
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HIV detection
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 7:14 pm
Hello,
I read in one of the replies that an individual can sometime not develop hiv antibodies for a very long period than the six months and recommended to test every six months for ten years. My question is, 1) if a person does not develop antibodies then his antigen test can be a solution to identify the Virus.
As i recently had a Bioelisa Hiv Ag/Ab Combo test at 5 months and 2 weeks after exposure and the result was negative, 2) can this be satisfactory for me?
Thank you
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shivering when being fingered
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 7:00 pm
i hav been fingered by 2 different boys and both times i couldnt stop shivering, is this them or me?
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How effective is birth control
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 5:48 pm
As a percentage, how effective and reliable is the birth control pill against pregnancy?
I know it doesn't protect against STI's.
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Birth Control
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 5:41 pm
17, F, UK
I didnt know if this should go in the sex or health category so I hope its right.
Anyway, I plan on phoning my local sexual health clinic tomorrow about being put on the the birth control pill. My boyfriend will be coming with me.
My main concern is that I do not want my parents to know, I know the clinic can't tell my parents, but I mean, is there anyway my parents can work it out for themselves??
Like.. A change in my period cycle or something?!
Any info would be GREAT!
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First Time
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 10:38 am
I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time and I didn't enjoy it at all, or the next time, or the next time. Is there something wrong with me? Yeah, the first time we did it, it hurt at first but after the pain went away I still didn't enjoy it. It wasn't pleasurable and it wasn't him I don't think I just didn't enjoy it. And I was kind of anxious to try it again to see if it'd be any better but it wasn't. Does it take time, or am I weird... or what?
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Three-Sum
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 7:48 am
My really good friend, lets call him 'SAM' was
talking to me on MSN 2day. We got talking about
nothing... like i should go back out with my ex, shit like that.
anyway, as a joke he sujested me, him & my
bestfriend -lets call him 'BILL'- had a 3sum, so i said "haha, yeah but i dont think he'd go 4 it"
And it went on from there.
Like he really wants this.
Whereas im not sure, i do want it. but, I'm sorta
scared that me & my bestmate wont be BESTmates
anymore...
Please dont say things like "if you dont want it
dont do it"...
because i do want it.
I'm just uncertain...
i need a few opinions.
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He can't finish!
Posted Sunday September 14 2008, 12:03 am
So I've been messing around with a guy for a long time now. Like we're friends but we don't talk about any of the sexual things we do. So I can't ask him.
But we've done everything (let your imagination wander) and he's never ejaculated! Never!
I'm not asking how to make this happen but could it be something with him, or that I'm doing something wrong? And is it really weird?
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Hot tub?
Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 10:07 pm
I plan to ask my doctor at my next appointment, but in the meantime, does anyone know if having sex in a hottub can be dangerous in any way? I assume the chemicals would be harmful, and that there would also be risk of urinary tract infection. Can anyone refute or support those? Any personal experiences?
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sex
Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 9:36 pm
is it normal if you never have had an orgasm, and i have been sexually active for two years?
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drinking
Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 8:08 pm
if i drink a lot for my first time will i be out of it and not know whats going on if someone trys somthing with me?
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um?
Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 8:07 pm
after giving a blowjob do u have to swallow?
whats it taste like it sounds gross.
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Oral
Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 5:59 pm
My boyfriend loves recieving oral and I love giving it to him. But I want to do something that will send him over the top. Please give me some ideas thanks.
18/F
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Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 5:08 pm
Wut are some good masturbating tips?? for females
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what is it?
Posted Saturday September 13 2008, 2:41 am
so is it normal to have like discharge on your panties on a normal basis?
mine used to be like whiteish.
but now its like brownish? what is that?!?!
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Birth Control
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 9:02 pm
17, F.
Ok so I want to go on birth control, either pills or the injection, but i'm too shy to go on my own. I'm not very good with walking into places on my own, its a nervous thing, that I just can't help.
I can't really ask my mum to take me, because she doesn't know im sexually active, I haven't got a friend that will go with me either..
What can i do?
Also what do I say when I ring up? Do i ring my doctor, or the sexual health clinic? :S
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15 and i want to do something sexual
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 6:59 pm
Iam 15 female &een dating my boyfriend for a year and i think it's about time for us to be sexual but i don't want to have actual sex and i want to know of somethings that we can do to each other without having sctual intercourse.
please don't try to talk me out of it.
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Advice on how to do a blow job
Posted Friday September 12 2008, 6:56 pm
I'm a 23 yr old female, who recently got married. Before this, I was a virgin... My husband recently asked me if I would ever feel comfortable going down on him. I want to please him sexualy, but the thing is I have no idea exactly how to perform a blow job. I have a lot of questions, like which areas should I concentrate on, what I do with my mout (is licking or sucking involved, or is it just going up and down the shaft with my mouth?) Also, I know some people like to vary it by using there hands... If doing that, what are some techniques? Any help would be highly appriciated!
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