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He can't finish!
So I've been messing around with a guy for a long time now. Like we're friends but we don't talk about any of the sexual things we do. So I can't ask him.
But we've done everything (let your imagination wander) and he's never ejaculated! Never!
I'm not asking how to make this happen but could it be something with him, or that I'm doing something wrong? And is it really weird?
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This guy is ignoring the most important part of being intimate, which is to communicate. Alot of guys have this problem when they're younger (13-15 years old) and there is a chance that he feels ackward about the situation, and is thereore too nrevous to arrive. Some men who are not completely through puberty will have a very weak ejaculation as well, you may not have noticed. I recommend talking to him about when you're alone obviously and just be nice about it, don't make seem like it makes him a bad partner just that it's something that concerns you.
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It could be either or, or it could even be a combination of both. I understand that it would be awkward to ask him after all since you guys never mention it but I really think you should ask him. If you are doing something that is not pleasing him that is the only way you are going to find out. Sex or any type of intimacy is trial and error for the most part. Different things work for different people. If he has never ejaculated then I am sure he is thinking along the same lines as you are. Are you sure he has never ejaculated? Maybe you just don't know he has. You really need to be up front with him but in a very decent manner and be sensitive when you bring it up. This would be a difficult subject for any man or woman when there is a problem in the bedroom. Hope I helped. xox Summer
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