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confuzed for my friend


Posted Monday May 30 2005, 3:07 am

My friend called me out of the blue asking me if i hav e my older friends brothers number.And she said she wants to ask him out! but she already has a great boyfriend that likes her ALOT! and so then she asked me for the number so i gave it 2 her and they yelledat her ..... she asked me if she should stay with akram or go out with danny! wat shoul i tell her

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Posted Monday May 30 2005, 2:13 am

Ok well I like this guy but the problem is, we havn't met in person yet. We've talked on the phone and computer but havn't met! And im like, So crazy about this kid its weird! And i don't want him to see me in person 'cause i think im really ugly and fat. People say no but i think they're lieing! But i need help on what I should do. Because what if we do meet and he thinks im ugly or what ever and doesn't talk to me anymore? He's seen a few of my pictures but i don't think they look like me! So i don't know what to do. Please help. ANYTHING! I rate high. Thank you so much.

x333 Kara

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is it wrong?


Posted Monday May 30 2005, 1:42 am

okay. so i dated this girl for a while. and we seemed to have a really good connection with each other. we were into the same things, we were both sarcastic smartasses, and we both liked doing the same kinda stuff. and well when i met her she was in the process of breaking up with her boyfriend. and so i was more of the friend to turn to than anything else. then slowly we started to date like after they broke up. and for about a weekend we were very into each other, and things seemed to be wonderful. then as the weekend ended she said she didn't feel the same way about me as i did about her. and so i decided to sit back and wait until she was really ready for a relationship because after some talking we kinda realized she needed some time t...

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Was he flirting or just being a jerk?


Posted Monday May 30 2005, 12:29 am

My friend and I were at this party, where there was a guy that I liked. We were playing volleyball, a sport that I'm not too good at. This guy was always poking fun at me when I missed, but he wasn't mean to me except for that. Do you think he was being a jerk, or flirting?

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he wants me back


Posted Monday May 30 2005, 12:15 am

I broke up with my bf about 3 weeks ago and within that time he started going out with a girl but she broke up with him. While he was with her he was being bitchy and plain out wrong with me but now that they have broken up he regrets everything he said and did and wants me back.When we broke up I cried and was hurt for a LONG while but now I am dealing with it.Well he wants me back and I don't know if I should give him a chance part of me says yes but the other says no. I don't know what I should do but sometimes I just feel like calling him just to hear his voice but then again I don't want to get hurt again. Pleace help me out!

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we like the same guy...


Posted Monday May 30 2005, 12:06 am

my best friend likes the same guy as me. Im 14 and im a girl. She has a better chance i think. she is always flirty and everything right in my face. should i keep liking him or just give up and let her win?

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even my bestfriend says!


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 11:44 pm

Hi. my name is maddie and im 14. For about a year now I have liked this guy named pj. I could swear at somepoints he liked me to but im not sure. Well you see now he is liking this other girl. who I really dont like. And im not sure what to do. Everyone says I should move on even my bestfriend does! they say I have so many other options.. but I keep giving guys up for a chance with him, but that never seems to happen.. Im not sure what I should do.. Can you help?

-thanks maddie

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hmm...


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 10:55 pm

So thers this guy I like and I only get to see him when I go camping. Well Last year he didn't come bck and said he was sorry he couldn't come see me and thsi weekend he danced with me (slow danced) and was all close and singing into my ear and he rode the 4 wheeler with me and was holding onto my legs. But he also danced with my mom like that. Does he like me or what? I rate high

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break up!! please help!!


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 10:11 pm

me and my boyfriend just broke up thrusday, and we were going out fo ralmost 9 months.. we broke up because he always wanted to ahng out with his friends and we kinda both just needed space bc were only 15 and 16 and thats a long time going out for that long, well i just want him back i listn to voicemails and old text mesages and i just balll.. idk what to say to him bc i mentioned it once liek the day after we broke up and hes like just give it time, and im scared his feelings towrards me will change,, this isnt just liek a relaitonship everyone in our school is like you 2 are the perfect couple and no1 would have thought we would ever break up so now i just need like good ways to score him and and make him iss all the times we have had but i dont wanna ignore him to show him!!

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my bf


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 9:08 pm

my bf nd i have been going out 4 3 weeks. he is all cute but not that different than when we were friends. he never hugs me, holds my hand, etc. i m the type of person to make a first move but. . .o idk. please help me to get him more "huggyholdyish". ((i rate high))

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Typical question about a guy...


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 9:02 pm

So, last summer I really liked this guy. We hung out a few times, but nothing happened.

Then during this year I kinda stopped liking him.

Recently, my friend told me she found out he liked me now. I'm pretty sure that I believe her since he does seem to like me (he asked me to hang out a few times..he talks to me online a lot, etc.) Today I hung out with him and my other friend and my friend said she could definitely tell that he likes me.

I'm really not sure if I like him or not, and I don't know what to do. He's kinda shy so I don't think he will ask me out or anything, but I kinda want him to, so does that mean I like him? I really don't know what to do... I don't want to send mixed messages.

btw i'm 17/f and he's 17/m

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HELP PLEASE!!


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 8:48 pm

Okay. i broke up with my boyfriend yesterday but i still wanted to be friends with him cuz i feel like hes the only one that really understands me. and he agreed. I just wanted to take the physical part of our relationship away [ kissing & holding hands ]. well then, he sent me a text saying asking me not to tell anybody we broke up yet cuz he might get in trouble with some people. [ hes got a badddd gambling problem =\ ] and if i said that we werent going out anymore that they might hurt me and him. And then some girl called me and asked me all this stuff and said that 'D' owed her 5O bucks. i got really scared so i called him and he said that it would be okay.

but then the girl texted me telling me that the whole thing ...

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boyfriend(less)


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 8:27 pm

Ok, i am in 8th grade and i am a 13 year opld female (just so oyu know the setting) well anyways my problem is that i have never ever ever in my life had a boyfriend. i know you might be sayi wow big deal, but it is. like almost everyone i know has had/haves 1. i feel weid when people go, oh who is you b/f, or who have you gone out with. idk whatto do. i hate feeling this way, is it wrong that i have never had a b/f, nad what can i do to make me feel better bout my self (qith out actually getting a b/f, cuz dont see that happeneing in the near future.


ps: i rate !!!

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Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 8:05 pm

i'm dating this guy right now and he's my first real relationship so i've never kissed before and i'm not sure if i know how or not what if i totally screw up if or when we kiss or something? how can i make sure that i don't? because the person has kissed other people before so he probably knows what he's doing but like what if i drool on him or something????
--paranoid

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is it a good idea


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 7:59 pm

is it a good idea after you meet a guy to tell your friend to tell him that you think he's hot?

does this instill a wrong impression?

is it better to let it wait and become friends with him before you tell him he's attractive?

guys opinions on this one would rock. what would you think if a girl you just met told you she liked you, and how would you feel about a girl who didn't tell you she liked you?

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love?


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 6:57 pm

im 15/f & i have been dating this guy for about 5months now...whoopie 5 months i kno it doesnt sound long..but we talked for the longest before dating...we've had sex a couple of times & stuff...i love him so much..well at least i feel like i do & i know we arent going to break up & i know im guna be with him forever...but no one believes that i "love" him..how can i prove them wrong?!
sincerly,
Love Struck In La.

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Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 6:37 pm

The other night at my sleepover I called this guy that I really like. My one friend that was there really likes him too. I told him that he should come over and watch movies with us. We didn't think he'd take it seriously, but he did and he asked if he could come. We told him that my dad would kill me if he did and I know that he really wanted to come over. We told him there was enough room between me and my friend that liked him for him. We think he likes both of us, but we dunno. Does this sound like he likes me more? or what? plz help!!

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HUGE/confusing problem


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 6:23 pm

Me and my best friend both like the same guy, and obviously we both know about it. We think he likes both of us too, but we're not 100% sure. If he does like both of us we're not sure what to do because we both like him. I was thinking that we could let him decide, but if he picks her (which I figure he will cause I think she's pretter than me) I'll probably feel hurt. And it's probably the same with her! Does anyone have any ideas??

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he keeps tryin to set me up...


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 6:07 pm

i have been realy good friends with a guy a my school(max)for about a year or two he had a girl friend for most of the time we've been friends. a couple months ago him and his girlfriend was kinda drifting from eachother and he told me he lyked me. i made the mistake of telling him a like him too. it turned into a big mess and he ended up juss staying with his gf. So i oviously got mad and told him that i didnt have feelings for him anymore because he wasnt acting lyk the max i knew..But now him and his gf "on a break" and he recently asked her back out and she said no.. but he'll give me all these signals lyk when we're hanging out ..but this is wat i dont understand .. once in a while hell try to set me up with some of his frien...

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i feel like i can't like a guy anymore


Posted Sunday May 29 2005, 6:06 pm

I am now fifteen and the last time i liked a guy while we were going out was when i was twelve. its fucked up cause i've gone out with guys since then; and i've had crushes; but as soon as we're actually together the idea of commitment totally turns me off and i stop liking him. And even when we've broken up i remain totally possessive; i get jealous of him and tell him to wait for me and not date anyone else. It seems like I only want what i can't have, and i never want to keep anything thats too easily won. it's nice for the first few days... but then it actually seems like im tired of being involved. what the fuck is wrong with me? could it have anything to do with my mistrust in love, or perhaps my broken family?

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