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help please.


Posted Friday February 17 2006, 1:21 am

Hi, I have a boyfriend who I've been with since January 11th, I do like him a lot, of course. But I also like someone else. The problem is I don't want to leave my boyfriend I have now cause he say's he dosn't want to go on without me and he dosn't know what he would do without me cause I'm everything to him and since we've been together he's been happy cause his life is getting better. But I tend to feel he dosn't want to talk to me and or is bored of me. I also know of him looking at other girls naked pictures ( I never took any I'm not the one to do that). But was telling me all about it while he was. And it seems like he enjoyed it. Though the other guy I like I said something about it to him cause I was kinda upset which the other gu...

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Calling a girl


Posted Friday February 17 2006, 12:21 am

There is this girl that i realy like. I got her phone number. I am going to call her and ask her out to the movies or somthing.

What should i say to her when i call her? My mind is blank of all ideas right now. I want to let her know her how i feel without being too deep and emotional. Also, is there any way i can ask her out besides saying "Hey, wanna go out?" I am 13 and she is almost 14.

Thanks for your help.

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what does his behavior mean?


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 10:39 pm

I went out to have lunch with a male friend of mine. During our meal he asked me where I was going to meet Mr. Right, and that Prince Charming wasn't going to knock on my door. He also said that if I was still single in 5 years that I wouldnt be happy. The whole time he was looking at me romantically. At the end of our meal I applied a fresh coat of lipgloss and he couldn't take his eyes of me, like he was getting turned on. When we left the restaurant it was raining and he held his umbrella over my head.
Do you think that all the questions he was asking me was him hinting around that he was interested in me? I think he was thinking long term, why else would he be talkig about 5 years from now?

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See Me over Here? Yeah Me. I love you.


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 10:03 pm

Okay so me and this guy are friends and we talk in class and stuff. But it stops there; and I really like him. I think about him all the time.

How do I move closer to him so he'll think of me more as the girlfriend type. (And we can't hang out outside of school; dont ask}

-Yeah I Love You.

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more "advanced then me


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 9:57 pm

Well, I like this kid. I'm a little worried about it though, because I've only kissed one guy... and it wasnt even a REAL kiss and the kid I like makes out with people && grinds at dances and stuff. (Hey, I know he doesnt sound like prince charming, but hes really nice and funny and smart etc)

It's just if I do start going out with him, what do I do? anything is really helpful, from kissing tips to ... well anything really... i just need help

and preferably soon please

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Making out and french kissing


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 9:48 pm

I think french kissing is really gross.. the whole open mouth part. I wouldn't mind making out though even though I haven't done either of them. Do you have to french kiss before you can make out with a guy? And what exactly do you do when you make out with someone? Where do you put your hands? How do you know when the time is right to start using your tongue? Any advice? I rate 5s.

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Boyfriend Or Buthead


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 9:36 pm

Okay... so recently my boyfriend hasn't been paying much attention to me. It's not like I thrive for it, but it is definately different for me to go from getting all of his attention to getting very little. I mean, some things have happened in his life and I make sure I am there for him, because he needs me to be. A lot of things have been going on for me, too. The thing that has effected him, also has effected me, three of my family members are VERY ill, two of which that may pass on tonight, and I just failed my driving test. With so much on my mind, you'd think he'd be there through all of it. All he has to say is "you'll do better next time," and that I am not very close to my family anyways. Which really hurts me. I dont' kno...

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Grr...I know it's another stupid love question...sorry


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 8:22 pm

There's this guy in my History and Math class that's very popular and goodlooking. Recently, he's been acting different around me. Unusually nice. He complimented on my shirt and necklace, and asked how my tutoring was coming along, etc. He's also lately been acting really cocky, but in a playful way. I don't know if he's flirting. Does it seem so? Because I'm confused as to whether I should flirt back. He has a girlfriend, and that might make me look like an asshole (I don't have a crush on him at all, by the way). Also, if he wasn't flirting I would look like an asshole. What do you think I should do?

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Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 8:13 pm

Ok so I had asked this questions before:
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=414395
The thing is, I am really dependant on him to the point that pretty much everything I did was for him (i.e. buy a Guess top because he loves Guess or go to wherever because he might be there) so all my thoughts revolved around him.
Now I'm trying to get over him and I can't because I can't stop thinking about him. I've never had to force myself to get over someone ever so I don't know what to do. Pretty much everything I think about ends up being about him and then I get mad at myself for it because I'm trying to make myself stop thinking about him.
Does anyone have any tips to try to stop it? How am I supposed to get over him if I'm obsessivley thinking about him?

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Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 8:09 pm

i cannt stand my mother any more, she is fucking crazy. she randomly get all mad at me and screams and will fight with me, and im no person to just sit there and take it. a few examples, this morning i went to sit and watch tv in her room and she was flipping our sayin i dont want you in here get out! telling me to "go FU** my self" and if im in the bathroom, doing my makeup or either going to the bathroom she comes in like shes allowed when im in there! and she`ll yell at me and stuff and if i tell her to get out and like eggs me on and gets in my face saying like " you think your tough??" i hate her shes crazy.. and ya ive known shes been on drugs forever but shes never done anything, like last night at like 3:45 am sh...

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Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 7:46 pm

how do u get someone to fall in love with youu??

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guyss<3


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 7:28 pm

if i realli like this guy is it wrong to ask him out??

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so hurt</3


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 7:08 pm

ok we'll i liked this kid alot. & he's always like me but always went out with other people even though we liked eachother. So just like 5minutes ago he told me he broke up with his gf & he said do u still like me and i said yess i still like you & i asked him who he likes and he said he likes me but he likes my sister better=(
I've never felt like this i just went in my room crying. No one has ever... i just don't what to do. So can you please help me.

xo heartbroken&hearts;


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please helpp


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 6:46 pm

The Boy i like likes me and another girl...and he says he likes me more. And the friends he hangs out with are kinda differant and i realli realli realli like him but i dont no how to get him to ask me out...i need help<3

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distracted


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 5:32 pm

I have a band and my friend just invited the boy i have a major crush in the band and we aren't doing so well is it me or what

makk

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The movies


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 5:29 pm

Hey, me and a girl are going to the movies this weekend and i have a few questions.

1. How can i show how much i like her? (Yes i do like her alot, and i don't want to make out or anything yet...)

2. After the movies she is spending the night at my house, how can i get her to hang out with me instead of my sisters? (She and my sisters are good friends)

3.What are some things we can do while she is at my house?

Thanks in advance!

P.S. we are both 13

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I need advice


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 5:26 pm

im 14/f and theres this boy that i got so close with and we became such good friends and we talk about everything not matter what it is i can tell him hes always there for me but i hardly get 2 see him and im starting to like him alot what do i do?

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I don't wanna annoy the heck outta this kid!


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 5:18 pm

I like this guy. A lot. He's in none of my classes, so I can really only talk to him online. I don't talk to him much; once every day or once every few days. My problem is... he never starts the conversations! It's always me. PLUS, I just tried talking to him and he didn't respond.
It makes me sad, because I'm not the type to talk to someone every time they get online, and I'm not annoying! What should I do to get him to start some conversations? And also... do I sound like I'm being annoying? Like, if you were the guy and I talked to you like that, would you be annoyed (be honest please!)? Thanks!

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please help!


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 5:11 pm

im soo upset right now and i dont know what to do. last friday i broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 months (long distant realtionship) . .it was going to fast and getting really serious and i got scared so i broke it off. he was really upset.he is my best friend and we still talk everyday. Well while we were going out one of his girl friends he met on myspace would leave flirtaious commments on his myspace and im like i think she likes you and hes like no and even if she did im not interested in her at all . . i believed him and everything..we would actullyjoke about. well yesterday i was on the phone with him and he said he wanted to be single for a lonnnggggg time then he asked me if i liked one of my guy friends and i said no and the...

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why does he keep taking her back?


Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 4:51 pm

A guy friend of mine was going out with this girl for over a year. They barely knew each other and had sex the second night.(She had a bf at the time) She was 14 he was 17. She broke up with her bf 2 days later, but kept both of them. Taking turns every other night with each of them. I told my friend, but he refused to believe me. Im very good friends with her ex, and he told her where to go when he realized what was going on.
My friend and her have broken up more than they are together. They both like to be in control and both are very jealous. They fight ALL the time!! She keeps breaking up with him because hes an ass to her. Its like they are still together(just not going out) but they act like it. She has had sex with 2 other gu...

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