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help please.


Question Posted Friday February 17 2006, 1:21 am

Hi, I have a boyfriend who I've been with since January 11th, I do like him a lot, of course. But I also like someone else. The problem is I don't want to leave my boyfriend I have now cause he say's he dosn't want to go on without me and he dosn't know what he would do without me cause I'm everything to him and since we've been together he's been happy cause his life is getting better. But I tend to feel he dosn't want to talk to me and or is bored of me. I also know of him looking at other girls naked pictures ( I never took any I'm not the one to do that). But was telling me all about it while he was. And it seems like he enjoyed it. Though the other guy I like I said something about it to him cause I was kinda upset which the other guy likes me also and try's to cheer me up and is always there when I need him. I really don't know what to do anymore. Cause I'm not good at talking to my boyfriend about these deals, cause I'm not used to doing all of this.

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UHaves_iHaveAnswers answered Monday February 20 2006, 1:42 am:
i think you should sort everything through in your head first...thats the best way because if you dont sort out everything to youself then you can never know what you truly want. i dont know your boyfriend, but as with most guys they are always saying things like your boyfriend is saying to you or he could really mean it..so we dont know if he's telling the truth. try talking to some of his friends who'll tell you the truth and not lie to you to cover up for him. if you like the other guy better, then you can go with him. I think you should stick with your boyfriend for a little while longer to see if your feelings about him decline, increase or stay at a steady rate. also monitor your feelings with the other boy to see if they go up, down, or stay the same. this should give you a clue abot what to do.

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BRUNETTE__BABiE__CAKESZ answered Friday February 17 2006, 3:29 pm:
hey well thats a hard one. i think that if you like another guy besdies the one you say that you " love " then you dont really love the guy you say you do. it takes more time to love someone then a month. no matter how amazing they are toyou. so my theory is do what your heart tells you. cait ♥

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