Question Posted Thursday February 16 2006, 9:36 pm
Okay... so recently my boyfriend hasn't been paying much attention to me. It's not like I thrive for it, but it is definately different for me to go from getting all of his attention to getting very little. I mean, some things have happened in his life and I make sure I am there for him, because he needs me to be. A lot of things have been going on for me, too. The thing that has effected him, also has effected me, three of my family members are VERY ill, two of which that may pass on tonight, and I just failed my driving test. With so much on my mind, you'd think he'd be there through all of it. All he has to say is "you'll do better next time," and that I am not very close to my family anyways. Which really hurts me. I dont' know what to do. Should I think about having a serious talk with him, because he should stick by me, am I just overeacting, or has this boy got to go? Will rate sky high!
thisismydance answered Friday February 17 2006, 12:10 am: you said he has alot on his mind. think about how long you've been together and give him some time if in a week you feel that he isnt right and he isnt what you want. talk to him about it. tell him how you feel and if he seems like hes trying give him one more week and if he changes alot keep him but if you still feel the same about it cut him loose. [ thisismydance's advice column | Ask thisismydance A Question ]
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