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Too fast too soon?


Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 1:21 am

Okay well I've been dating this amazing guy for about two weeks now and we get along amazingly well. Not a night has gone by that we haven't talked for at least 3 hours...we text all day...and talk on myspace every day...he is such a sweet guy. We get along and can talk so easily...and I know that he wants a real relationship...So a few nights ago I gave him a handjob...it wasn't planned or anything but it just happened. and he isn't acting weird or anything but I can't help but feel that it was too soon. Yes, I've already talked to him about it and he hugged me and told me that sex was not what our relationship about and he was not going to let this affect us because he cares about me too much.

So...I'm feeling uneasy...wha...

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Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 12:35 am

Alright, so im 15, a female, and i think i might be gay. im still 'exploring' my options, if that makes any sense. but i want to let my friends know that there is a possibility that i could be, but everytime i get close to tellin them, ill start out with something about one of my gay friends, and they are automatically grossed out. how could i hint to them that i could be, without losing their friendship, yet not being to revealing?

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Biggest crush ever!!!


Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 12:32 am

Okay there's this guy I like on Myspace and we talked a lot at school. I invited him to come to this jam thing that there is every Friday. Is this going overboard? I figure when he gets the message he will e-mail me back. Will this show that I like him? There are a lot of other kids there. If not, ho can I get him to know I like him with out actually coming out and doing just that? What should I wear if he does plan on going? I play guitar and sing if that helps. I've never had this big of a crush on a buy b4.I never worried about how I looked before until I started crushing on this guy. Have any of u had similar situations? I really need help. I would ask a friend, but I don't want anyone to know I like him. Please help. I really need it

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Serious Question Please Help.


Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 12:30 am

Well Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year. We really dig each other and all that cool stuff. Anywho we've decided we want to have sex. We're both virgins and it just seems right. I'm not on birth control and i'm a little scared the condom could break and i'd be screwed. I don't want kids and he doesn't either. But I can't get on birth control because of my high blood pressure problem. I really need some help as to what all we could do to prevent from anything bad happening. We've been talking about certain products we could use and so on but I think we could really use some other people's oppinions...Please Help.

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help!--kinda


Posted Thursday August 3 2006, 12:23 am

16/f--Okay,well i like this guy. hes a year older than me. And i told him that I liked him, and he told me that he felt the same way about me. We have been talking a lot and flirting and he said that one day he is going to take me somewhere where you can see the stars clearly and just lay there staring at them. But, I dont understand why we arent going out. We both really really like eachother and we flirt like crazy. Everyone always think that we are going out and when they ask me, im always like im not and they are all like are you sure? and im like yah. So what should i do to tell him that i wanna go out with him??!

i rate high!

<3/suzanner

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This guy... is a bit old for me.


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 11:17 pm

14/f

My really good friend "kayley" has an older brother named "kyle". He's 17. yeah. Sure, 3 years won't be that much difference in the future... & i know that it probably wont happen for us now. What i'm really interested in hearing is, whether he's "into" me or not. He acts like it (from what i can tell) but the thing is, i'm so dense, that my friends laugh at me for it! We have a lot of fun together, just recently we had a light saber fight from star wars. haha. we gave each other massive welts from hitting so hard with the fake plastic light sabers. & sometimes we flirt.(<<my friends told me this... i didnt even realize we were flirting!) & we're into alot of the same thing...

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my friend


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 11:03 pm

ok, well i have had a HUGE crush on this girl thats one of my friends and shes a year older than me. well when she went into high school i didnt talk to her much, but now im goin into high school shes talkin to me more. well ive had this chrush on her for over a year and a half, but i never had the courage to ask her out. well i found out she has a boyfired now and idk what to do. im 14 btw and shes 15 if that helps. please help me.

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my boyfriend or my old friend...


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 10:57 pm

i dont know what too do....i like my b/f..we've been going out for a year and he's the second b/f i've ever had...i like him and all but i think its time to see other people...but i dont know how to tell him...i'm dont want to hurt him...is there a way for me to tell him without hurting him? And now i'm starting to think i like my old friend from my other school.... but he has a g/f but when we talked to each other today it felt like we were kids again and liked each other...please help me i dont know what too do..how can i make it so that i wont make myself feel bad or my b/f...=/



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I cant get over him


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 10:13 pm

I really need some advise. Anything would be good. Please help me. I'm 16 years and I dated this guy about a year ago. Me and him were together for a long time. He was my most longest and serious relationship ever. Things got really rough in my family and just over all and I just didnt want a boyfriend at the time so i broke things off with him. It's been a year now and he is with another girl and I have never been more in love with him. I hate myself for breaking up with him and I wish I never did that. I told him how i felt but all he could say was that i hurt him way too much and that he is happy with his current girlfriend. I cry all the time, i miss him so much. I would do anything to be with him again. He is so mean to me. I think he ...

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about my boyfriand


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 8:45 pm

Im 18y old im with my boyfrain a year now. i speand a lot of many when we go out cuz i have good job and he dont. He always ask me for money and he know the will give to him becouas i love him. But the think is the he tell me the i know he have bad jobb i know the paid when he had one. But ever one else tell me the he using me and the he just want my money but i fell it not try. But it just me.. I dont know what to do i just move away from him it 1 for him to get my hous he has a car and he dont come to see me he just want me to come. and tell me he love me but just he the first persone who i had sex with he the one who rely fole in love with. Help me i dont know what to do
becouas i rely love him.. it big problam.


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Should I call him or should I wait?


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 8:44 pm

O.k. The last time I talked to my bf I told him that if I could I would call him back(my stepdad said get off the phone and he was goin back to work so u see I was gonna call him but I didn't because his mom might have gotten mad) he said "don't forget I can always call you.." and I said "No! Don't call I'll call you if I can." I was talking about that night, and now that I think of it he might've thought I was talking about anyday period! he hasn't called for 4 days, so should I just wait for him to call or should I call him? Please any advice would be great, even tips on wwhat to say if you you think I should call. please I will rate high for GOOD answers!!!!! Thank youn soooo much!

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To know how he feels


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 8:28 pm

I like this guy. He is so nice to me! We always talk and laugh and when we pass each other, he usually says hi to me. Even around his friends he waves. I told my friend that I liked him and she said she thought he liked me back.

And actually, he just IMed me a few minutes ago. I mean we talk all the time.

But I want to know how to know if he likes me. I am... well, I dont think I'm pretty. I am overweight. But as dumb as this sounds, I dont really look it.

Thanks!!
cat

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Shes wreckin me.


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 8:06 pm

hi, yea ok let me tell you how one of my best friends so and so is hooking up with sombody i really like...and its not like she doesnt know it, she does no how i feel about him and hes keeps like making out with him infront of me and everything....and it hurts me SO much. i really dont no what to say to her. She keeps saying, "o yea jus tell me anything and ill do wat i can to stop it." so yea what should i do?

haven

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we went on vacation..saw boys..and NOW LOOK...


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 7:37 pm

16/f this is going to be kinda long but thanks for taking your time!!

well me and my best friend just got back from vacation with MY family..we went to florida. and we didnt see like ANY cute guys at the hotel until we were all sittin by the pool and then we see this hott guy about our age walk by and then we didnt say anything me and my friend looked at each other and laughed and then so we all went up to the hotel got ready to go out that night to eat and shop and stuff and then i guess when we were up in the room and my parents and aunt were by the pool still that cute guy lets call him nick walks by and his brother or someone he was with was right by my parents and he asks his brother hes like man did you see where those ...

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SHOULD I GIVE HIM ANOTHER TRY?


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 7:32 pm

i met a boy about a year ago.
and he was really nice
then he was really mean and cocky to me on myspace.
then he broke up with me horribly.
and i cried for three monthes about it.
all though i have only met him twice
now about a year later he wants to meet up again and possibly go out and be boyfreind and girlfreind.
i dont know if he has changed or not
i like him now
should i take the risk?

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HELP ME


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 7:31 pm

ok so i always get the stupid guys who use you and cheat
but a couple weeks ago i met this one guy who was like totally nice and not an asshole and he likes me so i heard
but now i dont know what i should do
because this weekend my freinds parents are going to be gone and were inviteing him over
should i make a move
or something?

HELP
i want to date him so bad.
and i want him to be mine so bad.
but i cant really act myself in front of him.
please
help me.


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Should i take a risk?


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 7:26 pm

okay so theres this guy. were bothlo 13 by the way. But anyways im not sure if he likes me. like he talkes to me on myspace alot and says things like "yes u can trust me. you always can" and we were going to see a scary movie and i told him i was going to hide behind his sholder and if it was okay and hes like " yeah its okay" and said he can always trust me. thats my first question, do you think he likes me? and the second question is, since hes going to a dfferent school next year but the year after that the same highschool, should i even risk it? were good friends but i dont know what to do =( thanks in advance!

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Is it worth it?


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 6:36 pm

My best guy friend from camp is supposed to come back today.I'm 13/f btw. He stayed for 2 extra weeks than me. Actually, we were sorta kinda more than friends because he liked me and I really liked him back. Everyone thought we were going out because we cuddled so much and we spent a lot of time together. He would always kiss me on the cheek and say "I love you". The thing is, he pormised me that he would call me as soon as got home...but I haven't gotten a call yet. I don't think I should call him because I would feel too clingy. I've already sent him like 3 letters. My friends all tell me it isn't worth it because...


- they think its just a summer romance
-he lives 2 towns away (but my mom works in ...

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well...


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 6:28 pm

i really like this guy at my summer day camp. we're both counselors but i'm 14 and he's 15. he's so cute. i knew him from last year because my best friend was going out with his best friend..our best friends met at this camp that i'm going to now. well i don't think he really likes me very much i mean i'm kinda flatchested compared to the other girls at camp i guess.. and im kinda boring i guess..plus he was totally checking out my friend. ive talked to him tons of times but i'm pretty sure he only thinks of me as a friend. my friend (who he was checkin out) doesnt like him and she doesnt know that i like him although it's kind of obvious that i do..at least i think so. well i'm not really sure what my question is but yeah theres my story!...

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does he like me?


Posted Wednesday August 2 2006, 6:22 pm

there's this guy right? well i never got the guts to talk to him when we were in school, and i barely got the guts to talk to him now!we got to know eachother a little better and i made laugh a tons of times! well we talked for an hour. and that was like a week ago. so why hasn't he messaged me?

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