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Serious Question Please Help.
Well Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year. We really dig each other and all that cool stuff. Anywho we've decided we want to have sex. We're both virgins and it just seems right. I'm not on birth control and i'm a little scared the condom could break and i'd be screwed. I don't want kids and he doesn't either. But I can't get on birth control because of my high blood pressure problem. I really need some help as to what all we could do to prevent from anything bad happening. We've been talking about certain products we could use and so on but I think we could really use some other people's oppinions...Please Help.
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I just wanted to add to what the person before me has said. Spermicides are a good idea but there are condoms that aren't suitable to use with spermicide, as it can affect the latex, giving them a higher chance of breakage.
Condoms should say on the boxes whether or not they are suitable to use with spermicide so as long as you check carefully and ensure the condom is used correctly, you should be okay. However, make sure that you know the contact details for your local family planning clinic or the such, just in case the condom does break, so that you are able to get the Morning After Pill. This must be taken within around 72 hours after you have had sex.
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What you guys could use is called Spermacide Cream, it kills sperm. That's the only other thing I can think of you guys to use other than a condom and birth control. Just make sure the condom doesn't have a rip in it before you have sex, and you should be fine. Another way you can help prevent from pregnancy is having him pull out before he comes. Hope I helped :)
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