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This is for the Army Mens Wives / Girlfriends / Fiance`


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 7:58 am

My boyfriend of about two years, just recently got his stationing and will be in Korea for two years, I get to see him in 6 months, but I'm not sure about when I'll get to see if after that. His flight leaves at 5am, which is 3 minutes. I saw him last on Friday night.

Does anyone have any ideas of what I can do to make the time apart easier on us, and our relationship?

And also, what can I do to keep myself busy, and not all depressed. Any help would be amazing.

Thank you so much.
:]

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My boyfriend cheated.


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 5:51 am

I lost my virginity to my boyfriend about 3 weeks ago. he seems crazy about me, i never ever guessed that he would even think about kissing another girl. but last night he kissed one of my good friends, then grabbed her boob. and masterbated like in front of her.

i really dont want ot break up with him but if i have to i will.

what should i do?>

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hmm whats up w/ him?


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 4:49 am

14/f

how weird... his myspace name at first had said his name and then he added "<3`s mary" and his headline also said "i`m takened by mary and happy!!!<3333" and then this girl.. who used to be my bestfriend, but we`re not friends anymore cause she backstabbed me a whole bunch of times.. and yet she still talks shit about me =.=, and also his ex they started talking again, he told me that she was a bitch and that he didn't like her. even when they were friends before he still called her a bitch. the thing that bothers me was that he was acting weird before O.o and he told me that he was "thinking about the past" but then after he told me that the same day i went to his myspace, his ex and ...

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hmmm i`m lost..


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 4:33 am

14/f

i`m not sure if i like my boyfriend still ... because right now, i feel nothin`... but then yet... i feel emotionless.. O.o lik`.. i havent had enough sleep and i dont know how i feel right now. i`m not sure if i like him, or he lost my trust, or i feel like he doesn't love me anymore by the way he acts... sometimes i think that he doesn't love me by the way he acts, but yet when i think about it he does and he acts the same as he usually does. i js dont notice it.. maybe i`m the one that has changed.. i`m not sure if he lost my trust because today he was throwin` a party because his mom wasn't home.. we were textin` back and forth, and he got me mad because he said "my friend bought over 5 chicks.. i think hes drun...

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Older men


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 2:32 am

I have an attraction to older men. Like today, I went to my uncles party and met one of his friends... An older guy who turned out to be really cool and easy to talk to. We had a lot in common, music wise and I just found myself really attracted to him...
But this is common for me, I usualy tend to go after older men. Men who are much much older than me. I'm only 19 and this guy had a 16 year old son already, So i'm guessing he was maybe around 40...
I'm not talking like old wrinkled men either.. so dont think im crazy. lol

Anyway, is this normal & what could be the reason behind it?? cause 20 year old guys just don't do it for me.

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what to do with him...


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 2:18 am

so there's this guy that i've liked for forever!!! and he used to like me... we did "things" and then on our next 3 dates he made up some excuse not to come, or stood me up. ever since then things have been kinda... weird between us (b.t.w. the standing up thing was a really long time ago) (and we were friends before and after things got phsical) anywho, now i'm reaching out to him and he's flirting just like he used to... i still really really really like him... but i don't know what to do... help? anyone? THANK YOU IN ADVANCE!!!!

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Don't Know What To Do


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 1:38 am

hi!I just like to ask what will i do if i had this guy friend that i have a crush on and I'm afraid to let him know that i have feelings for him becuase he might pretend that he like me as well and i'm also afraid that he would just act the same way like before coz before his so "chick boy" what should i do?..

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awkwardness of a kiss


Posted Sunday June 10 2007, 12:48 am

ok so ive been going out with my bf for a few weeks. he is usually a pretty shy guy except around our group of friends, so i was expecting the relationship to not be very physical at all. but to my surprise he seems to always have his arm around me or he holds my hand or gives me hugs now. i really like it and im happy with it =] earlier tonight we were at a party and we went for a walk and he kept randomly stopping to give me hugs and it was adorable - i felt like a kiss could have happened there but i didnt want to go for it because i think there would be a lot of general awkwardness after it. like what do you say? i think just continuing to walk in silence would make both of us uncomfortable. im just wondering in case of a future ...

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16th birthday present for the boyfriend :]


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 11:19 pm

so my boyfriends turning 16 on the 25th, and i have no idea what to get him. It's a big birthday that he's been looking forward to, since he can now drive legally :D
i just want to get something he'll really like.


thank youu :]


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My boyfriend and I


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 11:17 pm

So me and my boyfriend have almost been going out for two months and all we have done was kissed and it was peck
we act really sexual on the internet i guess but in person we act way diffrent tomorrow i am hanging out with him and i told him i was going to bite him like his hand cause i guess we are pretty weird.. haha and he doesnt want to be the sexual couple.. should i act the way i act on the internet really flirtatious??

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girl


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 11:08 pm

so
i like this girl a lot
i've only known her for a few days
and never actually met her
but i've talked to her alot
like...6 or 7 hours collectively yesterday
and so i'm gonna actually meet her next week
and i already think she likes me
but how can i...ya kno..."put the moves" on her, as the guys at school say?
she seems really nice and so i wanna try and get more than a friend out of her...any advice?

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boner


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 11:03 pm

is it bad to get a boner when w/ a girl you like?

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9th grade guy(going into 10th)


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 10:50 pm

ok so im 13/f ...the kid i reallly like is my brothers best friend. they are 14 going into 10th grade. (im going into 8th) whenever he comes over he always stares at me (like when im not even talking) and my brother brings it up to. but how do i know if he like me or not? or how can i kind of get him to like me if he doesnt?
PLEASE HELPPP
thanks =]]

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jamie


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 10:47 pm

sorry if this is long, you might have seen me ask a similar question before, but stick with me:
so this guy, Jamie, and I used to like each other. but we've never actually "gone out". i mean we haven't been boyfriend/girlfriend. but in 6th grade we liked each other openly, and last summer (i just graduated from 8th grade) we played tennis and went to a movie together. so i think at least then he liked me. but the twist is that he lives in hong kong, and he has since half way through 6th grade. so i only get to see him over the summer. so i will be seeing him at tennis and stuff but i really want to have a relationship with him. last time he said i asked stupid questions because i asked how he liked hong kong and stuff....bu...

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am i bisexual?


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 10:35 pm

ok i have a friend (lets call her jace) and shes really sweet to me and we've been really good friends since we were about 10. thing is when i get close to her i feel like ...wow and when she hugs me i feel like im holding the world. also, i wouldnt mind kissing her. i deff dont want to tell her this cause im afraid she'll get freaked out. is that the right thing to do not to tell her? i want to know if you think im bi too. thanks lotss.

P.S. ive NEVER EVER EVER liked another girl before and never can picture myself with one (except jace) cause im the preppy type and 15/f

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good guy


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 10:08 pm

I'm going out with a guy right now. he's a good guy and would never do anything to hurt me, at least not on purpose. we get in wrestling matches sometimes. most times i start it, and we're just tickling each other or something. it usually ends with me pinned but he gets off when i tell him enough. the only issue i have is that usually when i get home i see that i have bruises on my arms. i've gotten quite a few. i've shown him and he's apoligized, yet it keeps happening. i'm just not sure if that's abuse. my moms seen them and my friends and they're all suspicious of him. i tell them it's just accidents, but i can see they don't believe me. i'm wondering if i'm rationalzing it too much or if it is nothing like i keep telling people

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friend keeps falling for this jerk


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 7:27 pm

Well my best freind she doesnt like this guy named jeff but she always wants to have a friends with benefit relationship with him. HES A TOTAL JERK. He is soo mean to her and treats her like crpap doesnt talk to her for ever and then asks to hoookup. Well, idk what to do anymore cuz she doesnt listen to me wen i tell her not to do this and she will regret it. And wen i say this guys a jerk he bad mouths her to the school and all she cares about it making out.

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love triangle?


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 6:39 pm

lets see. i loved my ex of 3 years. but he moved and we drifted. after 2 1/2 years of him being gone, id have to say ive given up hope on us being together. a while back, i liked this guy, nick but timing wasnt right, and i moved on... to steven. steven is perfect for me. so was my ex of 3 years, but steven and i dont have a chance right now. im dating nick at the moment, but it seems like he was more of a bf to me before we were going out than he is now. i still half way love my ex. and i still want to be with steven. but then again, i have feelings for my bf. i dont think that nick and i are going to last. pessimistic, i know. cause im looking for something more than what hes capable of. im looking for the same kind of love that my ex and...

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Grad present for boyfriend


Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 6:25 pm

My boyfriend is graduating and I know we'll be staying together while he's in college but I don't know what to get him. I'm getting him some dorm stuff, which he already knows about, so I want to get him something that he doesn't know about. There isn't a price limit (I'm willing to spend any amount of him) and we've been dating for almost two years. Any ideas?

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Posted Saturday June 9 2007, 6:24 pm

okayy so me and my bf are now on a break during the summer. andd i really really like this guy named justin and ive liked him for atleast two years. well justin has a gf (justin and i are in 8th grade and his gf's in 10th) soo yeah a bunch of girls like him. but anywayss. we've been planning to hang out a lot this summer (even tho he has a gf) and ive given hand jobs before soo im pretty sure ill give him one but he wants to finger me. i think i want him to but im not sure if im too young (14). soo i was wondering what the normal age is to have a guy finger you?? andd i was also wondering if its possible that he would "pop my cherry" while fingering me. thanks soo much in advance <3

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