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awkwardness of a kiss
ok so ive been going out with my bf for a few weeks. he is usually a pretty shy guy except around our group of friends, so i was expecting the relationship to not be very physical at all. but to my surprise he seems to always have his arm around me or he holds my hand or gives me hugs now. i really like it and im happy with it =] earlier tonight we were at a party and we went for a walk and he kept randomly stopping to give me hugs and it was adorable - i felt like a kiss could have happened there but i didnt want to go for it because i think there would be a lot of general awkwardness after it. like what do you say? i think just continuing to walk in silence would make both of us uncomfortable. im just wondering in case of a future incidence with this. thanks (oh and im 15/f hes 15/m)
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You sound very mature for your age. If I were you, I'd go with my instincts. Instead of worrying about tomorrow or worrying about any future reaction he might or might not have, just enjoy the moment. If kissing him felt appropriate to you at the time, you should have kissed him.
Lets look at the best and worst case scenarios:
The best case scenario is that he digs the kiss and digs you. That'd be awesome. The worst case scenario is that it is a little awkward like you anticipated, and he's uncomfortable with you making the first move - even that's not such a bad thing. You can use it to your advantage.
If it does make things awkward, now you know for sure what kind of girl he wants and you can choose how to handle any future interactions with him based on that knowledge. Maybe you don't wanna be submissive, maybe you do - the point is that you'll know where he stands and you can choose what to do next.
Oh, and if you do decide to kiss him, don't worry about what to say after the kiss. That cute moment of uncertainty is potentially one of the most magical moments you may experience. Sometimes in life, nothing needs to be said at all. Let your heartbeat and the butterflies in your stomach do all the talking for you.
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