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what should I do?


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 6:09 pm

I love this guy so much. He had surgury the other day and we've been through the whole breakup makeup thing ever since. But for some reason I can eat or sleep and i'm just exahusted. I've tried sleeping pills and music even sleeping somewhere different. As far as eating goes I can't eat anything without getting sick after. I know that its cause of him cause i've been to the doctor about it and she said that there's nothing medicaly wrong with me. Plz help me.

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promise ring


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 6:05 pm

17/m

ok so me and my girlfriend are reaching out 6 month. and i love her. she is my first love. and well i want to get her a promise ring. but do all promise rings mean "i want to be with you forever"? i mean i want to give her a promise ring and make 2 promises
1. that i will do whatever i can to be with her
and 2. that i will wait for marrige for sex (i know that would mean alot to her)

i mean we have said that we want to be together forever and we hope to get married someday
but you never know what can happen so i would like to make those promises insted.
is that okay or do promise rings always have to me "forever"?

please helppp

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this guy...


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 5:52 pm

f/14
k well i know this guy and he was my first kiss and a year later the second guy i gave it up to. he has a girl now but's still trying to get with me. then i told him that me and my friends wanted to kick it with him & his friends in the morning and he told me not to tell my friend that he has a girlfriend. i know he's trying to get with her and i'm sick of him trying to cheat on his girl. so what do i do? i mean me and my friend want to hang out with him because he has friends that i like but do i still do it when he's just bein a player? please help
and thanks! =]

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confused


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 5:14 pm

hi, I just moved and in my old town I really liked this boy for 4 years, but I didn't ask him out. But, now that I moved, I like this other boy. I know that noone knows about me in my new school and I should ask him out, but this school is almost just like my old school. I really don't know what to do. Should I ask one of them out? And, I've never asked a boy out before, so what do I do? PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE help me! thanks SOOO much!

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whats wrong with me?


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 4:21 pm

ok im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend.
my friends say that im gorgeous.
and so do some guys.
im not sure if i agree with them.
but that may sound like i dont have confidence.
but i have alot... im really outgoing.
kinda popular.
and im seriously not tryingn to brag
i just want to know your opion.
but why havent i ever had a boyfriend.
almost everyguy i like never likes me back.
ne advise?
thanks so much
and dont be mean

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phone calls


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 4:08 pm

do you believe in saying that boys have to call girls first? because if a girl alwyas calls the boy first, that might seem a bit too eager or desperate or something. what would you do if you like a guy and you want to talk to him? would you wait?

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guy help


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 3:44 pm

okay so i met this awesome guy on line whos like 6 years older them me and WAY more experienced..so on sunday i'm going to his house and just in case it leads to the bedroom what should i do (virgin) i mean like what do guys like..how do u act..??

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valentine's day card


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 3:05 pm

I know it's like so far away from Feb. 14th right now, but I really want to give a Valentine's Day card to my friend Jon. I want to write something sweet short and witty but I just don't know what I could write! I like him so much I'm planning this months ahead so it'll be perfect. Does anyone have any ideas?

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Places to go to hang out with guys


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 2:02 pm

So I am 14 and i took your advice that was in order to get more guy friends i should ask them for there numbers etc. and invite them to go places with my friends. All my friends are 15 and we are sophmores my birthday is in december, so i was just wondering what are some good places to go to hang out. I want to interact with them, so I dont want to go to the movies or someplace you can't interact. A lot of people say restaurants but i would rather do something more fun. So if possible can you give me a few places that you feel is a good place to hang out with a group of about 12 people coed! Thanks so much

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dating/friend


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 8:10 am

If been with my boyfriend on and of for the last 2 1/2 years. There was a really good friend i had that i meet before my boyfriend. We hooked up before i even meet my boyfriend so anyway i really miss this friend he never wanted a girlfriend like everrr and i really liked him alot. So anyway he has a girlfriend now and he still talks to me all the time. In school he comes up behind me and gives me big hugs and if i see him and dont say anything or give him a hug and he texts me and says oh whats up with the that look or, why didnt u give me a hug i really wanted a hug. And a few times he asked if i missed him. Of course i said yeah and then he kind of started being a jerk and was like ash your jealous of me and my girlfriend arent u trying ...

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how can i get over this guy


Posted Friday September 14 2007, 4:26 am

hey everyone if your reading this i so totally appreaciate it.... so im 13 this boys 16 i really lke him and i mean alot ive had crushes before and stuff but him,.. he lasted for about a year but you see everyone tells me that he takes me more as a sister i mean you see tehe thing is we hang out alot and he really likes me alot seriosuly and everyone thinks he really cares about me and that we are really close and you see people also say that he has this flirty things when it comes to girls and i dont think he notices it i mean its not my fault i started to like him you kno hwat i mean anyway so the people that told me that he takes me more than a sister i came back and i asked them im like "how would you kno he took me more like a si...

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all-a-sudden annoying?


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:51 pm

i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years and three months. we're perfect and everyone loves us and our relationship. we don't have sex because we don't want to take the risks (being seniors in high school with our whole lives in front of us). but we do lots of other sexual stuff. anyway, lately, he's been so.. annoying, as much as i hate to say it. i've always known he's been less mature than me. but for about a month or so it seems like i'm so much more mature than him. he talks about the most random, stupid stuff, and i get disinterested and annoyed, making him wonder what's wrong, and i can't tell him that i think he's annoying. so i just say nothing and we're off to the next stupid subject.

my point is, has anyone...

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should i tell him?


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:47 pm

i've been dating this kid brian for awhile and i really like him but the other day when i was hanging out w/ my friends i cheated on him with an older guy. my friends told the guy i had never made out before so he stuck his tongue in my mouth and wanting to get it over with, i made out with him. i don't know what to do.. should i tell brian or just not tell him and never let it happen again? help me!!! i'm so confused!! MUCH APPRECIATION!

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promise ring vs. engagment


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:40 pm

whats the difference between a promise ring and an engagment ring ?

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bad dream.


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:13 pm

last night i had a very bad dream involving my boyfriend and my best friend. i caught them having sex in the shower. and of course i beat the hell out of her. i started crying and forgave him. which i know is stupid. because once a cheater always a cheater, right? why am i having these dreams. i heard that dreams come true most of the time. how can i prevent this? i would hate to lose him & my best friend. i love this guy so much, more then anything in the world. he means so much to me. i trust him with alot of things. but someone told me that he has been cheating on me within the past 2 months. i also got a phone call from a girl and told me that he had sex with her. i confronted him about it, but of course he said no. how do i know th...

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Do I Love Him?


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 10:09 pm

How do you know if you love someone? I think I love my bgf, but how can I be sure? We both like each other, but can't have a relationship now (complicated). I think I may love him tho actually I think I do because I mean I'm a very emotional person and I love all my friends and stuff and loving people isn't very hard for me (like friend wise) but I think I love him. I love him as a very good friend at least. Also if you have been best friends with a boy for a while and then you date is it kind of weird to start hugging and stuff. When you haven't for so long? And we've watched and supported each other in other relationships with each others best friends. So if/when we date is it weird to start hugging and stuff? Thanks so much! And i rate.

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Ew.


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 9:34 pm

I'll make my story short. I like this boy, and no I'm not an immature little brat who's too young to date. Anywho, I have a crush on this boy very much and this guy rejects me saying that he doesn't feel that way about me. But he's been hanging out with everyday and says he misses me and hugs me plenty of times. I like him so much but I really want him to like me back but all I get from him is that he says I'm like his little sister which is totally embarrassing and lame. I don't know how to get this guy to like me, when he likes to hang out with me all ready, and I don't get why he wouldn't like me! It's just hard and I need someone's help. How would I make this guy like me more than a little sister? He's not like any other guys. ...

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love SQUARE!


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 9:14 pm

15 / F

I'm in a square with female best friend, a boy that likes me, and the boy that likes me's best friend, who is my crush. Yes, it is a very messed up square. My crush claims he likes a girl who is NOT my best friend, but I feel like he likes my best friend more than he likes me. I am very, VERY jealous. She's known him for a much shorter amount of time, yet he's nicer to her, AND they talk through more than one form of communication. I feel very sad & can't talk to anyone about it. NO ONE IN THE SQUARE knows i like him, or even that I like ANYONE. I can't simply tell my friend to stop being all over him because she has no idea i like him. I just need to find a way to overcome my jealousy. I've already attemp...

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potential relationship??


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:59 pm

oooook.so..i have this one friend..i've been friends with him for as long as i can remember..&& every single flipping year i always get the biggest crush on him..i've told him before but it was just like blah..but anyway.i'm really starting to like him again.we flirt like non stop whenever we're together.he's just the type of guy that i can just be chill around.but my problem is that he's kinda shy && i dno.he acts like he likes me.like today he wanted me to give him a low-five so i did && he kinda just held my hand there..so i dnooo.i'm wondering what i should do.i don't exactly know how to tell him.you know??but i dno.can someone please help me??

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what do you think!?!?


Posted Thursday September 13 2007, 8:56 pm

i had sex for the first time in 18months about a week ago. with a guy i met at a bar it was a one night stand thing and we used the pull out method 2 times in a row its been a week and my boobs are tender when i found out i was pg with my daughter it was 2 weeks after i had sex and my boobs very very full and i couldnt even touch them... do you think i can be pregnet??? i dont go to the bathroom right after words i think i did the second time and he did the second time to.... i doont no what to think... or do....

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