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k well i know this guy and he was my first kiss and a year later the second guy i gave it up to. he has a girl now but's still trying to get with me. then i told him that me and my friends wanted to kick it with him & his friends in the morning and he told me not to tell my friend that he has a girlfriend. i know he's trying to get with her and i'm sick of him trying to cheat on his girl. so what do i do? i mean me and my friend want to hang out with him because he has friends that i like but do i still do it when he's just bein a player? please help
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[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? alex_ABC_123 answered Saturday September 15 2007, 6:05 pm: I would tell his girlfriend. It is her right to know what he is doing behind her back. You could maybe tell her not to tell him that you told her because you still wanna be friends with him. But maybe before you confront the girlfriend, go up to him and talk about it and tell him that he really needs to make a decision on who he wants to date, because that is not how he should treat a girl! So tell him to either dump the one he's with now or to wait til' you break up with her then go after your friend. He might get a little mad at you for that but trust me, he will come to his senses and do the right thing as long as you talk to him. If nobody ever chats with him about it, he will think that either nobody notices or that they just don't care so he will just do that more and more and more and hurt poor innocent girls. Hope this helps! [ alex_ABC_123's advice column | Ask alex_ABC_123 A Question ]
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