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AM I TOXIC?


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 9:59 pm

okay i no i dont smell and i no my breath isnt bad because I have hung out with boys before and their basically my best friends but i tend to go boy crazy and i like 3 guys at once and its hard so when the popular kids are sluts and whores and im not at all the boys tend not to even want to touch me like a hug. I get mad and i dont know am i toxic im in eighth grade and im going to highschool with this kid ive liked sense preschool because of family friends but he is nice but i dont think he is interested. How do I know if he likes me? Please help and sorry if its long.
sorry for the grammer im in a rush.!
idont think this matters but im 13/f.

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so much it hurts.


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:48 pm

i like him so much it hurts.
i'm a pretty shy girl, so i don't know how to
tell my boyfriend exactly how much i like him.

any ideas?


thanks in advance. :]

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love, drama?


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:10 pm

15/f well i was going out with this guy (17/m) and he was perfect in every way and we really did love each other and we went out for about 5 months everything was perfect and then my cousin (14/f) started hanging around and crap with him and it got so crazy and we broke up and he went out with her but he told me today after 2 weeks of them going out that he made the biggest mistake of his life and he didnt no what he was thinking and he i can tell really is sorry. and if this was any other girl besides my cousin i would of course take him back but my cousin "thinks shes in love" with him but i dont think so because hes really mature and she just isnt like she said i love you to him like 5 minutes after they started going out and s...

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OMG IF U DONT OPEN THIS I WILL DIE


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:07 pm

not really but please please help



ok well i used to have this boyfriend last year, we broke up in december and through the summer,( though i didnt see him that much) we were still friendly i guess.. so now schools started and he acts like im not even there.. some times even mean..
i really miss him, everytime i look at him i remember all the cute things we used to do, i really want to go back out with himm..
soo
how can i let him know i like him ?
and when and how should i tell him i still like him and i want to go out with him ??

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cheating?


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:06 pm

how do you when boyfriend is cheating on you...just wondering

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2 month-versary


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:04 pm

coming up on our two month-versary. Both seniors in high school. I (male) was planning on placing two red roses in her locker, with a little note saying something about two roses, two months and maybe a heart of some sort. Another idea, although it may be over the top, would be placing 2 dozen roses, and saying, 2 two months, 2 roses, 2 *dozen roses :-D that might be fun because then when our 3 month comes I can really surprise her with 3, 3 dozen roses, or somthing down the road even more surprising, for example. 3 - 300 hearts!

these are just a few ideas, anything else? What have some of you girls had done for you. I like to go big, and really like bi reactions, although they would be just as pleasent with the smaller items, its the significance of the thought ;)

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another guy...... more.


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 7:38 pm

ok you gave me advice earlier, i think like last week, and i need more. see, tim (the guy i like) i found out he likes me. i really like him and i think hes what i want in a boyfriend. BUT i still love my boyfriend very much and i love that hes ok with all my flaws and hes sexi, and can be so sweet. but tim never stops making me smile and i cant get him out of my head. but i have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and he makes me happy but i cant stand that fact that he hates my attitude and that hes such a jerk!! i dont know what to do. i dont want to hurt my boyfriend but i dont want to miss out just in case tim is the guy im supposed to be with. the biggest fear in my life is ending up with someone im not supposed to be with. i...

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which guy should i chose?


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 7:21 pm

Okay i feel a little bad writing this because its not really a problem to have to choose between two guys, i am just confused and in need of some advice. okay so there is Boy 1 and him and i have liked eachother for about two years. We have hooked up before and hang out all the time. People pretty much consider us still together now. But the thing is, even though i am really happy the way my relationship is going with boy 1 (and we are not "going out" we just like.. know we like eachother and stuff) highschool started like amonth ago. I am a freshman and i met this sophomore guy that my friend said thought i was like attractive. He started talking to me and i find that im sort of attracted to him (boy 2) at the same time as being ...

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Flirty


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 6:41 pm

i know this might be a dumb question, but how can you be more flirty??i mean, i have never had a bf and i just wish i could. I just want to be more outgoing and more flirty and stuff but i just don't know how. so can you please juust give me some advice on anything that has to do with being flirty with a guy or how to get a guy or somthing. thanks

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boy confusion!


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 6:06 pm

okay, so there's two boys that have my head completely spinning!

..well, to start off with, ive been dating this kid ryan for about two weeks now. Everythings fine and dandy

but my old crush mark likes me out of random. Me and him are going to homecomming together, and im extremely happy (this is b/c ryan doesn't want to go, and is aware im going w/ mark)

well, mark likes me. and im starting to get the feeling i like him as well..

only problem?

ryan. idk what to do, b/c im dating and really like ryan, but when i see mark, i get this totally different feeling, and like him also.

i like mark, but dont want to leave ryan, bc i like him as well
...

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why am i thinking about him again?!


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 5:49 pm

earlier in the year, around february i liked my best guy friend but he was going out with someone, then he broke up and me and him became friends with benefits. a lot of drama started because of it and i didn't like him anymore so we became just friends. then suddenly we started the friends with benefits thing again and a month later he started going back out with his ex. i was totally cool with it but two nights ago i had a dream about him where we were going out and now im starting to like him again. liking him could cause a lot of drama that i really don't need. i need to get him off my mind. help!

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the freshman boyyy


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 4:42 pm

im having some boy troubles here :] ok so i am 15/f and im in tenth grade, just to let you know. yeah so i have asked a bunch of my friends about this, and they're all giving me their opinions, but id like some more pleassse. ok so its kind of long, and i will love you if you read it and help meeee:

i dont know how to start this off but here it goes. as i told you, im in tenth grade, and theres this really cute boy in ninth grade. we have two classes together but its totally awkward. i really like him and im pretty sure he likes me, this is what i need your opinion on. he's given me some signs, but im not too good with this whole boyfriend girlfriend thing, but this kid is so cute. ok well we have lunch together, which is lun...

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Space from my husband


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 11:23 am

The only way I know how to handle an argument with my husband is to ignor him and sleep in the other room, he does not care or listen to a word I say and our communication sucks. We do not want a divorce so about twice a month this we ignor and I sleep in another room until we both feel comfortable with each other again and then two weeks later we do the same thing again, he also holds me down with money, because I am a stay at home mom and I am not to worried with that because my name is on the account, although he does threaten to take all of the money out and leave with nothing, need I say this is ONLY a threat and he never follow thru, I know its a cyle we are going thru and I am fed up!!! By the way we have a 4 year old that we try r...

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Am i being easy?


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 2:52 am

okay i met this guy 10 days ago and hes cute,nice and quiet guy i thought he was cute and he was walking on the hallway so 1st time i tried talk to him by saying i saw him on myspace and after that we started talking and he dropped me off to my class, and after that we keep saying hi to eachother and we began hugging and poking eacother on the stomach and now he hugs me really tight and sometimes when he hugs me he puts my head on his chest when we see eachother and he pokes me on the stomach and stuff and he started hangout with me and my friends and when i sit somewhere else he says"sit here" next to him and he was trying to hold my hand by asking whos hand is bigger. and i like him too but the thing is do you think we're going ...

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no note


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 1:39 am

Well I gotten no note or any word about my question to her, I saw her on Tuesday at class and we talked about work and school but not the subject of the note. We joke around a little about other stuff and she seems herself in a happy mood. The thing is I am thinking if she did read the letter or not. I hand it to her and she open it to read but I told her to read it later and she said okay and in the note I said write me back as soon as you can. It’s been 4 days that she had the letter why didn’t she give me a reply back? At least she can just write me back about it instead of not saying anything. I didn’t ask her if she read it but what should I do wait for her reply or ask her? I just want a simple yes or no not an answer of not saying anything.


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really upset


Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 12:54 am

alright.. so ever since i told my boyfriend that i wanted to wait awhile to have sex.. it seems like things have really changed.. when we first started dating he always called me and when we were together he would tell me that im beautiful and sweet and perfect.. he even told me that he loved me.. but now he NEVER says nething like that.. do you tihnk its because of sex? i mean i know a lot of you girls out there have boyfriends.. and dont oyu think its weird if your boyfriend came over .. played his psp for an hr and then said he had to leave in an hr to play cards.. and said that he would call you later.. and doesnt call you the next day til 3:30? and then we talked at 3:30 for about 5 min and he said he would call me back and he never di...

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Get him out of my mind


Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 11:16 pm

How do I get my ex boyfriend of seven months out of my mind. I think about him three dozen times a day, it pisses me off more then ever when he goes out of his way to flirt in front of me. I can't take it, its like he still controls me. Seven months of emotional abuse I know have to talk to a counseler about! Why does he get to be the one that ended it so easily!? How do I get over him and on with my life?

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Karl


Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 9:52 pm

15/f

okay soo KARL acts like he likes me.
I'm not positive if he does..
im kinda scared to like someone..or date anyone..
(p.s. he kinda told my friends he does..)
my last boyfriend claimed he loved me.
but it was only b/c i boobs, a butt, a cooter..
but he liked everyone.
should i let myself like him?
b/c im soo hesatant. i really want to like him
but what if it turns out like the last one.
plus..one reason im so unsure is b/c my really good friend dated him awhile back and it didnt work out soo..should i talk to him?
well i kinda already am.but you know what i mean!

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I can't let go.


Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 9:38 pm

I like this girl who used to like me. I missed my chance to ask her out and she moved on. The problem is, I haven't. I've never really had a short crush, they always last at least a few years. I feel very strong affection for her. We are still friends, and she knows how I feel about her, along with the rest of our friends. I am made fun of for it, it usually doesn't bother me, but sometimes does. Nobody seems to understand how I feel about her, everyone just keeps telling me to "like someone else, it's not that hard." What should I do?

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He has a **GF**


Posted Tuesday September 25 2007, 9:15 pm

Okay JJ and I were what you would call flirting..
He'd stop dead infront of me and id like chilmb his back and it was all funny. Then today he was helping me nail something and I was hammering and he was like AHH u shouldnt have a hammer.. AHh and flincing and it was soooo funny i couldnt help laughing! weel ogan (BITCHHHHH) came by and was aww how cute!!! and JJ like immeidantly was like I HAVE A Gf and went into every detail known to man about her to me.
i told becky and she was like he might be trying to make u jealsoe...
ITS WORKING
how do i know if hes just making this upp like the little child he is.. and if i know hes flirting with me...

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