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Get him out of my mind
How do I get my ex boyfriend of seven months out of my mind. I think about him three dozen times a day, it pisses me off more then ever when he goes out of his way to flirt in front of me. I can't take it, its like he still controls me. Seven months of emotional abuse I know have to talk to a counseler about! Why does he get to be the one that ended it so easily!? How do I get over him and on with my life?
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Time.
There really is no other solution. I had a two year relationship end over six months ago, and he still creeps into my brain sometimes, although I have barely spoken to him since.
It's only human. You can't turn your emotions off like a lightswitch. He probably can't either (unless he is sub-human... but that is neither here nor there.)
Don't beat yourself up over your feelings.
Ignore and avoid him as best as you can.
As new people and activities come into your life, you will find it easier to forget about him and he will slowly have less and less influence over you. You don't need to dive into a new guy! Just occupy yourself! Bake something, make a craft or find a project or club at school that you can really get into.
Your head is the right place: You know he shouldn't have power and you know he's just a dick. Give your heart some time. It will catch up.
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Find another boyfriend, or someone who you love to spend time with. He is messing with you, and that is totally unacceptable and rude. You and everyone else deserves someone better than that. Plus, he's not over you. He likes to make you feel jealous and like you want him back; it makes him feel superior. Don't give him the attention he wants. Don't look at him as your ex, but as a regular bully. How would you act with a bully? Ignore them right? Then do just that. Best of luck.
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