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love, drama?


Question Posted Wednesday September 26 2007, 8:10 pm

15/f well i was going out with this guy (17/m) and he was perfect in every way and we really did love each other and we went out for about 5 months everything was perfect and then my cousin (14/f) started hanging around and crap with him and it got so crazy and we broke up and he went out with her but he told me today after 2 weeks of them going out that he made the biggest mistake of his life and he didnt no what he was thinking and he i can tell really is sorry. and if this was any other girl besides my cousin i would of course take him back but my cousin "thinks shes in love" with him but i dont think so because hes really mature and she just isnt like she said i love you to him like 5 minutes after they started going out and she has her mind on it that she is really in love with him, and i would feel bad because this would be her first heart brake but im extremely in love with this boy and she just got herself in the middle of our relationship... so i just want to know what other people would do if they were in my shoes?

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Kaddy answered Friday September 28 2007, 1:06 am:
It doesn't seem like your cousin really took in your feelings, when she started going out with him.

And if he says its the biggeset mistake of his life, then it sounds like he would brake up with her anyways.

Think this all through. Carefully, so its as painless as possible.

Consider everyones feelsings, and the choice is all up to you, and your ex.

Good luck.

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melindabeckley answered Friday September 28 2007, 12:07 am:
If I were you I'd give your ex a second chance. It sounds like your cousin didnt take your feelings into consideration when she went for your guy. If shes immature and telling him that she loves him when she really doesnt the chances are she wont be too crushed if they brake up because shes not truely in love. She'll get over it when she finds someone she really loves.
If your ex is truely sorry and you decide to get back together with him I suggest you make him prove that he's loyal and true and wont hurt you again. Dont set yourself up for heartbrake. If you really love the guy and you know hes an honest person then go for it. Do what makes you happy.

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