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i'm so alone.


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 9:04 pm

I'm sixteen-female

I'm so lonely lately, I honestly dont know how to put myself out there, I dont know how to meet guys. I dont know what to do. There is a guy I like, but I dont know if he even likes me, we dont even know each other formally. I went into where he works, and we had a mini conversation that included a lot of smiles. But really I cant tell from that. I plan on going back to that store, just to see if I can talk to him, but I'll be "buying" something, so I can talk to him.

Anyways, the point is,
I dont know how to tell if a guy likes you,
I dont even know if that guy I like up there has a girlfriend. I'm sick of being by myself.

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hookup help?


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 9:00 pm

i'm fourteen, female.
so i hooked up with my best friend who i had liked for a good five months last weekend. and he made the first move and it was a lovely experience. but now it's realllly awkward when we talk and he told me he already likes this other girl and asked me for advice on how to get her.
i don't even need a relationship with him, i just miss him physically. i'm hanging out with him and his best friend and my best friend [the two best friends are semidating, so they'll be hooking up] and i want to hook up with him then...any ideas on how to make him make a move? and to get him to realize i don't want a boyfriend, but that i just want to hookup?

and any real-life tips to make him want to kiss me again? and again and again(:

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What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas??


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 8:45 pm

17. F.
Hey! Christmas is coming up soon, so I was wondering what I should get my boyfriend. Of course he replied with the standard “Nothing; all I want is you” response when I asked him, but I know better that that! Last month for his birthday I painted him a picture and he really appreciated it, but I know I can’t just do the same thing again. He’s a really tech-savvy guy—is basically in love with The Apple Store—but I don’t know the first thing about technology. Nor do I have the money for that! He’s also extremely well read, so I’m afraid that any book I get him he would have already read before. (The same goes for movies!) I have, though, thought about getting him a nice shirt or something, but I’m afraid tha...

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boyfriend .


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 7:39 pm

ok today me and my boyfriend have been going out for 9 months , we've had major ups and downs . but latley its just been downs , we love each other very much ; but we are so jelous its creating problems more nad more everyday , i cant even remember the last time we've went the WH0LE day with out one argument . its eaither always over some girl or some boy . we are very jelous & it kills me , we call each other bitches and ass holes it breaks my heart . we know we both love each other very much but we need help . i mean reall good advice . we both dont want this to end but its not lookin good .

help <3


thnks .

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confused


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 7:24 pm

alright so this guy i kinda like(adam) me and him were talking about stuff and this kid that is obsessed with me(jason) happens to be adams best friend and and i promised adam i wouldnt tell anyone what we were talking about, and jason called me and like tricked me into telling him waht we were talking about, jason told me that adam said he didnt like me and he was a man whore and just wanted sex and so i got pissed and told him what we were talking about but the stuff jason said isnt true.. and now adam is pissed off at me and wont talk to me and i dont know what to do because i really like him....


what can i say to him? or what should i do?

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wedding help!


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 6:53 pm

does anyone know of a site where you can design you own wedding?

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How can I be more than just friends???


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 6:03 pm

gender: F
age: 13

So i really like this guy.
lets call him C
But we are best friends
I want to show him how fun i really am
i want to become more than jsut friends
everyone thinks that we make such a cute couple
why wont he just try going out with me
it seems like he really likes me
but he says he doesn't

anyway here is the story
♥ Last friday my school had a dance. So I didn't hang out with C, but my other friends. So M, one of C's friends randomly comes up to me and asks me what i think of C. I told him that i use to like C but i didn't anymore because this was to
awkward. then M walked away and told C. What do i do... why di...

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how do i say this?


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 5:37 pm

k, well i really like this guy. and i've liked him since like the end of last school year on and off, but right now i like him more than ever and i have a pretty good feeling he likes me back. and i have been giving hints that i like him but one of my ex's told him that i still liked him (the ex) but i don't i have zero feelings left for him and i told him that i didnt, and he asked me who i liked instead then, and i was like i'm surprised you don't know and well i dont really remember but i pretty much came out and told him that i liked him. but, i want to know for sure if he likes me or not. but i don't wanna like come out and ask him, so my main questions here are how do i find out if he likes me, and if he does whats the next step i take.
thanks in advance

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does he like it?


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 1:50 pm

ive been reall really serious with my b/f for over a year now. but i dont know what to get him for christmas.

ive gotten him:specially made chocolates,cards, favorite deserts,dinner and a movie,a watch, money,pj pants,made dinner.
i dont know what to get him for christmas.

i want to get him something hell use and like.
i want it to be something hell remember me by.
maybe like a piece of guy jewelery,but no rings! i need something like a dog tag or something.any ideas??(doesnt have to be jewelery.)

i want to do something special like after we give gifts,like have sexy lingerie on under some really cute clothes,and like give him a strip tease. any ideas and tips on how to do ...

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he forgot my birthday.


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 12:29 pm

my boyfriend forgot my birthday. i expected not to get anything, i told him i didn't want anything. but i at least expected him to tell me "happy birthday." i really do love him, but i don't know what to do. this really hurt.

i'm definately going to confront him about it, but how harsh should i be? very harsh? just barely letting it go? should i give him another chance?

thanks in advance. (:

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flirty goodnight message


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 10:18 am

do you know a sms/text message i can send my boyfiend at night that is flirty, cute, suggestive ...u know to keep him thinking at night or put a smile in his face
thanks

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What To Talk About???


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 6:16 am

Hey,

I've been in a girls school all my life and am now in Uni and I find myself very 'left out' even when I'm in a big group of friends (boys and girls) hanging out. I noticed that this happens because I mostly have nothing much to say and that scares the hell out of me. It makes me feel so stupid at times. With girls, especially, those I know and can relate to, I dont have trouble, am usually the clown of the group but I've got nothing to say to guys at all.

And best of all, I've this long crush that has become more than a crush now and when he comes around I go completely speechless. And he's a quirt type too, so that doesn't help at all, as I've to be the one who initiates the conversation. So, basically w...

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why did he break up with me if...?


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 4:15 am

me and my bf is having a complicated problem is going on, and he ask me if i want to have break/cool off and he said"to see if we're gonna miss each other but im missing you already". So he said to set the date and i was like "no you" but he wanted me to set a date how long we're gonna take in our relationship so i said 2 and a half week (but we have a winter break so its gonna be 4 week and a half) and he said "okay..thats too long" and "make it shorter" but i said no its 2 weeks and a half and then next day he came up to me saying the cool off wont work and i was like "you planned it" and he was like"but its too long because of the winter break" and i said "why are you chang...

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what do i do


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 2:18 am

well theres this kid aj, and we both said we liked eachother a couple weeks ago, and then we stopped talking for a little and i talked to him today for kinda a while but still it was weird. and i still like him alot, so how do you think i can find out if he still likes me?

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Stuck and Confused


Posted Sunday December 9 2007, 12:10 am

My guy friend kept joking around with me, saying "So when are we gonna make out?" Then actually lip-kissed me!
I always thought he was only joking. That guy has a gf he's not serious about. They've only kissed a bit so far and danced, and have been together for like 2 months. He was completely honest with me when he said things like "Dance with me then" and "I love you cuz you're crazy awesome" and "i like your smile too, when you actually do smile". he always smiled at me alot, stared whenever i talked and never looked away, he hugged me every time we parted for class at school, put his head on my head when i put it on his shoulder, complimented sometimes, etc. I want to go out with him for a ...

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all grls life


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 11:30 pm

i go to an all girls hs... i cant take all girls all the time!
how do i meet guys?
im not 'hot' by standard terms so i cant do it through like facebook or whatever

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This guy


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 10:16 pm

I really like this guy & I guess he kinda knows but whatever. He is my best friend, and ive gotten to know him alot.

Okkkay, well he has a girlfriend & he sent me a text asking me if I has feelings for him and I told him I didnt want to disrespect his gf but that I do have feelings for him.
Then he sent me a txt saying he didnt want to be with her, and like 2 days later he broke up with her.

We hung out alot, then one day he just ditched me for this other girl and they hooked up. & I was SOOOO PISSED, but then I got over it.

Now him and his old gf are back together but he still flirts with me and shit. He acts like he doesnt even have a gf.

I want to know what to do about this guy.


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first kiss


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 9:35 pm

14.f

i have not had my first kiss yet, but many boys like me and i have a feeling i will get it soon.

but.. many people tell me i intimidate guys because of my beauty. i cause guys to think, "i don't have a chance with her, she's too good for me" because of my looks. everyone GASPS when they find out i haven't had my first kiss yet. but honestly, i don't want to rush it. i want it to be with someone special.

because of this, i have no idea how to kiss a guy. i tried googling and watching videos and such, but i just don't know. i've heard that you just have to let it flow, go with it ... but i'm afraid a really attractive guy will come along and like me and i'll go to kiss him and ...

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Guys are confusing


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 9:01 pm

So this kid likes me. But i heard this other girl likes him, and he likes or liked her back .. im not sure. But i know she still does. And I don't know how long he's liked me for.. he knows my best friend because they went to school together and he texts her all the time to find out if i like him back .. but thats all he texts her about..&he also texted my other friend that he knows i talk to all the time to find out if i like him. he says we should hang out soon and all that -- last night my 2 friends told me that they only think he likes me because i drink& smoke .. and he that he thinks im easy .. but he's a really nice kid and i wouldnt expect him to only like a girl for that reason.. -- do you think he likes me or .. ?

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dunno if he still feels the same way


Posted Saturday December 8 2007, 8:57 pm

15/f
over the summer, me and this boy Cody were "talking" and i was completely in love with him and i hate when people throw that word around. i mean we were on the phone till like three or four in there was one time we were on the phone for seven hours straight. : )and he said he loved me too. well we slowly stopped talking. then a lil after school started he started dating this other girl Danielle again. they had dated before, but they broke up because she started this fake rumor about how he got her pregnant when they didnt even do anything. well i got kind of mad at him for obvious reasons. well he called me one day and said that he didnt want me to be mad at him and wanted to work out and stuff like that. then he said ...

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