i have not had my first kiss yet, but many boys like me and i have a feeling i will get it soon.
but.. many people tell me i intimidate guys because of my beauty. i cause guys to think, "i don't have a chance with her, she's too good for me" because of my looks. everyone GASPS when they find out i haven't had my first kiss yet. but honestly, i don't want to rush it. i want it to be with someone special.
because of this, i have no idea how to kiss a guy. i tried googling and watching videos and such, but i just don't know. i've heard that you just have to let it flow, go with it ... but i'm afraid a really attractive guy will come along and like me and i'll go to kiss him and mess it up.
can someone make me feel better? i've read somewhere that girls have asked their guyfriends to teach them how to kiss. is that socially acceptable?
MiCheLLeKaYLa06 answered Sunday December 9 2007, 1:35 pm: you should wait for some one special.
dont rush just because everyone else has or because people expect you to have had your first kiss just because your pretty. (just because your pretty doesnt make you a whore who makes out with everyone.:) )
heres something you could try when you have your first kiss,something i know my b/f likes. when your kissing him run your hand through his hair and just play with it, if he doesnt have hair put your hands around him ,maybe around his neck.
dont worry about messing it up when people get nervous they normally get clumsy. its normal and you and the guy should be able just to laugh it off.
and if your together for a long time (or not,)the both of you will always have something to remember each other by. if your together for awhile you can always tease each other about it.
here are 2 good tips:
*try to make sure if he tilts his head left tilt yours right- this way you dont bump heads.
*dont just shove your tongue in his mouth or down his throat.
teardrops7 answered Sunday December 9 2007, 9:27 am: honey in this world anything is acceptable. i wouldnt do it but some girls practice on their best friends, even if they are girls.
But really you just have to let it flow. First kisses are always scary and are always bound determined to screw up and be embarrasing. But thats life. One night just get up your confidence and go for it. You not him. It gives it a twist dont you think?? if your scared and hes scared then that leaves it up to you!
xoxo
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