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EMO HELP PLS
WARNING LONG I like black.I weir black nail polish and alot of black eyeliner.In a few days im dieing my bangs that hang in my eyes black to.Now i have had my hair pink,purple,green,blue,red and other colors at different times so people already think im weird also im emo and i get made fun of because i used to cut and i dont think people know but they might it was a big thing with screming and trowing things around (mostly by me) and so people no somthing happened and because im emo that what they think it is true but still.i think im ugly and i hate myself i get jelous easly realy easly also i think i might be bi.whats so bad about being emo being different.i no people are gonna hate me and think im weird but im not sure what my problem is anymore it was sposed to be about my hair but now i think i may have bigger problems.i dont eat until i start shaking alot. im a 13 female who feels alone and dosent wanna cut agian and whos going into 7th
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Labels are stupid.
Be yourself, people think your weird,
becuase your not being yourself.
Your being what you see, lots of people dress up like that, but its not them.
They arent being accepted because they are pretending to be someone else.
Emo, Goth,, Punk.. they are all labels, people use to describe others, and the way the dress.
I hate labels so much.
Ask yourself, did you have reasons to cut? Or were you just doing it for the attention.
Did you put up fits so you could portray being 'emo'?
Its bad enough that you label yourself along with them labeling you.
You need to learn to love yourself, and the only way to love yourself is to BE YOURSELF.
Everyone gets jealous, we need to control it.
You might be bi? really? or are you giving into todays cultural trend to be different.
Emo is a label, its a music genre too.
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There is NOTHING bad about being different,
but theres something bad about being yourself.
Some people try WAY to hard to be different,
but that just makes them all the same.
Because they are all one trend wearing the same clothes, doing the same thing, trying to be different. Just be yourself, and dont say the way you are dressing is yourself, because its impossible. Theres more than one person that dresses like that, and thats all the same,
No on is exactly like you, so thats why its best to just not try to be someone your not.
We were all born different, so I dont get why people try to change everythingn about themself, whent no one is remotely close to being them.
Get help.
Talk to a counsular, or someone you trust.
But take their advice.
Because your younger if your only going into 7th grade, trust me I hear you.
I remember sixth grade it was a horrible year, and I dont even remember why.
Stop the negative thinking, and bad habbits. Because in the end they wont help you at all.
If your cutting is really a problem, TALK TO A COUNSULAR! iTs the best thing I reccomend.
I hope I helped,
and I hope things get better,
Please dont take offence to anything I said,
Because it was all in your best interest,
and I feel very strongly about in-authentic people.
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I know exactly what you're going through. I don't dye my hair, and my hair's not in my face, but I dress/do my makeup the same way you do. The kids I go to school with consider me an outsider, while I think of myself as the kid who's just there. I'm a freshman, and I've been cutting since 7th grade. Anyway, since I know what you're going through, I highly recommend a psychiatrist [sp?] so you can get the help you need, and the medications to help you. Good luck, and I hope things take a turn around for you.
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First of all, don't lable yourself. You're an individual. When I was a freshman in high school, (I'm now a junior), I had the same problem. I cut, starved myself, the whole deal. People considered me insane, & it completely destroyed my social life. I felt that I had nowhere to turn. I finally broke down & told my mom about my issues. She took me to a psychiatrist & I was diagnosed with clinical depression. I now take Zoloft & it absolutely works wonders. I definitely recommend that you get the same kind of help. It's worth it. [:
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woman,what are you doing to yourself??you can wear whatever the hell you want nobody can say a word.you know what i once wore to school??i wore blue overalls pink sneakers red jacket and a pink scarf that covers my hair(im muslim and going to 10th grade) hahaha nothing matched and i didnt care,i can wear whatever i want.you need to be stronger than that,nobodys worth you cutting yourself for,all your going to get is skin disease and scars.so what you like black,i like black alot too.honestly,is cutting yourself going to solve your problems??and when you see thoes sluts that do whatever they want and go out half naked when anyone makes fun of them,what do they do??they bitchslap whoever makes fun of them.you need to open up to someone and let it all out.and dont worry,your not bi,its just all this stress on you making you confused in everyway.solve your problems one by one,first thing say to yourself,if sluts can wear what they want without being critisized then so can i.you need to be confident,wheres your personality woman?!?!just because people say your weird doesnt matter,it matters what you think.look at me,im overweight and i have more confidence than a group of cheerleaders and pl used to make fun of me,till i beat up this girl for making fun of me now shes too scared to evenn look at me hahahaa.muahah.next thing you need to solve is the screwy ppl that make fun of you,srand your ground and curse them the fuck out,tell them that you dont care what they think of you.youll feel better.
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I went through the same kinda thing. I started wearing black and all that as a way of expressing myself. I'm now over the whole suicide/cutting thing but i still dress the same way, i guess it's what i'm used to. If you don't feel comfortable in what you wear then wear what u DO feel comfortable in.
At such a young age i'm guessing you're just finding you, 13 was a hard time in my life too, but trust me, it will pass.
keep eating too! if you wanna be able to help yourself you're gonna have to have the strength to do so, and food is where we draw our strength from.
If you're dead serious about fighting the bad stuff you will make the right descisions, trust me. For about a year all i wanted was to get better but i was just SO scared, every time i got happy i'd slide down and get all depressed again. but one day i made the descision, that no matter how scary something was i had to fight my fears. so i did, one day i woke up and said to myself i'm not going to be depressed, of course, it didnt work that easily but over an amount of time with help from some one really special i got into a positive attitude. and that attitude will help you feel better in yourself.
so when you're serious, u WILL seriously try really hard. the first step is the scary one, and it aint easy but it's SO worth it!
good luck to ya, if you ever need to talk i'm here!
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i went thru the same thing.
but not the bi part.
its ok hun
you will make it thru
just be nice to everyone
dont change for anyone like i did.
i used to have blue,white,black,darkbrown hair and people found me scary.
but i kept it.
you are just trying to figure out who you are and who you want to be right now.
i think you should eat.
my bestfreind anna was anerexic and i stayed with her in the hospital and it was really scary.
she almost died.
but then i talked to her and the stuck toobs down her it was horrible.
ithink you should eat make some good good freinds.
i think short black hair is cute.
and your other hair sounded cute.
just dont care what other people think.
you just have to think to yourself..
hmm when i get into highschool my life begins
then you get a job then after highschool a career
yeah i think you get what im saying.
goodluck hun.
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