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bras..
okay so i just now found out that i am a B instead of an A cup size... how can i get my mom to buy me new bras?? im shy about this whole changing into a woman thing.. so is there a way i could convince her to take me? cuz i mean she always rubs it into my face and acts like she is totally blank about the whole me being a B.. it makes me feel uncomfterble..
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Tell her that you are getting teased because people can see you "popping out" and she will go get you a new bra in the right size.
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Best thing to do is to go to a store where they do a bra-fitting service. Sure it might be a little embarassing, but as someone who used to fit bras for a living believe me we're used to seeing it all, and we try to make you comfortable. However, if another (trained) adult tells your mother that you need a bigger size she's not really in a position to dispute it!
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tell her you need new bras cuz the old ones are worn out or something. Or just tell her you're going to the mall to get (insert something she is bored by, but would be believeable for you here) and ask her for enough money (and a ride?) to get the bras yourself.
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haha well dont worry most moms are like that. they get out of it though. What you can do is tell her you need to buy some more and ask her for money. Then, take a group of your girlfriends out to the mall or wherever you buy yours and then have some fun with the whole thing. then your mom wont even have to be with you!
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it took my mom a while to catch on too. basically i just went and got my normal brand and told her that it was fitting kinda small and i wanted to try several diffrent sizes. just try to be casual about it. like if you are out shopping just kinda mention it to her while you go past the bras or just ask for some money to go buy underwear and really get some bras.. either way its not the end of the world because your bra can grow with you to a point like by adjusting straps if you are so uncomfortable talk to your dad or a sibling about it.. they tend to be more understading
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Yeah I had the same problem...except my bras were gettin old and stuff and well I was scared n stuff to ask. So I let her see how it fits...like wwen u put on the bra be like "Mom come see this....and let her see it's too small. Then she'll automatically go with u...or just write a letter if that does work....
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thats how parents are they like to do those kind of things just ask her and she'll help you out
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Go with her and pick them out yourself. If she picks up an A say "this one will fit better" and pick up a B. Or say "I'd rather have this one". Something like that. She'll get the point and you won't have to explain the whole thing. Another idea is to tell her that you feel uncomfortable about it and ask if you can go pick them out yourself and meet up with her at a different place in the store. Yet another idea is when she picks out an A say I think I should try it on. Come out and say "hey it's too small". There's lots of things you can do. Just pick the way that makes you feel the least uncomfortable. I hope one of my ideas will work for you and good luck!
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It's nothing to be ashamed about. Your mom went throught it and she will understand. Just go up to her and tell her that you need some new bras. Walking through the store with a bra in your hand, that is a different story, I always hate that part.
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just be upfront and tell her " mom i need some bras can you help me?" sure parents make fun cuase they can sense your sensitivity on your new change to womenhood. It's just hazeing that all parents do. don't be shy love, a lot of girls go though this. everyone has to change somtimes, for better or worse. The most important thing is how to handle it. You'll be fine, hope this helps
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