Question Posted Thursday January 27 2005, 12:22 pm
Hey, im really scared about doing stuff sexually with a guy because of some of the stuff with my body..do guys care what a body looks like? i have stretch marks on my boobs because they grew so fast..and i have little dots on my but..and i dont know why? i just wanted to ask you if a guy cares about what his girlfriends body looks like to do sexual stuff with her.. i havent done anything yet...but im scared of what might happen when we do stuff..thanks!
snowwalker69 answered Saturday January 29 2005, 9:53 pm: hey, if your really into each other then it shouldn't matter. some very shallow guys will get freaked out, but other guys, most guys wont. Do what you want to do and be proud of your body [ snowwalker69's advice column | Ask snowwalker69 A Question ]
sPicYx0hoTt answered Saturday January 29 2005, 3:47 pm: well a guy might care it depends what kind of boyfriend you have, if u ever do do something. try it in the dark? tell him you'll be more comfortbale doing it in the dark. hope i helped [ sPicYx0hoTt's advice column | Ask sPicYx0hoTt A Question ]
chrirett answered Saturday January 29 2005, 9:42 am: Hey a guy wont be botherd with little things like that so don't worry and go ahead if u want to. Unless its a realy stuck up asshole who thinks hes perfect. Nobody's perfect [ chrirett's advice column | Ask chrirett A Question ]
mrs_radcliffe answered Friday January 28 2005, 12:14 pm: There is a cream you can get to make stretch marks faid away but i forgot what it called
if you live in the uk go to boots! that should have that sort of creams and stuff.
If i guy really liked you he shouldnt be bothered by a few stretch marks or dots on your body he should respect and love you
roxie xx [ mrs_radcliffe's advice column | Ask mrs_radcliffe A Question ]
xOglAmoRgURl69x0 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 4:37 pm: okay...if he loves yu he wont care! but try it...if he does care ...dump his ass....i meen if hez goin out wit u or asked yu out he shooldnt care about that shit
hope i helped!!
x0x0x mwah sam [ xOglAmoRgURl69x0's advice column | Ask xOglAmoRgURl69x0 A Question ]
luckycharm answered Thursday January 27 2005, 3:49 pm: no dont worry... your bf will understand... and for the stretch marks- get cocoa butter... you can get it at bath n body works or a drug store or someplace like that... hope i helped!
--lucky [ luckycharm's advice column | Ask luckycharm A Question ]
xoxhayley answered Thursday January 27 2005, 3:34 pm: Don't worry, a lot of girls have these things about their body too. Your question involves and answer that depends on YOUr boyfriend. Is he the type of guy that cares about what you look like more than your personality? Are you too close enough to not care so much about your looks.. just that your so close it doesnt matter. Is he Thattt shallow? it depends on him... but if you want to talk to him about it before you do any sexual things, you might feel more comfortable. good luck =D hope i helped [ xoxhayley's advice column | Ask xoxhayley A Question ]
sunshine1030 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 2:25 pm: if your boyfriend really likes you, then no it won't matter what your body looks like, because he is dating you for who you are, not for what you look like. if you are still self-conscious about it, just talk to him about it. im sure he'll tell you that he doesn't care what your body looks like, and everything will be fine. if he does care, then i would suggest dumping him because no guy should care. hope this helped, and good luck! [ sunshine1030's advice column | Ask sunshine1030 A Question ]
MFS answered Thursday January 27 2005, 1:41 pm: If you're scared as such, then you're not ready. And whether you like it or not, you'll find that many guys will care how you look, because, particularly at younger ages, people tend to be a little more on the superficial side of things - that's just human nature. [ MFS's advice column | Ask MFS A Question ]
Karen answered Thursday January 27 2005, 12:55 pm: Hey, don't worry, most guys don't even care what a girl's body looks like because when it comes to anything sexual, guys should only care about you and not about your body. Also, try putting cocoa butter over your stretch marks and that will help get rid of them! Hope I helped :)
-Karen [ Karen's advice column | Ask Karen A Question ]
MummuM answered Thursday January 27 2005, 12:29 pm: He's just going to think about that special moment that he has with you, not about how your body looks. I know how you feel though. I was so scared my first time I did anything sexual with a guy. I know how you feel about the stretch mark on the boobs thing, I have the same problem. But everyone hates something about their body and maybe that something you hate, your boyfriend will love. So don't be scared at all. He should love you for who you are, not for what your body looks like hun.
♥ Krissy [ MummuM's advice column | Ask MummuM A Question ]
Lilsweetie428 answered Thursday January 27 2005, 12:24 pm: They shouldnt care what you look like. If they do then they are jerks. Relashonships arent about looks and he should like you other wise. So no I do not think he will care, but some boys are different. If you need more advice just but something in my inbox
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