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How Can I Get Him Back?


Question Posted Wednesday September 1 2004, 5:31 am

soooorry its long, but i need help :(

Alrighty every1, I have absolutely fallen in love with this boy *Damien - and damien is thee greatest guy ever... if i was able to marry him right now i would!! but see we got into probably one of the biggest fight ever and i think he's gone.. for good :'(! i really dont know what to do with myself now... everything i do is "damien" i eat, sleep, drink, shower, think, talk about damien.... 24-7! i mean i knew i loved him before but tonight i just felt that "this is him" feeling! where you know that this is the person you would spend the rest of your life with... i know its crazy and 'im too young' but i dont care what you say or think because i am in love with him and thats just how it is.... but i really need some advice on getting him back! please, pretty please i am begging anybody!! thank you soo much who ever does help!!

p.s we've been together for 1 year and 2 months and NEVER broke up before... soo yea that also!! thankss!


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Additional info, added Wednesday September 1 2004, 5:32 am:
oh and im 16 he's 17.

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sweetie_xO answered Thursday September 2 2004, 2:21 pm:
Whoaaaa just like me, i was sooo obbsessed with this kid damian for like ever! But i never went out with him, so you're lucky. Alright, you should call him up and tell him to meet you somewhere where you guys can talk. Discuss why you were angry with him and tell him how much you care for him and love him. Let him know that he is the center of your world. Apoligize for whatever happened if you feel that you should, and tell him that you would really, really like to try again. From there, everything should just take its course, and hopefully he's not a jerk about it. Best of luck, i hope everything works out well for you.

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*ashlee* answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:50 pm:
if ur really that in love with him..then you should talk to him about it. especially since uve been together for so long. im sure it cant be over for good after so much right? so like i said talking to him is the only way to fix it.

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liLpiMpRinCeZz answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:28 am:
1)give some hints to him that u still like him
2)talk to him about your feelings


thats a really long time u have spent togehter with him.. i mean 1 year n 2 monthes is long.. he might just need sum time


>3 Morgan

p.s does he have gf
keep me posted

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joolaygurl89 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:09 am:
You're so used to having him because you've had him for so long. Now that he's gone, you realize how much you really do love him. YOu want what you can't have.

So go ahead and try to tell him how you feel. Try to sort this fight out...what was this fight about anyways? If it turns out that you can't get him back, then you might just have to deal with it. It may take a while for it to heal over where you're completely over him, but it will be worth it in the end.

But for now, go tell him how you feel, and apologize about the fight.

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BrunetteBeauti answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 10:05 am:
heyy hun
b honest w. him nd tell him how u feel he probably feels the same way. u both hav 2 apologize 4 da fite. den u could take him out or sumthin.
xoxo
brunettebeauti

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lilangelshan08 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:54 am:
just be honest and with *damien and tell him how you feel, also you've got to say sorry for your end of the fight. i'm sure that in the end things will work out for the best, and just to let you know i'm 17 and i'm totally in love with my best friend. so no it's not a big thing that you're in love. a lot of people our age can be in love even though people will say that we are too young and we can't understand, we can. good luck and i hope i helped
*~*shan*~*

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Roxybabii922 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:54 am:
Tell him how sorry you are, take him out one night and show him how much he really means to you, show him how you feel or tell him atleast

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mshonest4eva answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:50 am:
you need to tell him how you truely feel- that you love him and are so so sorry. If you cant stop thinking about him, you have to tell him. Talk to him face to face- cause then he migh think that you are making things up. You ave to prove that your telling the truth (which u r but he probably wont know). I hope i helped

Xoxo Alissa-Marie

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sweetums3162jh answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:25 am:
I think u should talk to him first of all and mayb become friends again and then mayb more.... but take ur time don't rush it!!
hope i helped!!!
~JuLiA~

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MisSoccer19 answered Wednesday September 1 2004, 9:06 am:
definately just be honest with him....tell him that one year and 2 months isn't worth breaking up because of one fight, no matter what it's about....tell him you want to work thru it, and listen to what he has to say....if he says he wants to also, then great good for you guys and just do what you can to see things how the other person does...if he says no, then you have to show him how much you care. don't be overbearing just do the little things you know he'll care about and i'm sure he'll be appreciative! good luck!

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