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last school year i was rele flat if u no what i mean and now im not but im not fake how do i get people to realize that? because all the guys think i stuff what am i suppose to do take off my clothes and prove it?
MystikalAngel answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:44 pm: Greetings...
Ok, what matters most here is you, not the boys who think you stuff. You don't have to prove anything to them. You're at that point in your life where everything is changing from childhood to becoming a young adult. Everything about you is maturing in some way. And its no secret that boys mature emotionally, a lot slower. They are going to be childish and make you want to scream for many more years to come. I'm 27 years old and I can honestly say their are men my age who still make me want to scream, "GROW UP!". You'll learn to deal with it with time, and experience. For now, the best thing to do is simply tune them out. Thier words have no power over you, if you don't allow yourself to hear them. When they start to tease, think to yourself "They are so childish.", smile and walk away. You'll be better for ignoring their taunts, than if you turned around and yelled at them. Your anger or being upset would only fuel them on to harrass you further.
And another thing. Be proud of yourself little one. You're on your way to becoming a woman, and thats nothing to be ashamed of or to fear. Growing breast is just another phase in a long cycle of growth for you. Being a woman is a fabulous, wonderful thing.
~Mysti~ [ MystikalAngel's advice column | Ask MystikalAngel A Question ]
marebear96 answered Monday July 26 2004, 12:05 am: ignore them ~ and if they say somethin be lik u know what i kno what i got and what i got is real and i dont need to proove anything to you ~ ... hope i helped *mary* [ marebear96's advice column | Ask marebear96 A Question ]
Promises_are_great answered Saturday July 24 2004, 7:50 pm: I have had that same problem until finally I went swimming with some kids from school and then they realized Hey you cant get those things wet...if they are made of tissue paper or the fact is If I were wearing one of those stupid push up things my boobs would dissapear when I took the bra off... so heres some advice wear a shirt with a built in bre, go swimming or Just stand up and be like My Boobs are real Biotch ... [ Promises_are_great's advice column | Ask Promises_are_great A Question ]
xXaShXx07 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 11:58 pm: well if u really want to do that then i guess u can...but i wouldnt say thats the best way...just stand up 4 urself and maybe wear clothes that show you dont stuff or if thats what you want to do then i guess show...
xox ash xox
bAhAmAmA0250 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:52 pm: Well dont do that.. unless you honestly want to.. then you could.. but i wouldnt recommend it at all i would just say that you dont and stick up for yourself and do what you can.. but theres not much you can .. like you said you can stick up for yourself or show? you take your choice-trix [ bAhAmAmA0250's advice column | Ask bAhAmAmA0250 A Question ]
tina answered Thursday July 22 2004, 12:55 pm: if u rlly want them 2 believe u wear v necks or shirts that go further down in the front so they then tell that their real but dont show 2 much ! these guys r being dumb because it's easy 2 tell if ppl stuff if u rlly dont care just ignore them they prolly like u ne ways
VoLlEyPrInCeZz1 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:47 am: Well, next time some one brings up that you stuff, just be like "why would i stuff i don't want boobs" even if you do!! It just makes you sound like you don't like boobs so ppl believe you. [ VoLlEyPrInCeZz1's advice column | Ask VoLlEyPrInCeZz1 A Question ]
xoLilBayb3ox96 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 9:06 am: You shouldn't care what guys think. Believe me guys dont think you stuff they just want you to prove your not. Just don't. Don't give in to that kind of stuff. It will just end up giving u a bad rep.. hope i helped
chaos answered Thursday July 22 2004, 8:49 am: Guys are really slimy. Forget about them. They don't realize that we grow, and we grow for a little while. You won't be the only one they are picking on. Who knows, they probably like you. [ chaos's advice column | Ask chaos A Question ]
S_C answered Thursday July 22 2004, 8:24 am: you could show a bit more clevage, live V-Neck shirts that sum kinda low
or shirts wit buttons at the top, and only keep one of the buttoned
the guys are prolly just sayin that to look, because if u really did stuff u can tell, i went to skool wit sum1 who stuffed back in 6th grade
it's EASY to tell
girdy_goo15 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:54 am: i went thro almost the same thing but in 1st grade.lol. just show strut them around and wear shirts that show a little cleavage but don't make you look like a slut. guys will do anything to see a girls breasts. or you could just push them to the side. good luck
*~~~shana~~~* [ girdy_goo15's advice column | Ask girdy_goo15 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Thursday July 22 2004, 4:25 am: this might sound skanky but this is the only way i can think that you can prove it... you can possibly show them a little bit of clevege, or flash them lol. good luck
-holly-
hope i helped [ HollyAnn2282's advice column | Ask HollyAnn2282 A Question ]
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