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When should you stop dating two people and choose one?
Posted Sunday July 1 2018, 11:05 pm
I've gone on two dates with two different guys and I like them both a lot. I've also been talking daily to both for around 2 weeks now. I could see myself dating either of them, but I also realize it's too early to decide that. I honestly haven't found a flaw in either guy though.
We're all in our early 20's if that changes anything.
Is it okay that I continue dating both of them? I know it seems silly because I would assume you should stop dating one if the other asks you to be their girlfriend and you accept, but in the past I've had guys tell me I led them on when I was also dating somebody else, despite not having made a commitment to one or the other.
What is the general rule on this?
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is swinging good or is it wrong?
Posted Saturday June 30 2018, 5:05 pm
hi, how good is swinging? is it only for a couple who are in a relationship or anybody can do it? why is it if my ex boyfriend is asking me if we both could go swinging with the other couple? I have reminded him you're my ex boyfriend and we're not even a couple but instead he says it's just a sex. we're still in good term and we're still friends as we both were before we dated for a few months as he knows I'm single still and he's not. he says it's something to spice up and I know you'll love it because you're an extremely sexual girl. please can anyone explain why is he saying all this? we do love each other and he does say he will love me and think of me forever and I love him too. what did he mean by 'sexual'??? going to swinging as a c...
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Razor bumps?
Posted Wednesday June 27 2018, 12:41 am
So when I shave my armpits i get these little red, itchy bumps and I have no idea how to get rid of them! I'm new to shaving and have pretty much no experience and none of my friends have the same problem. Is it something that I'm doing wrong or do I just have sensitive skin. To go more into depth here is my shaving routine
-shaving is the last thing I do in the shower
-I put conditioner on the area I'm going to shave
- I press lightly on the razor in downward strokes up to 3 times to make sure I get all the hair.
-after I get out of the shower I usually put lotion/ cream on.
- put on pj's and then go to sleep.
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Can you use a bank statement & SS award letter for proof of address?
Posted Tuesday June 26 2018, 9:51 pm
I need proof of address to get my license. Will this work?
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Stupid for staying and not sure how to leave...
Posted Tuesday June 26 2018, 1:25 pm
At this point in my relationship, I pretty much figured out my significant other is never going to change and probably does not care about me at all. Unfortunately we just moved in together signed a 14 month lease, i'd have to move back in with my parents which would be hard. And can't afford to break the lease. But i can't do this anymore, honestly i barely want to have intimate moments with me because he makes me feel like shit all the time, he is angry all the time. Literally every conversation with him is an argument to him where he feels like he is always right and has to win even if we are discussing our opinions. It's always his way and at this point I feel like he doesn't need me in the relationship, he just needs someone to control...
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Should I have a baby?
Posted Tuesday June 26 2018, 6:42 am
Hi.. I'm 19, my bf is 28 and we are together for a year now. I really want to have a baby. I have a stable job and we live together. We had a pregnancy scare not long ago but we were really excited. When i found out i was not pregnant we were both really disappointed. We talked about having a child and he said he'll support me and that he's happy. My mom won't like it though because she does not like my bf. I really want a baby. What should i do?
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is something wrong with me ?
Posted Saturday June 23 2018, 4:22 pm
i'm not exactly happy when i get what i've been wanting from a long time, be it a material thing or just ordinary stuff like my favorite dish that i've not had in a long time. i noticed this often and i don't expect much satisfaction before getting it and yet i kinda feel empty inside.
things that were/are special to me doesn't feel much special anymore
like a song that i like a lot and haven't heard in a long time doesn't feel the same when i hear it
the intensity of it's effects that was before is now gone,and it's not just a song it's about most of the stuff
i wanted something from like 2 years and i recently got it and i wasn't exactly happy
i was like "oh.. ok..."
i mean i wanted ...
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Mom is pissed because of what happened on a weekend trip
Posted Saturday June 23 2018, 11:21 am
Last week, I [F/15] went away with a friend [F/15] and her family to their weekend home. It's out by this beautiful lake in this small, middle-of-nowhere type town.
We arrived around noon and me, my friend, and her little brother spent the first couple hours fishing on the pier in their backyard. We went inside afterward and her brother then showed us a pair of handcuffs his uncle had given him as a birthday present. He'd left them behind the last time they were there. My friend and I took them and decided to handcuff ourselves together as a joke. Only problem was her brother then realized he didn't remember where he'd put the keys.
We searched the house but couldn't find them. Finally he remembered that they w...
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Does sex hurt?
Posted Friday June 22 2018, 9:42 am
I'm almost 15, will be a Sophomore in September. I've heard conflicting views on sex; I heard from these two Seniors it isn't supposed to hurt if a guy warms you up for it, like how when you exercise you warm up first you don't just run a mile. I have a friend, however, and the older kids she knows say the first time around it hurts and you even bleed because you're still tight. I don't really get that because to me that sounds like if you have enough dicks shoved up there your vagina spreads out, but women's vaginas go back to normal size after childbirth. And I put tampons in just fine without any issues-the first time I put one in it felt weird, is it something like that? I don't really understand the concept of a tight vagina. I told th...
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Delayed periods. Pregnant or due to stress?
Posted Wednesday June 20 2018, 11:00 am
I and my bf had sex twice on 9th and 10th may. We had protected sex. On 9th. We were naked. And his penis was touching my vagina. He didnt come. But there was some precum. I felt it. Not directly in touch of my vagina but near it. And after i felt it. I drew myself back. Now he had peed before all of this happened. And i googled and founf that peeing removes any sperms present from previous ejaculation. I maintain a app for my periods. And my periods have been coming as predicted by the app from past 2 months. So acc to the app i was supposed to ovulate on 17th which makes 9th and 10th as safe days. But also during that time i had my exams and i was under huge stress because of a bad paper. Also on 7th june i had watery discharge. My period...
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Do i move out from my parents home or save to buy a home?
Posted Monday June 18 2018, 10:37 pm
I am currently living with my parents to help them pay bills etc, since they are retired. I feel so guilty moving out as they will live a bit tight on money, but I feel like I need my own space. Right now i'm so emotionally drained, my family is dysfunctional and we have a brother dealing with drugs. My parents are trying to help him but he drains the whole family and i'm tired of being in this environment.
I found an apartment I liked a bit pricey but that is what rental places are in my neighborhood. But as the signing of the lease got closer I started to get frightening, my heart was pounding so hard and I felt so much anxiety.
I'm so confused if to move out or just stay here until i buy my own home, ...
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I sweat excessively, how can this be treated?
Posted Sunday June 17 2018, 11:34 am
I do take care of my hygiene. I regularly shower, put deodorant on and shave/wax hair.
I always sweat when I go out and I get sweat pads on my tshirt, crotch area, lots of sweat on my forehead and it's very embarrassing because people see it and feel disgusted and it makes me smell. I can't just run home and take a shower every time it happens. What can I do to at least reduce the amount I sweat?? Can a doctor treat this?
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Window Air Conditioner
Posted Friday June 15 2018, 6:06 pm
we have a window air conditioner that my mother uses in her room, but she closes her bedroom to make sure that none of the cool air escapes into the rest of the house. which does not have air conditioning, so she gets the air conditioning only in her room, forcing all three of our family members, plus three dogs, into one room. she claims the costs will explode if she uses this one air conditioner for the whole house. our house is about 1200 sq ft. and we cannot put it in the living room window due to the shape and size of the living room window.
my question is, is she right? will the costs go up? and if so, is there a way to cool down the rest of the house as well? We cannot afford to have our central air fixed (and it would...
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Grad School
Posted Thursday June 14 2018, 5:08 pm
Hello, I am 23 years old and I have a bachelor's degree in sociology and psychology. A few weeks ago, I had applied to three graduate schools for clinical mental health. I had gotten into two of them, I told the one that I would go to the other since it was financially best for me and when I went to accept the other's acceptance, I just couldn't do it. I started to panic reading about it and it's had me in such a frazzled state for days, keeping on thinking about it.
So, I'm thinking that this isn't my passion. I wanted to be a therapist but one would think once I finally got in and could get the ball rolling, I would be super excited but I've been so overwhelmed and scared and just so darn anxious that I don't think this is ...
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just a confused teen
Posted Wednesday June 13 2018, 11:09 am
Hi so i am a 17 year old female and i am dating a male the same age. We have been dating for about 7 months now and we were both kind of scared to make the first move so the first time we kissed was prom night before we went out to eat. So it was graduation day and at our school juniors show up to support the seniors (the place they hold the ceremony is right by the school so everyone shows up to school and seniors ride over first and then juniors and then we come back blah blah blah)and there is a little ritual going on, anyways that day came and me and my boyfriend were both there and were in the same class and i was just sitting on the table and he was sitting in the chair across from me and at first that was all it was i was just sittin...
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just a confused ready teen
Posted Wednesday June 13 2018, 11:07 am
Hi so i am a 17 year old female and i am dating a male the same age. We have been dating for about 7 months now and we were both kind of scared to make the first move so the first time we kissed was prom night before we went out to eat. So it was graduation day and at our school juniors show up to support the seniors (the place they hold the ceremony is right by the school so everyone shows up to school and seniors ride over first and then juniors and then we come back blah blah blah)and there is a little ritual going on, anyways that day came and me and my boyfriend were both there and were in the same class and i was just sitting on the table and he was sitting in the chair across from me and at first that was all it was i was just sittin...
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I'm wondering on how to progress with life.
Posted Sunday June 10 2018, 7:45 am
I'm currently having a mental and emotional battle with myself because i'm having a hard time in figuring out what I want out of life and i'm too scared to go out and find the answer myself.
I keep living my life in fear and doubt that i'll never get anywhere and achieve my goals but I just don't have the confidence in myself to actually go out and look for what I need and it just gets on my nerves.
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Mom never listens
Posted Saturday June 9 2018, 8:38 pm
14 year old female. For as long as I can remember, my mom has always spoken over and interrupted me. If we're having anything from a heated argument to a simple conversation, she'll listen to like half my sentence then start talking. Once, we were arguing and I was going to say something when she interrupted by screaming at me. When I claimed she interrupted, she replied that she "knew what I was going to say" but she had the completely wrong idea.
Worse than that, if someone asks me a question she'll answer for me whether it's 'what are you doing in school?' Or 'how are you?' Even my dad has pointed this out, and she does this to my two siblings as well. From the moment I was born, she has forced me to do things I ...
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Double World
Posted Saturday June 9 2018, 7:50 am
Alright so my boyfriend and I have a great relationship but it feels like sometimes he lives in a double life. For instance yesterday we were hanging out and he didn’t want to come and get food w me or go to the mall “because he didn’t want to hold me back” so I went by myself and then when I got to his house which this is what happens a lot we just go downstairs in his room and lay on his bed. He either falls asleep or we watch Netflix and it was a beautiful day out and we were sitting in his basement per usual. Then he went out and didn’t text me back all night like actually all night even after multiple times I have texted him. I am getting bored of feeling alienated from his life because behind that basement door everything i...
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I have a date tomorrow night !
Posted Friday June 8 2018, 11:34 am
I am a 29 year old female and I have a date with a guy that i knew in high school that I have not seen in 10 years. We are going bowling and out to eat . I have no idea what to wear. I am so nervous. I still leave at home with my mom and my mom wants to meet him plus she wants me back home by midnight. How do i tell this guy that i have not seen in 10 years that i have a curfew?
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