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Responsibility for Child
Posted Thursday November 14 2019, 10:31 pm
Our family planned a weekend get-away to meet friends from out of town, but our 15yo son found out he would not be able to attend at the last minute. He is a responsible kid, honor student and has never been in any trouble. My wife and I agreed he would be fine staying home alone to take care of himself for two days; however, she is insisting on boarding our dog. I think that it is reasonable to expect that a 15yo is responsible enough to watch a dog, but my wife says that unless we board the dog she is going to stay home. She is firm in this. The upshot is that we are going to board the dog as not going is not an option. That said, I am angry that she does not trust our kid to watch our dog as this is not a big responsibility. Am I being unreasonable here?
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Me and my guy problems lol
Posted Sunday November 10 2019, 11:55 pm
I have the worst of luck with guys and I have lots of book resources, I'm not sure why I can't find a decent guy to date. I am currently working on myself and it would be nice to date for once. Anyways, I know of this guy and I'd say he is probably 7 years younger than me. Needless to say there is a huge gap and not to mention maturity. I want to know why he is always around me then completely flakey. I get the notion he cares too much about what people think of him and is a bit weird. He is a nice looking kid and I might think he might be in the closet. Why is it so hard for us to be friends or connect? He's around me non-stop and looks at me ALOT. Btw we are swing dancers, in class he makes me laugh and I overall get the sense he's a smar...
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I have to meet the guy who ghosted me at an unavoidable party!
Posted Saturday November 9 2019, 6:16 pm
I am from Austria, 31 years old and a female. I met this guy at dinner with my friends. The two of really hit it off just talking, we had a great time, exchanged numbers. He sent me super romantic texts. So i figured it was okay to open up and i told him about stuff I was interested in plus, I asked him what his plans were for the weekend. After that he stopped responding. On the same day Friends told me, that a few days ago, he called them in the middle of the night to tell them he has fallen head over heels for me and he doesn't know what to do. So I tried it again after 36 hours, asking if he was very busy and that I hoped that he doesn't think of me as bothersome.I asked him to meet up with me to talk, because our mutual friend made me ...
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Age when graduating and family pressure
Posted Thursday November 7 2019, 3:54 am
Hello,
Background:
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I am studying Computer Science at a well-known university. I suffered from lack of responsibility for a year and as a result I failed few courses twice. I never appreciated what I had, the fact that I got accepted on such a great university, and having the most supporting parents.
I got now another last chance this semester to pass the courses that I failed in, I am quite scared, but I feel different now since I got motivated since the start of the semester.
My question:
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Week number #2 has finished now, around 12 weeks to go for the semester before exams, I hope everything is alright, but my main question her...
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My crush
Posted Wednesday November 6 2019, 4:05 pm
My question is, my crush walks home with a girl every day. I walk home with him too but he's walked with the girl for longer. She's a lot more pretty and I feel like I have no chance, what should I do?
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Wife stopped Adderall cold turkey and it is taking a toll on relationship
Posted Tuesday November 5 2019, 9:48 pm
My wife was advised by her sister about 2 months ago to get off Adderall completely because she said it had horrible long term effects. She took a high dosage (as I understand for Adderall) of 20mg x 2 daily. She hadn’t spoken with her sister for over 3 years due to a riff but once reconnected they talk constantly. Her sister is a CNRA and as such regularly dispenses medical guidance which my wife follows with little reservation. Based on her sister’s recommendation to stop Adderall she quit it cold turkey almost 2 months ago and it has been difficult since... she is quick tempered now, VERY short, and almost can’t hold a conversation during the day without some “playful” verbal jab. She goes to bed because she says she is ex...
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How to be successful
Posted Tuesday November 5 2019, 8:30 pm
I didn't go to college and have two young children. I currently work in a factory 2nd shift and hate every day of my life. I also have sales experience. I currently dont have the time to go back to college and wont for 3 to 4 years. However I cant seem to get promoted even though I have sales, prospecting, and interpersonal Communication skills. It's also frustrating due to the fact I can explain Quantum computing/Entanglement, AI, political science, differentiating factors involved in solar, vapor, hydro, wind, fusion, fussion energies, have an in depth knowledge of history, finance, and general business. I spend hours studying just because I love to learn and challenge myself but I cant move forward in any job. How can I overcome this?
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Since I lost weight I’m struggling to regain all of it
Posted Monday November 4 2019, 8:37 am
Ok so I’m 2017 I had a problem with menstrual cycle where I bled more than 21 days each month for like 3-4 months .The problem was that I had offset my system because I purged myself too much. I was given birth control but it only worked for a few days and then I went to a private doctor and I was giiven pills that lower sugar level. I forgot the name . I took it for a week and everything went back to normal . I haven’t had any issues since a but during that time I lost some weight and I only gain back a few . Now I hate my size in order to gain some weight I ate a peanut butter sandwich right before bed . Now Ii am 20 years and I am 50kg or 110lbs (I hope I have the units correct) I weigh myself each week but it is still the same . I...
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Problematic in-laws and insulting sister-in-law
Posted Thursday October 31 2019, 7:48 pm
I got married this year on March.Mine is a typical modern day Indian arranged marriage, arranged by both the parents.However we met for few times before our wedding.Initially after introduction my sis-in-law was very good to me,we were good friends.But my relationship with her started gradually deteriorating when my would be in-laws started interfering in my life and started blaming me for trivial reasons.Two months prior to my wedding my sis-in-law severely insulted me as she thought I was unfit for her brother and she told me to get lost.Her parents and brother literally coerced me into talking to her and med things with her.I did.Everything became normal again.After marriage when my parents-in-law again started poking their nose in my li...
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Texted drug dealer
Posted Thursday October 31 2019, 6:55 pm
Hey, I’m sort of friends with a drug dealer. They sell through social media like Snapchat and stuff, and I trust them enough so I followed their selling account and asked if I could get. But they were SUPER surprised I asked because I’d never ever done before and didn’t text me back after a while. Can I get in trouble if anyone sees that I sent him a chat asking? It’s not like I actually bought anything- but I was stupid enough to use my real name’s account and not have a scheduled delete of the chat. Or is this not a big “deal”?
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What about my gender?
Posted Thursday October 31 2019, 2:40 pm
Thank you for reading my question.
I am just confused and will like some help on gender identity. Here we go….
I have been assigned the gender of a girl, but I don't always feel that way. Before you start to think "Transgender?", let me get to a point.
For example, one day I feel feminine. I look in the mirror and I absolutely love my body. But the next day I look in the mirror and I hate it so much. (Wait, I'm not done yet.) Then the day after that, I look in the mirror and I don't really care. As in, I don't feel feminine or even masculine. That was just an example. Each feeling could last a few days at the most.
Sometimes, and this just makes it more confusing, I w...
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I'm a very negative person I immediately give up on things because they look impossible. Please, can you help me?
Posted Thursday October 31 2019, 8:08 am
hi! I'm from Philippines. I'm an IT college student, but I don't know what to do in the future. Lately, I'm not attending any classes since I'm confused since I cannot focus on my class. It seems that I'm not qualified on the course and I'm weak at studying, I don't even understand a thing. I always felt like an idiot because I don't have any talent or a unique mind. it does seem I don't have a brain because when I try to listen on something and rethink it again, I can't remember anything so I fail in my exams. I always felt empty and lazy since I don't have any idea what I'm going to do if I graduate. I want to go to Japan and live there. Right now I'm studying their language because I want to be a translator but it looks impossible since ...
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Asking friend for money back
Posted Tuesday October 29 2019, 2:59 pm
Two years ago, I lent a friend $4500. She told me she would pay me back after a month, but kept putting off payment. Eventually, after 5 months of this, she told me she would pay me back when another friend paid her back a debt he owed her. I told her that was fine. At that point, the friend paid her $1500 and she passed it to me leaving a balance of $3000.
Since then, the other friend's financial situation has not been good and he hasn't paid her any more money back. Consequently, my friend hasn't paid me anything back.
Today, I asked her to start paying me back again. I mentioned that it had been two years and, although the amended plan was to wait for her friend, it has been two years with no sign of progr...
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Im scared and i need help
Posted Thursday October 24 2019, 5:54 pm
So my name is Audrey and I'm 13 years old. Im in middle school and my life is really good. Sometimes i wish i was born into another family but this time it was all my fault. I go to church you see and last Sunday church was over and the next part of church that was about to happen i never stay for so we were about to leave. On my way out of the door i saw a little pink iPhone SE. my first reaction was to pick it up... so i did. It didn't have a password so i opend up the phone and started looking through the photos to see if I recognized anyone in the pictures i didn't. When it was time to leave i took it with me and brought it home. Im not aloud to have a phone yet and so i had to keep it a secret from my grandma so i didnt get in trouble....
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Am I complicit
Posted Tuesday October 22 2019, 9:37 am
I work in a sex store and there’s an “arcade” in the back where people go to watch porn have sex. The other day I saw a man attempting to lead a woman who was clearly drugged out in there. I told him that they couldn’t enter because she couldn’t consent and they left. I was already beating myself up about not calling the cops then when about an hour later they came back in. Her nose was bleeding but not from drugs, it was bashed in and looked like she had either fallen or been punched. I tried to reason with her, asked her if she had anywhere to go or if I could call someone for her but she couldn’t understand me. I then tried to talk to the man, told him what he was doing was wrong, she can’t consent and if he has sex with he...
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I Don't Deserve My Children
Posted Tuesday October 22 2019, 3:15 am
I don't really know how to start, so I'm just gonna jump right in. Let's say that I am the mother of seven beautiful, wonderful, amazing, talented children including six boys and one girl. We were gonna quit after the fourth child, but we're surprised by a set of triplets There's hardly a day that goes by that I don't feel like a bad mother. I deal with guilt and self hatred almost on a daily basis because of it.
There are so many things that make me feel like a bad mom. I'm always worried about how well I'm raising my children. They're good kids. They're all well behaved, well mannered, kind, loving, compassionate, selfless, generous people. People compliment me on how sweet my children are and every time, I wonder how much...
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I cant decide what career path to take
Posted Monday October 21 2019, 12:58 pm
I am from south africa and I have been going over this for quite some time, and it has not gotten me anywhere. I have always liked a good mystery and a puzzle so I thought why not become a cop. Then there's this side to me that likes medicine, like since I was little, so I decided OK why not a nurse, because a doctor has to cut people open and I would not be able to do that. Then I always wanted to help people so I thought about becoming a social worker. I am really stuck as to deciding what to do.
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Should i leave a loving bf who became possesive because of my past
Posted Sunday October 20 2019, 9:59 am
I had previously been in 4 relationships before i met this guy.. At the start of our relationship i lied to him that i only had one relation and that he was my 2nd one, but later on he came to know abou my previous relation when he found our earlier chats on fb and came to know the truth about my 4th relation..and i was physically close to the 4th guy but we never had sex.. But when my bf came to know about this we already had sex and this was my first time..so he was sad and frustrated on knowing abouth my 4th guy and that we were very close. So he brokeup later on bcoz of the gulit of making him sad and losing my virginity to him i said sorry to him..and we were back in relation but sometime later he came to know about the 3rd guy i previ...
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Guy I’ve been seeing
Posted Sunday October 20 2019, 9:29 am
27/f he’s 28/m
Hey guys! I just need some advice on my current situation. I met this guy online about 2 years ago. We talked a lot at this time and I went to his house to hang out we didn’t do anything sexual.. New Year’s Eve of 2018 we were both drunk and I drove to his house after late at night and we had sex. The sex was amazing it was passionate. After that he kind of would ignore me and our relationship turned into only having sex on his terms. I got attached and I got feelings. The things he would say to me while we were in person I believed. That he’s not seeing anybody else, that he’s into me. But then once I get home doesn’t answer my text doesn’t talk to me. He’s had sex with me while he has had a girlfriend...
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I’m worried I got in too deep...
Posted Saturday October 19 2019, 3:12 pm
So around 2 months ago one of my close friends from college introduced me to this guy. We started hanging out all the time and I enjoyed being with him. Someone who seemed to genuinely care. We started flirting, but I figured since he was friends with a lot of females he did that kind of thing a lot. I even told him that to his face. He kept telling me he didn’t and I kind of assumed he liked me as a friend. I’ve become friends with some of his friends and apparently he was telling the truth. I’m the only one he really gets they way with. A few days ago we were studying at my apartment together like we often do, and I accidentally tickled him so I took advantage of that since he always wants to tickle me. He ends up pinning my arms ba...
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