Q: What's the best master program for someone who wants to have the available option of becoming a doctor/work in a health field, running a product line/making contributions to an enterprise, or both?

Public Health, Business Administration with Healthcare concentration, Health Administration, or Healthcare Administration?

I applied to some campuses that offers those listed graduate programs, and I'm watching out for those that will ultimately accept me or not. Would I have more opportunities to possibly branch out into business related field too if I've ended up doing the latter two masters?

Q: To make a long story short I'm at my 3rd college and I want to transfer colleges again.

The first college I went to for a few months and it was one of those dumb little for profit colleges that have commercials on tv, I went there for a year and then transferred to a private college. I loved that college, but unfortunately started dating somebody there who became physically and mentally abusive and I wound up with a restraining order against him and he was forced to move away. I don't want to return to that college now though because I feel like it will only trigger horrible memories.

My current college started off great...until I joined a sorority, became VP, and then dropped from the sorority all in one year. Sorority life was too much of a lifestyle change for me and I was still dealing with anxiety from my past trauma with my ex. Now that I've dropped I don't want to be seen by any of my past sisters. They all turned against me and now I feel like everybody knows me as a failed sorority girl because there's only 2k students at the college. The worst part is next semester (August) all my roommates(3) are sorority girls. I feel like it's going to be hell.

Other than this reason, I'm in major doubt about my degree and my current college is very expensive (22k a year and that's with my scholarships). I also hate the name of my current college because it ends in "College" instead of "University" and sounds like a rinky-dink public college instead of the private college it is.

I now want to transfer again to a new college that's in the same city and is already known for being a really good university because they're part of the STEM program. They have a degree I'm very interested in and I actually already applied a while ago, but never sent them my official transcripts because I wasn't sure I wanted to transfer.

This college doesn't have any kind of sororities or frats and it's even smaller than my current college. I feel like I can't mess it up this time if I transfer again. I'll just lay low and make small groups of friends and focus on my job and studies.

The new college is also wayyy cheaper.


The issue is if I transfer again then I face having to start all over 2 years into college with a new degree and major.

Should I just tough it out at my current college or consider switching over one more time and then staying put?

Q: Went on a date last week with a guy I met off a dating app. I'm 21, he's 16 years older. We already discussed the age difference and agree that age is relative.

He got out of a long term relationship beginning of 2016. No kids. Never married.
Has his own place, is a professional working in his career.
I have my own place, own car, finished school and work in my career Too. To be clear this is NOT a sugar daddy thing going on.

Before we met Briefed me that he isn't much of a texter. Neither am I. And mentioned his mother is staying with him while her place is renovated.

Couple days before the date we didn't text much just here and there. We met at a restaurant for the date 5 days ago. It was at 6pm lasted about 2 hours. He doesn't stay up too late because he works in the mornings, I don't mind it. Also a recovered alcoholic, hasn't drank in 10 yrs. Date went well, immediate attraction, same sense of style, humor, hobbies, interests. Lots of sarcasm and flirtation. He complimented my appearance and I complimented his as well. I expressed Interest in his job and he invited me to an event there in about 2 weeks, said he would send me the info he was surprised that I was interested in it.

After the date walked me to my car and asked if I kiss on the first date I said "if I like the guy enough" he took that as his cue to kiss me, it was sweet and he said that it was good.

I texted him later that night saying thanks for dinner I had fun. He responded right away that he had fun too and we will do it again soon.
It's been 5 days haven't heard from him. I sent a pic of the tattoo I got covered up the day before yesterday, he said it looked awesome and that was it.

I feel there may not be a second date but that confuses me since he kissed me at the end of the first one and told me "we'd do it again soon."
Is he just playing hard to get? Or this how dating an older man is? I've kept in mind that his mother is staying with him..

Q: It's about to be my second semester and I still haven't made any friends and it's starting to really effect my mental health. I went to my schools orientation week long story short thanks to my strict parents I only went to 3 of the 10 days so all the friendships I made failed because I basically just disappeared. Then school started in all my classes nobody really talks because they're so focused on the lectures so it's hard to make friends in classes. The friends I did make though are only classmates, we always sit together but none of us know each other's names and I'm pretty sure once the course is over (full year) we'll never talk to each other again, I've tried telling them my name multiple times but they don't really care. I wanted to join a club but because of my schedule I don't really have time to add a club to it, since I'm a commuter I go to school for class then when they're done I take the bus home and repeat. I even tried making friends on my schools freshmen Facebook page, long story short the friends I made ditched me after meeting me in person and would always blow me off. So I figured if they wanted to be friends with me I shouldn't be the only one making an effort. I wouldn't be this sad about any of this but I realized I don't have any friends at all, all the friends I thought I had in high school were those friends where we only talked about school and now that we don't go to the same school anymore there's no point. Then some of my friends don't even text me at all unless I text them so I feel like I'm bothering them. The only person who tries reaching out to me only calls me to talk about her boyfriend, she doesn't really care about my well-being so I don't consider her a friend tbh. This whole winter break I haven't hung out with anyone and it just sucks meanwhile on snapchat I see everyone hanging out with people everyday. I don't even know why I have a phone if the only people that text me are my parents, so my question is how long did it take you make friends in college or university? (I feel like it would be easier to make friends if I lived on residence) I tried telling my parents I don't have any friends, it's even gotten to the point where on my one hour break from class I would call my dad to talk to him on the phone which I wouldn't normally do. Btw I'm an 18 year old female

Q: So theres this guy in three of my classes in university. So i didnt notice him at first but i noticed that he watched me everytime i would walk past him to my seat, then the next week he kept glancing in my direction mind you he sits in the upper far left while i sit in upper middle if that makes sense. Then the week after one time he looked back to listen to my convo and then smiled turning around. Which made me loose my train of thought cause i noticed he was actually kind of cute and then my friend made a joke saying "your boyfriend is looking at you again" because she noticed from that first day of walking past him that he was looking at me, so now in the second class hes in he used to sit in the back and i know this because i sat near the front so obviously to get to my seat id have to see him but ever sincr that day in the first class he now sits in the front near me, and then this week i was having a bad hair week so i would wear my hood from my jacket everyday and then i saw him wearing his hood (i know its prob a coincidence). Then my third class he usually exits from a different door and not the door i go from but all of a sudden he starts using the door i go through.So i was thinking maybe he did like me until, yesterday i saw him printing from a computer outside the library and he was looking at me and my friends and then when he was in the print line which was super long my friend was in front of me so she walked past him and his head TURNED following her movement, idk if he was still watching when i past him but all i know is when she walked past him his head turned and he was just watching, so now im confused because maybe the whole time i thought he was looking at me he was actually looking at my friend. The thing is though when hes looking at me we give eye contact and my friend is in the first class i have with him (the class he was glancing while i was talking) so idk if he was watching her because he was watching her butt, or because the print line was too long so he was wondering where she was going (doesnt explain why he was looking for so long) or this whole time it was her he was looking at in my first class and in my second and third classes he prob only sat near me in hopes to be my friend to get to her. This whole thing is kind of bothering me because i have low self-esteem so its a miracle to me if a guy took interest in me because its always my friends they go after, so if he does end up liking her its no surprise to be honest. What do you guys think? Do you think he likes her or me? Or do you think he was just watching her to see where she was going or just looking at her butt, we are all 18 by the way and thank you if you have read this far and actually answer this

Q: I'm very torn. I'm 7 weeks pregnant and have been with my fiance for 2 1/2 years. I have 3 children from a previous relationship. I thought I was done with kids. He knew this. I got pregnant accidentally, anyway.

I'd like to abort it but it would break his heart. He would love to have a child of his own. He's been so excited about it even though I've been going back and forth.

We can financially support a child and everything but it would make things a little bit of a struggle for a time. I'm 38 years old, my youngest is 9 years old and I don't know if I want to do it all over again. I want to travel and focus on things in my life and focus on my current children. But is it unfair of me to think only of myself? Will I resent him if I have this child, for him?? I also think I may lose him if I do have an abortion though he's said he would support me either way, I know it would crush him.

Q: I'm turning 16 this summer and I want to have a pool party and a nice dinner. To have a nice dinner I want everyone to be dressed up but after the pool everyone is super ratchet and dirty. So how would I incorporate that into the pool party? Also, since the party will be dinner should I make it a sleepover or should I just send everyone home after dinner?

Q: 22/f, 29/m

Our relationship is a bit complicated. We had a lot of problems in the relationship due to trust issues. He broke my trust several times. He lied to me, hid things from me, and said things to his ex-girlfriends that he shouldn't have said. Because of that, it caused me to be anxious and insecure in the relationship.

He broke up with me a few times last month in December and the official break up with on New Years Eve. He told me that he still loved me and that maybe later on, we could try again. We even agreed that neither of us would date anybody in January and he even wanted to keep seeing me from keep me from moving on. I was feeling very conflicted and confused from what he was saying and doing. He would tell me one thing, but he'd hide every trace of me on his Facebook page, or add a cute girl on Facebook, talk his his ex-girlfriend (not inappropriately, though). And I'm feeling really lost. I had to ask him directly and told him that if he was trying to have his cake and eat it, too, that's not okay.

We were trying to work towards me pressing the "Reset button," meaning that we pretend that we never dated and to start over. I have been trying to work toward that, but the fact that he added another girl on Facebook just told me that he was reverting back into his old behaviors. I had to speak to him about this last night. I told him that if we were trying to start new, we can't make the same mistakes that happened that placed us in our current place from before. He understood, apologized, and said that he'll stop.

But as the conversation continued, he understood everything that I was saying but he was being really negative about the whole situation. He admitted that he was being negative and pessimistic, but he was being realistic. He told me that he's having a hard time because he feels guilty being with me because of the things that had happened between us a year ago. He loves me but he can see a better future without me and can imagine a better fresh start with someone else (not having anyone in particular in mind). He ended up bringing up little issues like him shaving his beard may make a difference in our relationship. At this point, I thought that he was just trying to think of any little thing he could think of to keep us apart.

I was frustrated. Because I'm the one that has depression, but I was the only one who was being optimistic. I told him that I was trying to move on from the past, and I wanted him, too. He said he does and that was the reason why he broke up with me in the first place. And became more confused and asked him does he just want to completely give up then and if he does, he needed to tell me now so I wouldn't try so hard for no reason. And he said, "I don't know," and that he just knows that he was happier in other relationships than in ours and that it was his fault.

It was a constant cycle. I pretty much clarified that I was willing to press the "reset button" and as long as the same mistakes from before doesn't repeat itself, I feel like things would be a lot better. I tried to be optimistic and realistic about the situation knowing that it may not work, but I feel like if we worked hard enough and he was more positive, things will get better. We confirmed that he does think negatively and him thinking negatively will affect any chance we will ever have together. However, it doesn't seem like he's willing to change those thoughts. He admitted that there could be a slim chance of us working, but he doesn't feel like the prize at the end of it is worth it. He told me that he'll TRY to be more positive and that he sure he won't make the past mistakes again... but that's the most I can ask for right now.

And that breaks my heart. I wasn't much of a cause of what put us here. It just told me that I could do everything right and still fail at a relationship. I don't know what to say, what to do, or what to think. I'm trying my best and it doesn't seem like he wants to try. When I ask him what he wants to do, he doesn't give me a direct answer.

What now?

Q: I had microsoft word, excel and powerpoint on my computer and my hard drive failed so I had to get my computer factory reset and it deleted all of my microsoft applications but I need them again for my last semester of school starting back up and I'm not paying for them when I already did that once. So, I'm asking if there is any way I could redownload these applications without having to pay because I already have an account set up through my school? Thanks!

I have a macbook pro, if that helps.

Q: Hi, so I like to wear concealer to help with my under eye circles. The concealer I use now is the Maybelline fit me concealer in the lightest shade, fair, 15. (Btw, yes there is a shade 10, but 15 is actually the lightest shade in the fit me concealers by Maybelline, so I've been told by the internet) The problem for me with this concealer is that it's too pink-toned. I am quite pale and there aren't many concealers, (that are cheap, I don't like to spend that much money on makeup) that is pale enough and not pink-toned. Are there any recommendations on concealers I should use, that are not only not pink-toned, but are also cheap and good?

Q: 25 female. My boyfriend and his ex share a pet together. Last night I was over at his house and the dog was over because his ex had to do something. She called him when she was going to come pick him up and he answered the phone said "hi" and then walked out of the room. This made me weary becuase why would he have to walk out of the room to talk with her? When he came back in I asked where he went and he said "Away from Cooper (their dogs) ears like joking around. He then said Cooper your mom is weird. I just left it at that.

I didn't want to start questioning why he walked out of the room to speak with her. But it makes me wonder now. Why couldn't he just speak with her when I was right there?

Q: This may be a long story and I'm sorry but there really isn't a way to cut this short. I had previously posted a question about a condom breaking during sex with my boyfriend. This incident was December 1st, the condom broke the second time we had sex and it broke before he finished so when it did break, the only possible semen that was in the condom was excess from the first time. I am on birth control but at the time of the condom breaking, I was only on my third official day of ever being on it so I was not protected from that when this happened. However, like I said he didn't finish and he pulled out as soon as he heard it and that was only when he was about half way in. He also went to get Plan B for me to take because I was a bit apprehensive. So, December 1st was when this happened and my period is expected to begin Christmas Eve so I was to ovulate December 7th. Like I said in my previous question that if anything was to get in me and stay in there, if my expected ovulation was correct then I should be safe about pregnancy.

However, I am just a naturally nervous person. It's getting closer to when I should be getting my period and I'm questioning if I'm pregnant or not. I'm nineteen days in on my birth control so I'm pretty protected with that so I'm not really worried about anything that happens now. But, one thing I noticed was that I've been getting a frequent irritation that makes me think I have to pee but when I sit, I don't have to pee and I read somewhere that a lot of other girls experience this after they have sex and I've noticed that when I experience it, it's the entire day after I have sex as well. So, I'm freaking out that this frequent feeling of having to pee is evident of pregnancy or something weird happening after intercourse. I also had some spotting today and my period is supposed to be in six days so I'm also freaking out that this spotting was implantation bleeding that I read about but it could also be a side effect to my birth control "premature bleeding." I'm also factoring in that taking the Plan B may also make my period come late so that is also something to think about.

My boyfriend keeps telling me to not worry. He said that even if there was any in the condom when it broke, it wasn't enough to crawl all the way up and get me pregnant. I guess I'm just looking for advice, anything would help; thanks!

Q: I have bad anxiety and I put a blog explaining why anxiety made me leave school so that people wouldn't ask questions, a few weeks later a guy I've been friends with for years but grown apart from came to me saying he has depression. I didn't think anything of it until he came to me everyday saying he wanted to kill himself, and then came to me with a knife saying he didn't dare cut himself so wanted me to do it, and asked for tips on the best way to do it. Ever since then I haven't wasted my breath on him, just listened. Nothing he says ever adds up: he was taking 20 anti-depressants a day, he said his doctor diagnosed him with depression and then told him that he was wrong and then re-diagnosed him and then told him it wasn't, he said that his counsellor said that it sounds like has bipolar, depression, Alzheimer's, Parkinson's disease and anxiety. This all seems like such rubbish, and I don't want to waste my time on an attention seeker, because it made my anxiety worse at one point that I couldn't help him. He constantly says that he would rather have social anxiety, agoraphobia and panic attacks like me than have bipolar like him, saying that I have it easier than him.

Is there a way I can find out if he is lying or attention seeking? If I stop going out for walks with him then I'll never leave my house, making me worse. I don't know what to do.

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