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he was showing signs he found me attractive but..?
So theres this guy in three of my classes in university. So i didnt notice him at first but i noticed that he watched me everytime i would walk past him to my seat, then the next week he kept glancing in my direction mind you he sits in the upper far left while i sit in upper middle if that makes sense. Then the week after one time he looked back to listen to my convo and then smiled turning around. Which made me loose my train of thought cause i noticed he was actually kind of cute and then my friend made a joke saying "your boyfriend is looking at you again" because she noticed from that first day of walking past him that he was looking at me, so now in the second class hes in he used to sit in the back and i know this because i sat near the front so obviously to get to my seat id have to see him but ever sincr that day in the first class he now sits in the front near me, and then this week i was having a bad hair week so i would wear my hood from my jacket everyday and then i saw him wearing his hood (i know its prob a coincidence). Then my third class he usually exits from a different door and not the door i go from but all of a sudden he starts using the door i go through.So i was thinking maybe he did like me until, yesterday i saw him printing from a computer outside the library and he was looking at me and my friends and then when he was in the print line which was super long my friend was in front of me so she walked past him and his head TURNED following her movement, idk if he was still watching when i past him but all i know is when she walked past him his head turned and he was just watching, so now im confused because maybe the whole time i thought he was looking at me he was actually looking at my friend. The thing is though when hes looking at me we give eye contact and my friend is in the first class i have with him (the class he was glancing while i was talking) so idk if he was watching her because he was watching her butt, or because the print line was too long so he was wondering where she was going (doesnt explain why he was looking for so long) or this whole time it was her he was looking at in my first class and in my second and third classes he prob only sat near me in hopes to be my friend to get to her. This whole thing is kind of bothering me because i have low self-esteem so its a miracle to me if a guy took interest in me because its always my friends they go after, so if he does end up liking her its no surprise to be honest. What do you guys think? Do you think he likes her or me? Or do you think he was just watching her to see where she was going or just looking at her butt, we are all 18 by the way and thank you if you have read this far and actually answer this
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Honestly (and I mean this in the nicest way possible), I think you and your friend are both overreacting. Just because somebody looks at you it doesn't mean anything and at 18 you really should know that. He easily could be just watching that side of the room, possibly watching a clock near you, etc, etc. I know you said his head turned to watch your friend, but this also means absolutely nothing. It's very easy to just kind of mentally doze off and watch anything that passes you. We all people watch...
Another thing, he hasn't "taken an interest" in either of you...sorry. Taking an interest would be trying to get to know you in some way. Whether starting a conversation or asking to be in a homework group with you, etc, etc.
You already sound jealous of your friend for imagined reasons. I know you said you have low self esteem, but you're doing it to yourself if you make up scenarios like this in your head.
I think maybe you should try a dating site to meet people because honestly (i'm in college too)I don't see very many girls and guys get together anymore just from being classmates so don't feel bad if it doesn't happen to you.
You have to put yourself out there in other ways.
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