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Member Since: December 20, 2015
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Last Update: December 21, 2015
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I'm 25 my boyfriend is 23. We have been together for a couple months now. Yesterday I requested his mom on facebook and she declined it and disabled me from being able to request her again. I have met her multiple times and my boyfriend told me she said I was nice and last time I saw her she gave me a hug when I left. She's friends with my boyfriends brothers girlfriends as well. She would also comment and like things I posted when I tagged my boyfriend in them. It just really bothers me for some reason that she would decline it. Now I feel like it will be really awkward next time I see her. I don't know if she has something against me or what. I don't know if I should bring it up to my boyfriend that this happened and that it's bothering me. Any suggestions? :/ (link)
I have always had the best result by facing my fears and just asking her head on. Let her know that you have sent her a request and was wondering why your response has been denied. I would also make sure to let your boyfriend know what you are planning on doing so he isn't caught off guard.


This guy I went out with once and refused to go out with again keeps slandering my name online. After I told him I didn't want to see him again he harassed and internet stalked me for weeks. Now he's back to his old antics posting photos of me with my full name on dating blacklists.

Unfortunately I have a very unique name so when you google my name the only result that comes up is me and the fourth one down is the article about me being blacklisted. I'm worried this is going to affect future job opportunities. I already contacted Tumblr which is where it's being posted, but they can't seem to do much about it. If they delete his post he just makes another one a few months later. He never gives up.

What do I do? (link)
I agree with the other response to your question that you need to make sure to keep a record of everything he does even if you think that it isn't important. Every little thing counts. Also I know that it is frustrating and irritating but I had something similar happen to me and I can say that I looked at it from the perspective that clearly you impacted his life enough that he isn't ready to give you up and laugh at that. Clearly he doesn't have enough of a life to move on that he keeps having to bug yours. I hope that it gets better for you.


Im at 21 year old female and weights 45kg..i would really like to pick up some weight this month..what do i eat and do? Will eating potatoes,rice and peanut butter help me gain weight fast..im also on the triphasil birth control and the nurse said i should take vitamin b to help me pick up weight so i bought it and they gav me vit b.co which is the same i gues and iv been taking it almost everyday since then but im staying skinny it feels like im getting skinnier..should i get a multivitamin instead..please help me im tired of being thin and stilL being made fun of..what should i do and eat to help me gain weight fast.. (link)
Eating potatoes,rice and peanut butter will help yes also will nuts, eggs, avocado, and cheese. I would advise to eat them while also making sure that you are keeping some type of exercise in your life so that you will gain a healthy weight.




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