Member Since: September 23, 2013
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Last Update: September 26, 2013
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Is it normal to hear a heart beat in your lower abdomin (link)
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I don't think it's "normal" but one time I was laying down on my stomach and could feel my heart beat in my abdomen. I'm not really sure what it means or why it happens, but I wouldn't worry about it too much. If it starts hurting or you feel like there is pressure or bloating, I would schedule an appointment with a doctor to make sure nothing is wrong internally.
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Heyyy...* 14/F I had a crush on this guy for about 3 years now..* this weekend we held hand and so on but said nothing* it was juat like a silent move* I really like him* but I'm not gonna see him for a long time if I ever see him again* he lives 250km away* but his sister and me are very close * I really like him I'm crazy about him but my heart hurts really bad!* :( what should I do* (link)
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I know it must suck that he lives so far away. I would continue to be friends with him. Keep in touch. Because maybe 10 years from now you two will still be best friends and something awesome could happen!
Take a risk and tell him how you feel. Worst case scenario is that he doesn't feel the same way and you just move on with your life.
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Okay let's just say I'm 32 years old, I've been married to only 1 man the whole time. But since we'd been married 6 years. I've had numerous partners. See when we first got together it was just us 2, until I couldn't deal with being with a virgin. So we started having an open marriage., except my side was open as his was more less closed.
Everytime he wanted to see another woman I got in the way of it all. Then we started being seperated again just recently because of my appetite I can't go very long without it and if I do, I just go crazy. Wanting, needing and longing for it all the time. My question is what do I do? Stay married or keep sleeping around and having an open marriage?
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I would say that it depends on how much does sexual activity actually mean to you in a relationship. There are some people who can be happily married for a long long time but when it comes to their sexual activity, they don't really give a rats ass.. Then there are people who would consider their sexual activity to pretty much be the relationship.
So if you feel like you cannot be in this marriage without sex, then I would suggest getting a divorce or annulment because it's not really worth it then.
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My 26 year old daughter has always had an "anything goes" attitude. One of them is, get ready for this one....cockroaches. I am DEATHLY afraid of them. My daughter has a friend who has cockroaches all over her apartment. She goes to visit her quite often. I have begged her to meet her somewhere neutral instead so she doesn't bring them home to me accidentally. But she still goes there. She's 26. I can't prevent her from going there. But it's not fair for me to cringe every time she comes home from there. I've told her if she brings them here, she's paying to get rid of them. Still, she goes there. Any advice?
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I suggest talking to her about it and coming up with a compromise. During situations like these, compromises always work best because both people can agree on something but still have to sacrifice something too. For example, you would allow her to visit her friend at the apartment, but she would have to shower somewhere else before coming home. Or something along those lines.
Another option is to emerge your inner caring and generous self and possibly hire an exterminator to visit her friend's house to get rid of the pests. That way, your daughter will still be able to visit the apartment but you won't have to worry about her bringing any pests back home. It might sound absurd because you would be paying for it... but think of how beneficial it would be for you if its that big of a problem.
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I fingerd my girlfriend after she gave blowjob ...i inserted my finger after couple of minutes ....im scared where she will get pregnant ...i touched my cock and sperm was in my hand but it was dried ...will she get pregnant ...?what are the steps to avoid it (link)
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Very small chance that she is pregnant. Like somebody else said, most sperm die once it encounters oxygen. Next time I suggest being more protective. Wash your hands next time. Having her on some kind of birth control would be very beneficial.
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My boyfriend doesn't talk much but our friends try to get us 2 talk but when we do all he says is hello. We can't have α proper conversation what can I do to start one (link)
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Get to know each other a little better. Ask him what his favorite hobbies are. Or ask him what kinds of movies/music he likes. I'm thinking that you are pretty young, so I know it might be a little scary but you'll feel a lot better once you start a conversation and know that you put in the effort to making a better relationship.
On another note, if you are attempting to make conversation with him and he doesn't want to talk, he could either be shy or just uninterested. If he seems bored with you, then I would suggest ending the relationship because why stay in a boring relationship without any sort of communication?
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We don't have a pet store where we live or a dry cleaners its a small town will they have the pet remover at wall mart or the pharmacy ? (link)
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Yes they will definitely have it at walmart
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So my boyfriend told me hes moving like in a couple months to a other town ... i really like him !! i dont want to lose him .... i really dont ... i would want some ideas that can help me so he can stay ... i think he can am not sure.. but any ideas ..? (link)
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There is nothing you can do to 'make him stay'. You have to realize that he has his own life separate from yours. He can do whatever he wants to do with his life and you don't really have a say in any of it, unless you're legally married lol. So realize that you can't do anything about it.
Now you have to realize that things will be different. It wont' be the same as it was before. So prepare yourself for a change.
I'm not saying it isn't possible.. It's just going to be different and you have to either accept that and adjust.. or move on with YOUR life.
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My dog threw up on my faveorite blanket we washedit three times and it still will not come out (link)
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Go to a local pet store and find a spot remover. They usually have specific ones for dogs. This is used when they urinate or poop on the floors and the spots won't come out but they can also work for your scenario. Make sure to follow the directions correctly. Leave it on your blanket for a while to let it soak in. Wash it with HOT water. At least, you could take it to a dry cleaners to see if they could help you out. Good luck!
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I'm a 13 year old girl, and I want to do something I find fun with other like minded people. Any suggestions? (link)
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well.. what kinds of things do you like to do? I'd suggest finding a broad subject first, like do you want the club to be academically oriented like a science club? or do you want it to be an athletic club? possibly a music or art club? Then from there, try to find a narrower subject. Let's say you want to make an arts club, maybe have a painting club or friendship bracelet club or knitting club.
This is a great way to find people who have the same interests as you and you'll make great friends!
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So I am NOT the type of person who sleeps around.
But this week I lost my V to someone at Uni. Whilst they were not a complete stranger, I had only known they existed for about a week.
So this person was all like 'I'll text you' and things, and basically I have heard nothing.
I just feel terrible. For a few days ago I felt elated that I'd finally done the deed so to speak. At the same time though, I now also feel like I was used and abit worthless.
Don't go telling me that that's what you sign up to when having a one night stand please-how can I make myself feel better.
More importantly, will I see this person around and should I add them on facebook, considering we talked at length about our lives and things first. (link)
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The best thing to do after a one night stand is to focus on yourself. Reflect on yourself about what kinds of things do you want to improve in your life? And then go out and pursue those things. Focus on YOU and don't worry about 'what if he texts me' 'what if i see him'.. he's a jerk for using you and then not even apologizing, explaining or talking to you afterwards. forget him and focus on yourself! Make some goals for yourself and you'll feel 100 times better when you achieve them:)
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Okay so I've been best friends with my friend for about 15 years. almost 2 years ago we had an argument (I went away for college and she stayed home for hair school). I was upset whenever I came home she would never see me or didn't have time to see me on my breaks from school. So we stopped talking. I've tried reaching out to her before through a text maybe 3 times last year to hang out or to talk about what happened but I got no response back, yet she still managed to say happy birthday to me last year. Well today I decided to try one last time to reach out to her I said I wouldn't be back from school till thanksgiving but I asked if we could get lunch and catch up and she never responded back. I honestly don't know what I did 2 years ago, our moms ran into one another and my mom mentioned that her that my friend and I should meet up sometime and my friends mom said "oh I don't think they will ever be friends again". Again, I honestly don't know what I did and I think for someone to be friends with you that long and gets treated like that by ignoring me and not answering me is awful. She still talks to my other friends from time to time but not me. I don't even know if its worth it to say anything else to her since she's not answering me and I've tried so many times, but I really put a lot and cared about our friendship ya know? I guess I am asking, what would you guys do in my situation? would you keep trying to contact her or just give up? what should I do?
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I was in a similar situation.. I had a best friend in high school and I honestly thought she was like my sister. I'm in my third year in college and to this day I still think about her, wondering what she is up to and remember all the fun times we had together. We ended our friendship because of a stupid jealousy fight and I regret it a lot. I've reached out to her a few times and she denies me. My motto in life is "just try your hardest and go with the flow". If you really tried to reach out to her and mend the friendship, and she still denies you.. well at least you can say you put in the effort and if it's meant to be then it will be. All you can do is try. And if it doesn't work, then you move on with your life.
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