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ok well i want to play some like sexual games i guess you can say that i can do with my bf and like "wow" him. i really dont know any and/or know how to do them so can someone please help me so i can make like us hanging out more fun or sexy? can someone give like a website , tips, experices that have worked for you or just anything please?
thanks
sorry, no
well as i was saying school starts in about 1 week and i'm really nervous because i like this guy there. and last semester we kinda had i fight and never talked since than. so i apologized and everything was fine but still we never really talked that much though. soo now i wanna be friends again and talk like we used to. can u give me some advice how to talk to him and make him less angry at me cause it seems to me like he does like me but is just upset so please help his friendship is really important to me!
thx
talk regularly to him. just like you used to. but don't over do it. talk regularly, but don't smother him with it. if he acts like something funny is up, or is moody or ignoring you, ask him if something is wrong. don't ask him right away, wait a bit. and just be normal. there is a chance that he doesn't wanna be your friend. it's hard, but maybe just let it go. or, you can play hard to get. kinda "ignore" him. maybe he'll open up.
hope i helped!
I want to know how to biuld up upper arm mucsle w/o my parents knowing. this is b/c they would go into shock b/c i am smart not athletic. thanks to those of you who respond.
you should do push ups. they help alot. also, wall push ups. wall push ups are actually better. lift weights. if you don't have or don 't want your parents to know you're using them, just use big books, holding them spine in hand, going up and down or out and away form you then back in. but you don't have to hide it from your parents. well, you might want to, but they won't go into shock if you just want bigger arm muscles. no biggie!
ok i have a question. i was suppose to start on the 17th or 18th. well on the 16th i had sex with my boyfriend and he cumed in me. i haven't started my period yet. could the reason why i haven't started be bC of the fact i might be pregnant or is there another reason that i haven't started yet?
There is the potential that you could be pregnant, but also you could have just started late. you don't just automatically start ALWAYS on the same day...mostly, but you can be a day or two late. but, honey, in the future-don't have sex right before your period. and definately not right after. cuz you won't REALLY know for a long time. also, if you're really worried-take the test. no biggie! and just stay safe, ok?
my boyfreind recently told me he still kindof liked his ex..
and i asked him but do you like her like that?
and he said kindof
what do i do?
im balling.
i seriously think we could get married.
and hes like my soulmate..
PLEASE HELP ME!
WTF! Your boyfriend seems like a total dick, and a guy that was really ur soulmate wouldnt do that to you, but if you really do love him, then you need to have a serious conversation with him about it! If he says he was just kidding or something you need to kick him in the balls, but if he wasnt kidding and he really does like his ex, you need to tell him that he cant just say things like that to hurt you, and you probably should break up with him, there are other guys, nicer ones who would treat you right, so dont fuck around with this stupid guy!
What exactly is OCD, and how do you know if you have it?
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder means you're...OBSESSIVE COMPULSIVE! you fret over the smallest and specific things like how many times droors shut, how clean your hands are, stuff like that. oh, and you should actually research it if you thingk you might have it, on a website other than some random-person-advise page, ok?
Okay so I know this isnt under the right catergory I just didnt know what to put it under.
Does pro-active really work ? Like the commericals say. Does it really clear you skin up well & prevent later break outs ? If so where can I buy it at a good price ? Because I dont want to order it from TV. Thanks in advance.
lots of acne treatments work, but different ones work for different skin types. i personally have never used pro-active, but it would probably work, and, i have really bad acne. i started using one brand that LOTS of people used and it didn't work, so i switched to another that LOTS of people used and was also on comercials claiming to clear up my face, that didn't work either. you should try it, but if it doesn't work, talkt to your dermatoligist about Tazorac. i use that now and it's amazing. best of luck!
what if there is this new guy at school , & you really really like him he likes you alot too . All you do is talk about him & you really really like him . But.. before 1 of your best friends & this boy went to school together & almost went out & she liked him as well & still has some feelings for him . but you found out from your other friend that your good friend was mad when you went out with 3 other boys that she had a crush on when i didn't even know she liked them until afterwoards. & that made me break with them all & not like them anymore . I"m afraid one of my friend will be mad if i went out with him cuz she told me to thin about what i do before i do it so yeah . i really like this boy but then again so does she . what should i do . Sorry its soo long but i don't know what to do.
Well friends should come before boys, but this girl doesnt sound like much of a friend. She shouldn't be telling you she has a crush on your bf thats just kind of weird, and you shouldnt break up with your bf because she told you too, from what shes done in the past I think you shouldnt listen to her because it sounds like if he liked her she wouldnt care about ur feelings, if you think you could get this guy then go for it. Especially if hes sexy
So this guy i met over ayear ago swept me off my feet the first time i laid my eyes on him. Problem is we are only friends after a year. We never hang out and we only talk online and if we see eachother at church he will say hi to me. but thats all i ever get and i hate it. When hes online im always the one to say hey to him and keep the conversation going. But at the end of the conversation when he says hes going to bed i always get teary eyed and feel like ill never have him. Im fallling so hard for someone i think ill never get. Even if i tell myself hes never going to want me i dont want to believe it.
im 17female And hes 19 male
Any advice as to what i should do?
thank you.
well that's sweet that you like him that much, but waiting till you're 18 is better, because he's 19 right now honey and you're legally a minor so if you show affection towards him, definately sex, and i think even if it's just kissing, that's illigel. if you still like him later, go for him then. but for now, find someone under 18.
:-)
13/f okay so i really like this guy, and i think he likes me...he flirts w/ me A LOT and he'll like look at me and when i look over at him, he'll blush a little. he'll try to impress me and tell me stuff by talking to his friends loudly around me, telling them stuff they already know, and just a lot of stuff like that happens. the only problem is, this has been going on for like 2,3,4 months and nothing has happened!!! im the kinda gal who likes it when guys ask me out and in truth i dont really know where to begin with this guy. i mean i flirt with him a lot and i think he knows i like him...do you think he doesn't like me? or does he like me? help!
ok, first off, all the stuff you just said about what he does? it sounds like he likes you. if that REALLY happens. you could just be letting your imagination get away with you. stop and think. does he REALLY do all that stuff that makes it seem like he's into you? or do you just like him SO SO much that you FEEL like he is, but isn't really? think about that. then, ask yourself this-how long have you liked him? and do you REALLY REALLY like him? if you do like him a ton, and have for a while, maybe it's time to make a bold move. ask him out. its summer, so what do you have to loose? if he says yes you can call all your girlfriends and scream and jump up and down. if he says no, you can call all your girlfriends and cry and they will help you. i really think, if you've like him a lot for a long time that you should do it. again, it's summer. no school gossip. (i don't know about your school, but all the kids including me at MY school are gossip hungry).
yeah. so hope it works out! oh, and if you do ask him out, don't over do it, ok? don't be like "oh my god i like really really like you and i was wondering if i were really nice to you that maybe you would go out with me cuz i was hopping you liked me too and i've liked your for a loooong time and i really want to go out with you..." that kind of thing. just be calm, composed, and regular you. ok?
I already have my ears pierced but now I want a second hole. My moms not really AGAINST the whole idea, but she kind of thinks it's dirty looking. It's only one more hole though, It's NOT like I want earrings all down my ears. How can I explain that getting one extra hole through your ear isn't dirty looking or punkish. I'll rate.
just tell your mom your feelings. let her know that this is what you want to do, and that lots of pretty people have two holes. here's one website, look at the second picture.
http://images.google.com/images?svnum=10&hl=en&lr=&q=double+piercing&btnG=Search and, here's the picture itself. but it's kinda big.
http://april.secac.com/aprilleftearweb.jpg
yeah. also, you could bring up the argument that many second hole earrings are small, and pretty. they are tiny diamonds, or small delacate gold rings. those are somethings that could help.
hope i helped!
Omg there are sooo many HOTT guys at my new skool and they r all waaay into me!! my only prob is that i am a one man woman and i cant have all of them! what on earth should i do???? speed dating is sooo out but i cant think of anything else! HELP! this is the biggest crisis of my ENTIRE EXISTANCE
well, this is a pridicament, isn't it? here's what i would suggest for you: try em out. kinda like clothes. pick the ones you think have the best qualities as human beings, and are the hottest. flirt with em, maybe go on a date with a couple (going out with a few at once won't hurt for a little while) and then make your choice. but, keep in mind that hot isn't all that there is...they should be kind, thoughtful, and just not sex freaks. they need to care about you for you, not for your looks.
hope i helped!
Okay lately I've been feeling extremely depressed. Here's what's been going on...
Ive just finished 9th grade and it's now summer. Well, half way through my 9th grade year after being in a private prep school (one of the top in the nation) my parents pulled me out because I felt like I didn't have any friends. So they pulled me out and put me into a magnet public school with the IB program, and I've made like only one friend here too. So now that I am realizing that the problem is more about a change from me than a change of a school, I feel really stupid about making my parents change my school as I honestly do not feel much happier here, and I wish they knew what was best for me and just made me stay at the private school. Question is...what do I do for next year. Stay in the same school, go to a different private school, I'm not sure. & what should I do to feel happier and less alone. I literally spend every weekend with my parents/on the computer. I seriously have no life, I am very depressed, and I see so many other people having lives (their pictures on myspace) and it makes me feel so crappy. Please give me some advice. Thanks soo much.
first of all, i know how you must be feeling. on of my friends went throught the same thing, and she was soooooo sad. it feels like you just want to break free from everything and just like be wild. at least, thats prolly how i would feel. so, you don't know wat to do for next year. well, can you go back to the private school you were at before? would they let you back in? or, what if you just went to a regular school? just a public school? that could work. i go to a public school, and i have LOTS of friends. that may not be why, but i know a lot of nice people. the thing is though, no matter where you are, you could just be different from people. that's okay! trust me, some of the nicest people i know are "different" (their cool...they just speak their mind) and if you just be you, there's nothing to stop people from wanting to be your friend! and don't judge people by their myspaces. that's just crap. sure, they're fun, but they don't mean anthing. now, if you wanna have a "life" try calling someone and asking them if they wanna go to a movie or something, i know that's hard, but it just might be worth it. call someone who might not be your 'friend' but is pretty close. you said you have one friend at your school you just left? call em! go have a really good time with that friend. see if they can introduce you to more people. and, try not being to close with your parents. your in ninth grade. are you 14? 15? your old enough to do stuff by yourself. so go have fun with someone. first, make a list. mental or an actual list of people who probably wouldn't mind hanging out with you. then, call. call the person you think would be best. and if they can't, keep calling. then, even if you are sad/nervous, try as hard as you can and be the happy person around them. show them you are fun, and that you would be a good friend. it will be hard, and possibly slightly uncomfotable, but try. be bold!!!!!!!! lol.
this is hard. i understand, i really do. and i hope i helped.
so i like this guy who JUST broke up w/ my best friend, right? and right after he broke up with her he asked me out right in front of her and i said i'd think about it. my friend said that he is a gay frog but i can do what i want. plus if i don't go out with him he will spread the word that im a lesbian! (he's really popular) what should i do?!?!?!
gender: girl
age: 13
this is the main question-do you really like him? because your friend might have just said the gay frog thing because she was mad. it's not worth your friendship for a guy. but, then again, if you really like him, talk to her. let her know how you feel, and then go for it. because, your right, you can do what you want. also, think about that lesbian thing...if he would say that, is he wortht the trouble? and he asked you out right in front of her, right after their break-up? he sounds kinda jerky to me. but, the first thing you have to do, no matter wat, is see how your friend feels. you are close. don't ruin that!!!!!!
hope i helped!
p.s-somethin kinda similar happened to me!!!!!!!!!!!! weird...that's been true with a lot of the stuff i've answered!!!!!!
what does grinding feel like? does it give you pleasure.. i want to do it with my bf at the next school dance. also, how do you do it? dont say "dont do it cause you dont know how" cause there is always a first time.
ok, i've done it before and it didn't really give me pleasure...it was more like ew, get away! it just didn't feel normal. but, it wasn't with my b/f, so that prolly is why. anwyay, there is no "right way" to do it. you just kinda...go. it's hard to explain. just kinda go with him, ok? i don't know about grinding facing the guy...never done it. hope i helped!
My exboyfriend and I never had sex, but the reason we broke up is because he had sex with another friend of his. I was mad and asked him how could he hurt me like that? I thought he loved me? He said he didn't know what love was. Obviously I dumped him and then tried ignoring him. I wanted to just forget everything. But we ended up in the same school club and I started really liking him again. We also both made friends with a girl named Monica, no we usually hang out in threes. (Monica has a long distance bf she would never cheat on, if that helps.) I can see my ex maturing, but he never has said sorry to me. We hang out one on one now sometimes. I've learned that his mom put him up for adoption for selfish reasons and the lady that adopted him kicked him out because he'd gotten in a fight with her nephew and made her brother hate her. But now in the club he really seems different. I once heard him telling Monica she's taught him a lot about people. And how he'd hated everyone. So now my ex & I are best friends but neither of us has said anything about our past relationship or a future one. What do I do? I want to be with him again; is that wrong? Can you forgive someone that never says they're sorry?
what he did to you, that was cruel. you can't deny that, and it's going to stick with you forever! but, if you have feelings for him, you can't hide from them. you need to talk to him. tell him that what he did before was wrong, and that it hurt you. but tell him that you like him now. tell him that you do like him, and that if he likes you, things can work. but only if he's sorry.
you see, if he finds nothing wrong with wat he did, CHEATING on you, then you can't exactly call him the most genuine guy in the world. but, if he's sorry and just too scared to say it, then who knows. maybe he has feelings for you now too.
hope i helped!
sissy
hey im 15/f. I was looking for songs to dedicate to my ex boyfriend which is now my best friend. He dedicated a song to me. When he heard the song he said it reminded him of me. It was far away by nickelback. Well he just moved away but will be back next year. And i just wanted to see if anybody knew any songs that say that i miss him, and i'll always be here for him and his best friend. We both still have feelings for each other and thats just the way its always going to be he said. And i agree so if there's any songs out there that would be nice to dedicate to him. I would greatly appreciate it thanks for taking the time to read this i'll rate 5s!!!
Ashley
ok...these both are interesting, and may be too much, but both kind of say i care about you. the first one more than the second. "my heart will go on" by celine dion. the other one is "you're beautiful" by james blunt. i really like both, and i really reccomend my heart will go on. by the way, very sweet and touching story about you and him.
hope it helped! and if these songs don't help, there are plenty out there!
How do you get calves smaller?
Thanks I rate 5's to everyone!
omg...ok, if you have muscular calvs, THAT IS A GOOD THING! it means you are not weak. but, whatever. if you want less muscle, don't work out AS MUCH. still do work out, but maybe concentrate less on your claves. focus more on other things. but, everyone has different calves. for example, i have ugly calves. but i just put nice lotion on them, shave, and get a bit 'o' sun, and voila! beauts. or, if you REALLY hate having muscles in you calves, get a make over! but that's kinda extreem...
hope you feel better! and remember-you are beautiful on the inside no matter HOW you look!
I RATE!
My hair is long (almost half way down my back), dark browny redish, layered and slightly feathered at the sides, straight parted down the middle. I dont have a fringe its grown out but the hair that would of been my fringe (at the very front) comes just above my shoulders. My hair is kinda fly away.. like it sticks up at the top quite a bit.
My face is long and upside down egg shaped (oval) and is kinda chubby. Looking at my face from a side view its kinda wide and round
s considering all of the above my question is.. Im going to a party/gathering for my brothers football team awards thingy :S and i need some nice but simple hairstyles
Picture examples also highly appreciated. I RATE!
omg! we have like the same kind of hair...well, kinda. anyway, here's my suggestion: part your hair along the side of your face you like best (like, if you have acne, or somethin then the side with less acne) and part it far to the side. then, take the hair over to the side you didn't part on. then that side will have all the hair. so, the side with all the hair. we are focusing on that side now. you take the hair and kinda swoop it in front of you face, so it makes a little curtain just on your forhead. then tuck the hair behind your ear, so that the curtain is still there, but the har isn't. then, you take all of you hair that's hanging down, and pull it around to the side of your head that has no part. that way it's pretty simple, but can look formal/casual, is easy, and pretty sexy, i think...hope i helped! the other advice was good too. :-) oh, and here's a link to a pic that's KINDA wat u want. long hair swooping down on forhead. see? hope u get this.
http://www.beautynet.co.za/gallery/Short_Hair_Styles/short_side_parted_bob.jpg
I've never had a boyfriend befor. Whenever im upset i just want one so bad because i want the feeling someone loves me and that there is someone there i can talk to. I think im pretty and so do my friends but im a little chuby. Im blonde,tall,pretty eyes, and im very nice. The only problem is that im really shy. I try to be outgoing but i care to much about what people think. How do i get over that? How do i get a b/f? Thanks to everyone that answers my question and ill rate high for good answers.
ok, first of all, i know the feeling. when you want a b/f, but you don't have one. been there. recently. you need to know this first-someone loves you. someone will always love you, even if it's not a b/f right this moment in your life. so, to answer your first question, "how do i get over being shy and caring about what people think?" well, getting over being shy can be tough. i used to be shy and i'm...well, i'm really very UNshy. VERy unshy. if you want to be more outgoing, start with what you say. try talking a bit more, or saying things a tad daring. i don't know if you are below/above this, but here is an example:
you normaly would say: oh dear. i lost my book.
outgoing person says: crap! i lost my book.
crap is a pretty small cuss word, but it's more outgoing and bold than oh dear. that can also work with what you wear. if you wear conservative clothing, try wearing tighter clothes, or shirts that show a wee bit 'o' tummy.
trying not to care what people think. that is one problem girlfriend that most in this world face. and here is all i can say to help you: just pretend. if you want to wear a flashy, sexy top but you are afraid/you know that people will make fun of you or question you about it, pretend they won't. when you walk out of the house, wear the top and wear it proud. and if you are questioned, get right in there and defend yourself:
questioner: why are you wearing that?
you: because i want to. i think it's cute!
how do you get a b/f? this is gonna sound cheesey-BE YOURSELF. if no one at your school/work place seems to be interested in you, than that's their problem. don't change you just so you can get a b/f. it's not worth it. a great guy will come along eventualy, and you will get him no problem. just wait. and don't try to hard. that really will get you no where. ;-)
hope i could help!