13/f okay so i really like this guy, and i think he likes me...he flirts w/ me A LOT and he'll like look at me and when i look over at him, he'll blush a little. he'll try to impress me and tell me stuff by talking to his friends loudly around me, telling them stuff they already know, and just a lot of stuff like that happens. the only problem is, this has been going on for like 2,3,4 months and nothing has happened!!! im the kinda gal who likes it when guys ask me out and in truth i dont really know where to begin with this guy. i mean i flirt with him a lot and i think he knows i like him...do you think he doesn't like me? or does he like me? help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? phantom_phreak99 answered Monday June 26 2006, 6:19 pm: ok, first off, all the stuff you just said about what he does? it sounds like he likes you. if that REALLY happens. you could just be letting your imagination get away with you. stop and think. does he REALLY do all that stuff that makes it seem like he's into you? or do you just like him SO SO much that you FEEL like he is, but isn't really? think about that. then, ask yourself this-how long have you liked him? and do you REALLY REALLY like him? if you do like him a ton, and have for a while, maybe it's time to make a bold move. ask him out. its summer, so what do you have to loose? if he says yes you can call all your girlfriends and scream and jump up and down. if he says no, you can call all your girlfriends and cry and they will help you. i really think, if you've like him a lot for a long time that you should do it. again, it's summer. no school gossip. (i don't know about your school, but all the kids including me at MY school are gossip hungry).
yeah. so hope it works out! oh, and if you do ask him out, don't over do it, ok? don't be like "oh my god i like really really like you and i was wondering if i were really nice to you that maybe you would go out with me cuz i was hopping you liked me too and i've liked your for a loooong time and i really want to go out with you..." that kind of thing. just be calm, composed, and regular you. ok? [ phantom_phreak99's advice column | Ask phantom_phreak99 A Question ]
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