Hey.
Im a normal person. I have problems as well as give advice. I have been through many friendship problems , family problems, boy problems..the lot. I am very opinionated && I like it that way. I like to give as much advice as I can instead of like 2 sentences. I like to get feedback so I know how people feel about my advice.
My strongest advice points are in:
- Spiritually (ghosts & all)
- Love
- Friendship
- Sex
- Friends
- Family
- Drugs
:)
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or ask for advice anytime you want.
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MSN: nikkimoore411@hotmail.com
Member Since: November 27, 2009
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my sister and i got in a huge physical fight today. she started punching me and tried knocking my door down with a fieldhockey stick in her hand. I imed my boyfriend of over a year, begging him to pick me up and help me and get me out of my house before it got worse, and he was like whatever make peace with her i got to go. i dont know what to do, was that assholeish of him or no? (link)
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hey there
that was such a horrible thing for him to do.
you felt like you were in danger and you wanted to get out.
and he wasnt there to support you.
even though you wanted to make sure it wouldnt get any worse by leaving.
that was mean of him
if i were you .. i would talk to him about that.
because what if you got badly hurt after you asked him to pick you up and he wouldnt.
he would of felt so bad if you got seriously injured.
i hope you sort things out with your sister.
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Is it true that drinking water can make your period go away faster?
If it is then what kind of water should it be? Distilled, vitamin water gatorade? Does it matter? can drinking water make your period go faster or is it something some girl at my school made up?
Please and thank you! (link)
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water ? no.
squeeze the juice out of lemons and drink it.
sit in a hot bath, as hot as you can take it. then sit in a really really cold bath.
take ibuprofen,
EXERCISE,
go on a run... seriously!
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Do you usually use pads or tampons? Do you know any brands that work good? (link)
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Pads or tampons?
You can use whatever one you feel comfortable wearing. With pads you can see when you need to change but sometimes they get all scrunched up or out of place leading it to stain your underwear, where as tampons dont feel as if thier there and you dont have to worry about it staining your underwear.
They are both very simple to change.
Its just down to your personal choice and how you feel about each one.
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what does weed do to you? like i know all of the short term effects and stuff but what about the long term effects? and do you get addicted like you would when smoking cigarettes? (link)
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Marijuana eh?
Weed takes longer to get addicted to.
It does affect your brain just as every other drug does.
It kills your brain cells and blood cells.
7 ciggerettes are equal to one joint.
Im not saying weed is better.
But ciggeretes kill you quicker than weed does.
Weed has 400 different chemicals in it.
THC is a fat-soluble substance and will accumulate in fatty tissues in the liver, lungs, testes, and other organs.
If your a guy it can reduce sperm production as well. If your a girl it will disturb your menstrual cycle and ovulation.
It can also highly hurt your immune system.
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I used to be a happy, carefree girl always with a smile on my face. Now? I constantly worry about what people think of me, I abuse my body by calling myself fat and ugly, I've lost my 'spark' in my personality, and I'm hard to be around because I've become sensitive to small things like harmless jokes that I take too personally.
I over analyze my every thought and statement which usually leaves me saying something awkward. Has this sudden, dark change happened to you before? Or, any idea on how to become a little more carefree and get back to my old happy self?
17, desperate female, lol. (link)
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I want you to remember ONE THING for me. NOBODY IS PERFECT. How can you be calling yourself fat and ugly? If you were to look ALL around the world. Would you find ONE perfect person? I cant think of any celebrities that are perfect?? Anyone I know is not perfect.
Everyone has different features and talents and you have to work with what you have. If you do think you are 'fat' then you can loose weight. Everyone can loose weight.
And nobody in the world is ugly.
Everyone has a different perspective on life.
And you should concentrate on one thing in your life instead of many different things.
What people say or do.. has got nothing to do with you at all.
When someone makes a comment..
I want you to look at them and see what is so PERFECT about them.
they may have 'perfect' hair.
but there whole appearence or personality isnt.
dont worry!
im sure your spark will come back.
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My boyfriend broke up with me 3 weeks ago. We decided to stay best friends because we both care about eachother very much. The problem is that I find myself still loving him and he on the other hand still likes me a tiny bit, but does not want a relationship with me because he was unhappy with it. I was a total wreck at first, but I've come a long way. I am still nowhere near over him though...Well, he likes another girl and I know that they've been having a thing with eachother, but now it turns out that she likes someone else more than she likes him. So, he's now getting heartbroken.. :/ Naturally, as his best friend I am helping him feel better about her. But it just pains me that he's sulking over HER. I realize that at some point he may have been sulking over me instead....I know that we are over. I know that we can not happen again because he doesn't feel that I am the "one". But there is always that hope that maybe...someday...just maybe. I want to stop that hope and these feelings. I know I can't just change the way I feel but I would really appreciate some help in trying to make these feelings stop persisting. :/ Thanks. (link)
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I think you both need a break from each other, just for a while so you have to to breathe.
You agreed on being bestfriends straight out of your realtionship breaking up.
Bad idea.
because either one or the other still has alot of feelings for the other person.
Naturally, after a break up, you would have a break from each other so both people have a chance to chill and have a bit of relaxtion time and hanging out with friends to keep your mind off of it.
Then the feelings will start to fade the less you talk and see him.
I know it sounds REALLY weird and REALLY sad saying that you should talk to him less and see him less but its just a break. Even if its just for a week or so.
Then after your break.
You should then just be friends.
Im not saying forget all your good memories.
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Im not saying dont talk to him at all or be friends with him at all because that would be silly.
Just a break would be good and healthy, then you can rebuild your friendship :)
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i've been head over heels in love with the same guy for about a year and a half. we've broken up a few times, but got back together usually within a few weeks or a month. well this go round, we're trying not to get too serious. like, we don't even call eachother "boyfriend/girlfriend" and because we don't do that, we're not fighting as much because there's no pressure tag hanging over our heads.
a few times a while back, we'd talk about the future; kids, marriage, moving in together, etc. and i thought he and i were on the same page about all that. well, now we're together but not as serious? and i asked him the other day if he ever plans to get married, but not to me, just anybody. and he said he didnt know. that actually semi-shocked me. so now i'm thinking we're no longer on the same page about our futures. like i knew we wouldnt be agreeing on every little thing, for instance, i wanna stay put, he wants to travel. he wants to go to college, and i wanna be done with school after 12th grade. i want kids early in life, he wants time to party and THEN have kids.
my plan is the stereotypical family plan, i wanna get married and have no more than two kids. and i want my boyfriend to be my husband and the father of my kids. but from what he's been implying, i dont think thats gonna happen. i want to talk to him about it in depth, but i don't want to make him feel cornered. and i know this is kind of a stupid topic to bring up to him, but i hate feeling like i'm working so hard for something just to find out that my time has been so terribly wasted. so i want to find out about this from him NOW, not later in the future. because if he doesnt want what i want, then i want to end this relationship before i get too badly attached, (i did get very attached to him at one point and became very depressed when he dumped me, obviously, don't want that to happen again,)
anyone with any sort of advice, please let me know. by the way, i wouldn't care if it was what i wanna hear, or if you wanna tell me that i'm an obsessive compulsive bitch, go right ahead. i just need advice. thanks, and sorry this is so long. (link)
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Im guessing your nearly 18 or around 18? Well, this is what I want to know. How do you know EXACTLY what is going to happen in the future.? These are your plans and what you would like. You have no idea of any barriers that could be getting in way of your plans. You could have a unplanned baby. He might change his mind about college or travelling. Your boyfriend may be at that point where he doesnt quite know exactly what he wants in the near future. you might change your mind about alot of things. Having kids and a husband seems like a committment your willing to have. I wouldnt dump him. It seems like you have been through very harsh times and I understand that. To be honest. You need to sit down again and talk to him about it because it seems like there is alot you havnt told him.. I could be wrong.. but its just an opinion. Finish school first. Then see what happens in the long run. I suggest you dont let alot of things interupt your school life as education is very important. Carry on the realtionship if you think it is going to work. Ive said what I think.. so now its down to you!
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im on the special k diet and today i ruined it and i ate
2 bowls of GO LEAN cereal
special k 90 cal snack bar
special k meal bar
coffee
then.....
A LOT
of peanut butter and like 5 oreos
what do i do!
i feel obese and i cant gain weight uch.
plus tomorrow is thanksgiving, and im going to cheat tomorow to and ruin my diet even more (link)
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thanksgiving huh?
well
depending on what you eat its different.
because isnt it a big roast meal? (i dont have thanksgiving in New Zealand). because if it is a a big roast meal then you shall have plenty of vegetables and meat which will give you protein and iron :D soo dont worry! and you can always burn off extra calaries from the dessert doing an extra long workout the following day :D !
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I have dark hair and made the mistake of shavin the top of my legs around my bikini area back in the day now i shave everyday but the little black stubble is always showin what can i do to get rid of it? (link)
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stop shaving.
change to either waxing or hair removal cream.
you will have to wait for the hairs to grow back.
but it will be alright after waxing
make sure you get good waxing strips
not silly cheap ones.
works for me :)
lasts alot longer and smoother :D
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so EVERYBODY always says that you have to play hard to get for guys. what does that mean. like i dont get it because they always say to not go after them but if you dont go after them then they think that you dont like them because you never try to talk to them or whatever. just someone help me, i dont get it. i rat 5 for everybody.(: (link)
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No. Look.
none of this play hard to get Bulls***..
If you like someone or think someone is attractive.
You go for it..
Dont hold back because you propably wont get them in the end.
So if you like someone.
go get them,
no playing hard to get.
it doesnt get you anywhere.
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I feel like my so called "best friend" doesnt care about me. I realyl don't feel like anyone does really, and that sounds so stupid. I mean if i'm upset or something and just have my hands over my face, no one asks me if i'm okay or anything. I just don't understand what i'm doing wrong. I try to be the best friend that I can be and end up failing miserably. Just like with everything else. I try being the best sister, daughter, anything and I fail. What am I doing wrong? (link)
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you dont need to try and be something your not.
Just carry on as normal.
you dont need to try and impress people or try and help them out.
if you are feeling down. ask them for advice.
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I really want to know if anyone has ever tried a seyonce, or saeonce howver you spell it. lol. :P
Because i want to do it with my best m8 at halloween and i want to so much but im sooo scared that i will never be able to sleep peacfuly again! please help!? this is serious. i get freaked out easily! (link)
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i advice you not to do it. If something bad comes in. It wont go away until you get some help from someone.
PLEASE DONT DO IT!
its just like doing a ouija board all over again
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I am being completely and utterly serious.
I am researching demons, specifically names, behavior, appearance, etc for a story that I am doing. I am religious (Roman Catholic) and my mother has taught me that "playing" with the supernatural/demons, devil, etc may be "inviting" them into your lives. (Being possessed, or haunted) I do not want this to happen to me. I do not wish to mess with them, I just want to do research. I would prefer for the advice given to be done by somebody who is religious (some form of Christianity is preferred, but as long as you believe in good and evil, etc) I am being serious. Also, is just WRITING about them dangerous? Thank you so much.
-WiseRose (link)
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Research wont hurt you.
Your only looking up names and the lives of those demons. Your not inviting anything in by looking up things on the computer.
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Are there any tips or things you can do to increase your chances of getting in touch with someone from the other side?
not like lighting a candle and stuff...
and are there any spells any one might have that you have done and it worked?! any spell would be great!
And i would really like to know how to make a Voodoo doll for revenge! and if anyone out there has done Voodoo, TELL ME of your exprience!!!
help would be greatly appreciated!!
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Hi there.
personally.
I would go to physchic.
I have had my ouija board experiences.
i contacted 3 different people.
But if i had the chance to tell someone weather to do it or not. I would say a big NO!
Please never do a ouija board...
it can open up and let bad spirits/demons or whatever into your room or house or whatever. Peoples houses have unexplainibly burnt down. and if you do not use the ouija board saftly then it can turn bad for you. If you ARE going to use a ouija board. Make sure u have some kind of REAL SILVER or REAL GOLD on the board. and alot of crystal around it. Holy water. And special herbs you can look up on the enternet. Once you have opened the ouija board.. the ghosts will stay in that particular room or whatever. I can feel they are still in mine. And they are complete randoms.
Voodoo doll?
Just remember karma is real.
and it does happen.
And you have to believe in the black magic and voodoo doll stuff ..
not just do it once and your done.
it doesnt work like that!
please be carefull.!!!
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This experience is new to me, therefore the reason I feel creeped out. I've been living in my current house (With my parents, I'm 16) for about a year and a half. When we moved in, I found out about the history of the house, seeing as it is renovated, it still has the original flooring on the first floor, original walls...and interesting characters that lived here. Regardless to the details of the previous inhabitants, this house has a feeling to it.
Recently, more specifically in my room and the hallway beside my room have been...well, excuse my French, but f**cking eerie. That is the best word I can come up with, maybe supernatural is better? Either way, my cat behaves weirdly in the hallway outside my room. He'll just hiss, whilst obviously staring at something in the air, which, apparently I am oblivious to. Okay, that I can handle. In my room, where three inhabitants have killed themselves, I get cold feelings. You may think I'm paranoid, and I was pretty sure I was myself, it seems near impossible now. It's not like I'm constantly thinking about it, I'll be sitting here, on my laptop, not thinking about this paranormal issue, with my window and door closed, and suddenly it'll be freezing. Few seconds later, it'll be back to normal. And no, I don't have some medical condition that gives me the shivers or whatnot.
Also, I see some strange lights, flashes. I don't know how to define it. Just the other day, I was lying on my bed, reading a book, home alone, so no sibling disturbance, and I just see a flash pass my eyes. It wasn't the street lights, or any cars. It was in broad daylight and so far, I have yet to come across something that could've caused this. Prior to last week, I've experienced this flashy encounter about four more times.
I'll just remind you that I'm not thinking about these occurrences. They are rarely on my mind, only after some thing's happened. I'm not exactly spiritual, but I do believe there's something out there. I'm not religious either.
I guess the worst part is the creaky floorboard happenings. At one part of my room, there is a floorboard or two that creak when you step on them. Directly, if you stand next to them, the floor doesn't make a sound. There have been countless times that the boards have creaked, in manner of somebody walking across them, but naturally, I'll be in the room alone. This is just disturbing at the moment of action, after that I just forget about it.
My dad admitted that he's had a few weird feelings in this house as well, thinking they are paranormal, but I did not know this until about a month ago when I asked him about his opinion on the house.
My main question is, and I just realized how long my introduction was, please accept my apologies, what do you think is going on?
Anything I should try or do?
Any specific reason why my cat would hiss at empty spaces, in one particular area of my house?
Whatever you have to say or propose, feel free, I'm not going give harsh ratings because I disagree. I'm open to anything :) (link)
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There is a ghost currently living in your house. I wouldnt really call it living. But the presents are there. The flashes of light is your ghost. And cats and dogs have a extra sense and they can see these things or just sense them which would explain your cat looking into space. Honestly, I think that the ghost that is walking about your room is one that has died in your room that is why it has continued to stay where it is and not change rooms or houses. Dont ever get a ouija board to contact it. You can tell it to go away, you may need to repeat it multiple times but i find it works as i have had experiences with ghosts/spirits. You can get a physhic to talk to the ghost and ask either what it wants/reasons to stay and she can help you get it away if you do want it gone. Some people arnt really bothered at the ghosts because they are not harmful. Its natural to be creeped out or scared. I wouldnt give it ALOT of directions and talk to it TOO much but you can say the odd thing like "please leave" or explain that he/she needs to cross over.
Hope I helped in some way!
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so for school me and my friends have to play instruments, and we know how to play the trumpet, drums,piano and cello. is it possible? and any recommendations on what songs we should play? (link)
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Hiya.
It sounds pretty cool.
Why don't you try making up your own song.
Just a sort and simple tune! :)
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