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Is there a reason that that every place I look only has straight weave hair choices? Does curly always look bad or something?

I think curly hair is very unique and Gives the hair more volume there are also different looks you can do with curly hair you can go for the shakira look or even the nice classy curls i think the places you are looking at just have a lot of straight weave hair and if you look in other places you will find nice curly ones

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How do you know when you need your tonsils out cause mine are super sollwen they have little white patches my friends say I need to get them out what do you think?

that just means you have a sour throat and i had my tonsils removed my doctor told me i had to remove them because they were too big and i always had a soar throat so i think you should go to the doctor

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I am a 13 year old girl and I need to get rid of acsess stomach and thigh fat.Every time I look into the mirror I fell very self conscince.I dont have alot of money so what should I do?I need help/advise!

cut your food in half if you eat a 2 pieces of pizzas eat one don't any junk food like chips, chocolate, candy, etc. and exercise that is the most important one do some crunches and sit ups

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how does it feel whenn your putting on your braces

you don't feel a single thing but after your teeth are going to be hurt really bad and your not going to be able to eat much but the pain eventually goes away within a couple days

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14/f
My boyfriend gave me a necklace for my birthday a few weeks ago. I wore it to school, then took it off at the end of the day in the locker room so I could change for tennis. I thought I put it in my backpack but I looked and I can't find it anywhere. I checked all around my house too. So tomorrow we have a date and he asked me to wear the necklace. I really don't want to tell him I lost it! I don't know what to do! I feel horrible!

just tell him because the more you keep it from him the worse it will get and he would start to think something is wrong like maybe you never liked it so just tell him i am pretty sure he will understand

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ok so i have my ex best friends and ex boyfriend saying crap about me and spreading it around. im 15 and i feel like people are starting to talk about me behind my back? i dont think my current friends are but i definitely know that my ex best friends are because they keep giving me really bad looks. i dont care what people think about me i never did and never will because i always know the truth but still i dont want this getting out of control because it's starting to a bit. what can i do about it?

just ignore it you can never stop people from talking no matter what people are always going to talk ignore and they will eventually stop and get bored

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my girlfriend is super shy around me and i dont kno wat to do and she likes me alot but i can nevr tlk to her wat shud i do.

make her feel comfortable don't sat things that will make her shy usually when a girl acts like that around a guy it means she really loves him so don't worry just spend more time together let her get used to you

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Last night I had a dream that i saw a green snake in my house. I wasnt scared of it and it didnt harm. It was in my closet then it came down and went down the hallway and then down the steps then I woke up. It seemed pretty weird. Why would I just randomly dream about a green snake. Do you know what it could mean?

seeing a snake in your dream means that you have an enemy and the fact that your weren't scared of it means that you have an enemy that is acting like he/she is your friend

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I am a girl, 14. He is also 14, 15 next week.

I have a best friend that is a guy, and he goes to another school now that we've moved onto high school. We text all the time, sometimes even during school, when we can. We have nicknames for each other, we have "our song" that is only ours (two or three actually), we have favourite things we like to do together, and it seems like I'm getting close to liking him. I've liked him before, which turned out in a massacre, but we patched it up and look where we are now. We're closer than ever. I even get jealous when he talks to my other friends, which I know sounds unreasonable, but I don't know why, I just get jealous. So, what should I do? Act on it, or just simply carry out this really good friendship with him?

i say you tell him how you feel because he seems like he feels the same way or make him say it first ask him questions like who do you like? or how would you feel if i told i like you?

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lately i havent been eating as much because i want to stay skinny and maybe lose a bit more weight and be more skinny. last time i checked i am about 43 kilos. are there any easy diets that anyone knows about? im half vegetarian and hate vegetables :)

that is the worse thing you will possibly do you will always be hungry and would want to eat and once you break your diet and eat all that food you missed out on and gain more weight just cut your food in half and exercise like if you eat 2 slices of pizzas eat one and cut out on the junk food

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I go to this school with a guy (let's call him justin) so, we dated once for about 2 months and he dumped me. It is now a few months later and I have the same feelings for him again. I asked my friends boyfriend to ask him out for me... he said ok and asked him.... he said no...of course....so, I went and stood by a flight of stairs...and her and her boyfriend followed me to comfort me. A few minutes later he came over and sat behind where I was standing. He kept looking t my butt... but didn't say anything. After that, it has been a few more days, so I asked my friend to ask him if he likes me.... he said he didn't, and she asked him why..and all he said was idk, I just dont..... how can I get him to like me??? I think I'm obsessed with him cuz I can't get him out of my head.... its really creepy... OH!! And then there is this other guy that i like, we talk all the time and we seem to get along really well. But when i talk to him he always acts nervous. I have no idea why.. and yea, he does have a gf, but they keep breaking up and then getting back together..I like him too... so how can i get either guy to like me?? And how will i know if they do? Please put your answers like this.... Guy 1:
Guy 2: and after each "guy' can you put the explanation..... Thanks!!!!!!!

okay you don't like any of them you think you do but you don't because if you did you would only like one of them not both but for guy 1: stop throwing your self on him act guys hate that just don't pay anymore attention to him and he will start to get mad and would try to get your attention guy2: well i think guy 2 seems like he likes you so just tell him how you feel

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So here's what I need help about... There's this girl at my faculty that I've been meaning to ask out for like 6 months. By the way, it would be my first time asking someone out... (lame, I know)! I think I've finally worked up the nerve to do it, but lately I've been reading about the so called "pity date" thing. We're not particularly close as friends and I have no idea if she knows I like her (I think she doesn't). She is VERY nice and kind to everyone without exception and I think it's a virtue... But that's also what worries me. How do I know she won't just go out with me because she's NICE? Maybe I'll take her for a drink (I'm talking apple juice) and she'll just be friendly like she always is... and then I do it a few more times and she just keeps going out with me because she doesn't wanna hurt my feelings...

I mean I don’t want to go out with somebody and be distracted the whole time thinking about why thery’re there!

Oh yes, and we’re both 20, for what it’s worth.

Any advice appreciated.

you should have some confidence tell her how you feel. Tell her that you want to go out with her and that your scared if she does its because shes too nice to say no. At first just ask her to hang out and trust me you will now if she wants to be around you or not

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I am a 14 yr old girl going into gr 9 and i have one friend who treats me really badly she went as far as to tells me i was ugly and so was my grad dress.(which she knew i loved) i dont know how much longer i can put up with her abuse (both pyhsical as well as mental) but dont know how a can not be friends with her and still be friends with my other friends, as they will most likly hang out with her.....

if you have friends like that they are not really your friends once you step up to all of them they wont treat you that way anymore be strong and who cares about the rest make some new friends and don't be scared of anything

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18/f
my past relationships have ended suddenly because i have a nasty habit when it comes to getting close to someone. i'm very depression-prone. and usually when i'm with someone for awhile and i get depressed (for one reason or another) i start to push them away. press the right buttons, don't care about their feelings, act extremely distant and obviously sad, etc. i don't know why i do it, but i do. and i don't want to anymore. i'm with someone now and i really really love her. this is my first girlfriend. she's been my friend for years and so theres a lot of history there. anyways, lately i've been really down because of stress at work and with my friends. i took it out on her today and she started crying in front of me, and i immediately snapped out of my "fuck everything" mood and felt horrible. now, i know how girls work. i know you're not supposed to shut them out because they obviously think they did something wrong. she hasn't done anything wrong and it took me forever to explain that to her. i ended up buying her a balloon saying "i love you" along with a stuffed animal.
i don't want to make her cry anymore. she doesn't deserve that. we both have decent amounts of stress in our life and i don't want to add to hers. how can i fix the way i act in relationships? i don't want to chase her away like i did everyone else, since she's still my best friend and the only person i don't want to lose.

just stop thinking about what makes you stressed out and depressed when you feel that way go to a place where your alone or think of something that makes you happy

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