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He dosent like me but i like him....
I go to this school with a guy (let's call him justin) so, we dated once for about 2 months and he dumped me. It is now a few months later and I have the same feelings for him again. I asked my friends boyfriend to ask him out for me... he said ok and asked him.... he said no...of course....so, I went and stood by a flight of stairs...and her and her boyfriend followed me to comfort me. A few minutes later he came over and sat behind where I was standing. He kept looking t my butt... but didn't say anything. After that, it has been a few more days, so I asked my friend to ask him if he likes me.... he said he didn't, and she asked him why..and all he said was idk, I just dont..... how can I get him to like me??? I think I'm obsessed with him cuz I can't get him out of my head.... its really creepy... OH!! And then there is this other guy that i like, we talk all the time and we seem to get along really well. But when i talk to him he always acts nervous. I have no idea why.. and yea, he does have a gf, but they keep breaking up and then getting back together..I like him too... so how can i get either guy to like me?? And how will i know if they do? Please put your answers like this.... Guy 1:
Guy 2: and after each "guy' can you put the explanation..... Thanks!!!!!!!
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okay you don't like any of them you think you do but you don't because if you did you would only like one of them not both but for guy 1: stop throwing your self on him act guys hate that just don't pay anymore attention to him and he will start to get mad and would try to get your attention guy2: well i think guy 2 seems like he likes you so just tell him how you feel
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First of all, you cannot force anyone to like you. Seriously, you can't. If they don't like you, they don't like you. Don't take this the wrong way, but having someone else "ask out" a guy you like for you seems really childish and awkward.
If he's not interested, he's not interested. Appearing desperate and continually asking if he likes you (through other people, no less) is going to push him away more. My suggestion is to back off. If he wants to date you, let him come to you. I'm sure you're an awesome girl, so no need to be desperate! I'm sure tons of guys want to date you. Like I said, let them come to you! It'll happen, trust me.
No guy wants to be asked out. They like to play the "man role" and do the asking out. It's not wrong at all to encourage a guy (flirt) to let him know you're interested, but don't push it!
Good luck!
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