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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 8 months. She's a nice girl but I don't have those feelings of love for her. I've been trying to wait it out, thinking that I'd start to feel the magic sometime, but it ain't happening. She's really into me and I'm just not into her. She's nice and all but that's about it. How can I dump my girlfriend without hurting her? I know I need to let my girlfriend down easy but how? (link)
there is no way you can get out of this without hurting this girl. and its not your fault. be honest with her stop wasting your time and stop wasting her time you could be dating someone that you feel magic with and she could be dating some one who is truly into her. I don't know why guys do this they string a girl along cause they don't want to hurt her. you will hurt her no matter what because she really likes you. So to lose you woul be awful for her. but she will get over it just like we all do. Atleast your not one of those idiots that lie and cheat. be a man about.


When I was younger, I was molested for 2 years by my stepbrother. A year after, my boyfriend cheated on me, and my last boyfriend only wanted to date me because he wanted sex. I have always had trouble trusting guys, and I always am awkward and scared around them - even my own dad. It's hard for me to get close to a guy, and I've always thought that they were all the same. How do I get around this? (link)
i'm so sorry for what happend to you thats awful but you must move on and forgive your abuser so that you can be free. The truth is MOST MEN are selfish and the lie especially the young ones. So its up to you to put your foot down don't trust anyone male or female too quickly. Get to know really get to know who they are and listen to your gutt when you feel something is off about somone, when that little voice is saying don't trust.... listen to it. I don't know how old you are so i can't tell you exactly how to go about this but every man is not the same. If you are young for example 15 to 21 forget about it don't trust shit that comes out guys mouth cause around that age they are mostly full of shit and need time to mature. if you are older you can put you guard down a little. take it slow and get to know people and the way you judge people will come more easilly to you.


Okay i want to get on birth control but i dont know which one to choose , i was on the shot before and it mad me blow up :/ and i know i wouldnt be able to take thee pill because i forget and loose things alot are there any good ones out there??????? (link)
low estrogen 24 is real good. I'm over weight and on a diet lost about 35 pounds while on these pills in about 3 months. the only side effects are....... less blood flow less cramps less bloating and no weight gain.( sounds good right) before these birth control pills i was getting my period twice a month, REALLY BAD PAIN with back aches head aches and bloating not to mentions 5 pounds of water weight. these pills saved my life you should try it. Everyone is diffrent though. The trick is to remember to take it on time the same time every day especially when you first start your body has to get used to it. if you slip up and miss a day you'll get a very heavy period. set an alarm or set your phone to alarm every day.

What ever you do DO NOT try seasonique or YAZ I did and i had heart problems and needed to be rushed to the hospital. Plus both companies have cases agaist them cause people actrually died while on it. Stay far away from those. GOOD luck!


Kay i hate my freaking stomach!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Its not huge but its big enough and i dont know how to lose it i tried alot of things that i put together myself but since i put them together i feel like its not really gonna help, if that makes sense! long story short i was wonder does anyone have a workout plan/diet that could help me lose my tummy by january???????? pleaseeeee lol im 5'6 1/2 5'7 & i weight bout 190, big i know =/ oh & im a female! I think my tummy is about 15 pounds at most! Thanks in advance guys. (link)
WOW you and i have the same probelem i know all to well what you are going through.and i tried everthing. But recently i have tried somethin called hip hop abs i works i don't know if you've heard of it but you can buy the dvd on amozon.and another good dvd is turbo jam abs thats real good.

well i've been doing hip hop abs for about six weeks and i lost 3 inches keep in mind i don't do it every day and sometimes i over eat. but it still works i love it. i know if i got serious it would work better

another tip is wear a swet belt you can get that on amozon to. its ths velcro belt you wear while exerciseing it makes you swet more in the stomack area.

good luck with that tell me how it goes.


I'm 25 and I've never had my first kiss with a guy yet. It never did bother me until recently when my friend found out and she was pretty shocked. I'm a pretty girl and take care of my body but I guess I'm just not a "people person" and haven't seriously dated or been seriously interested in someone. Is something wrong with me? (link)
there is nothing wrong with you. it just hasn't happen for you yet. sometimes people notice that every one around them is kissing have casual sex and relationships and it looks like so much fun. Your not missing much trust me. I will happen sooner or later. but nothing is wrong with.when that perong comes along its going to be wonderful and all of this will not even matter.


i have blood in my semen when i jack off but i doesnt hurt and i cant see a doctor

what should i do (link)
You seriously need to go to the DOCTOR NOW. I can't think of a reason why you can't go. This is a very serious problem you should NOT have blood in your semen AT ALL. If you're embarressed you need to get over it. If its a family doctor that you don't want your family to find out get over it. And if its because you have no insurance there are free clinics every where. You need to put embarasment aside and your pride aside before its too late. Your life is worth more. This can be something that can be fixed. Don't wait till its too late. I've never heard of blood in semen so i looked it up here are some of the reasons why you have blood in your semem.


What is blood in the semen?

The presence of blood in the semen (ejaculate) is also called hematospermia. Hematospermia is an uncommon condition.


What are the causes of blood in the semen?

Blood in semen can be caused by many conditions affecting the male genitourinary system. Areas affected include the bladder, urethra, the testicles, the tubes that distribute semen from the testicles (known as the seminal vesicles), the epididymis (a segment of the spermatic ducts that serves to store, mature and transport sperm), and the prostate gland.

Blood in the semen is most commonly a result of a prostate-gland biopsy. More than 80% of men who undergo a prostate biopsy may have some blood in their semen that persists for three to four weeks. Likewise, vasectomy can lead to bloody semen for about one week after the procedure.

In men with hematospermia who have not had a recent prostate biopsy or vasectomy, a number of benign and malignant conditions of the male genital system may be the cause. In many situations, no definitive cause is found.

The following conditions have been reported in association with hematospermia:

•benign or malignant tumors of the prostate, bladder, testes, or seminal vesicles,



•infections (including, but not limited to, chlamydia, herpes, cytomegalovirus, and trichomoniasis),



•inflammation of the prostate (prostatitis), epididymis (epididymitis), or urethra (urethritis),



•calculi (stones similar to kidney stones) in the seminal vesicles or prostate,



•polyps in the urethra,



•ejaculation-duct obstructions,



•metastatic cancers (that have spread from other sites in the body) located in the genitourinary system, and



•cysts, hemorrhage, or other abnormalities in the seminal vesicles.

Good luck i hope you get better.


when my mom was pregnant and I was little she told me that the baby got inside of her because her and Dad kissed.. My parents told me that all of my life.. Well,, I just turned 13 and I never really thought much more of it.. I don''t have a boyfriend or anything and so I never even considered kissing someone or making babies.. Logically I am thinking kissing doesn''t cause pregnancy but I don''t really know how a woman gets pregnant anyway.. I don''t know um so does kissing cause pregnancy for sure or not or..?? I heard sex means pregnancy but is kissing sex then or what?? (link)
Wow how old are you sweety no kissind does not cause you to be pregnant. listen to the previos persons answer casue there right. I think you need to take a sex education class.


My bf and I been together for like 3 months. He's grate. Love him. And then we started off kinda diffrent than most couples cause we hooked up @ a party of my friends and like went at it and he told me he liked me after and that was that for us. We never use condoms tho and he always always cums in me. we probably do it like idk at least once every day but sometimes twice not always?? Anyways my period aint come yet this month and I'm like am I pregnant? What are the ODDS of getting pregnant like this? Cause I told if you have sex EVERY day then you cant get pregnant cause his sperms go too low and there aint enough to cause pregnancy. mom knows we been doing it so R E L A X were cool (link)
you know what i don't mean to be rude. But you sound really young and imature. Honey you must use a condom EVERY SINGLE TIME YOU HAVE SEX.... and your doing it every day? You need to protect your self. and what is this stupid talk about if you have sex every day you won't get pregnant. that is the most stupid thing i've ever heard all it takes is one time. you know this guy cums in you all the time what did you think would happen? Maybe your pregnant maybe your not but if you're not i'll be shoked. You need to use the pill tell your man to use a condom or use both if you don't want to get pregnant. And you've known this guy for only 3 months you don't know him like that. you have to protect your self agaist STD's cause you can get one. But to answer your question YES HELL YES you can definately be pregnant. Take a home pregnancy test.

ANd do your self a a favor and take your young ass to a sex education class and learn something.


I have decided I'd like to end my life. I have been without a job for 6 months and no longer have funds left. Nobody can help me and I feel that I am just wasting space at this time. There are no jobs available for me. I feel pathetic and alone. This weekend I will be left home alone when my roommate goes to spend the weekend with her parents in another state. What are some fast, easy ways to commit suicide? I'd like to this at home, peacefully, so that less people will have to see the body in the end. I'd like something that isn't too messy, if possible, but is fairly painless. Suicide tips? Thank you very very very much. (link)
do you really think that people would give you tips on how to kill your self. Your crazy. I know what you're going through i was unemployed for a year. You're not the only one. America is in trouble a lot of people don't have jobs. You've only been out of a job for 6 months thats nothing. Your life is worth way more. Instead of sitting around all day asking people for ways how to kill your self you should be out looking for a job. Its not that bad you have your health. Do you want to be in the hospital hooked up to tubes fighting cancer or aids. atleast you're not homeless in the street with no food. IT could be a lot worst than what you think. Its not that bad. You could make it through this. I don't know if your religous but ask God for help. Just shout the word out help. Pull your self together be stronger than that. I'm sure you have friends and Family that care about you don't do something selfish like killing your self an make them suffer because they missed you and never got to say bye to you.


I take birth control pills and have been for 2 months now. I was talking about it to my boyfriend and he was saying how we wouldn't have to use condoms if we were to have sex since I'm on the pill now. Is that true? Can you get pregnant while on birth control pills or not? (link)
YYYEEEESSSS you can definately still get gregnant. Let me tell you something men love to hear it when women are on the pill. They get real relaxed and happy now cause the have no responsibility. They think the pill is going take care of everything well that is not true. Its good that your on the pill cuase it does help you not to get preganat about 95% but if you skip just one pill Just one lil mistake is all it takes and you will surely get pregnant. So tell your boy friend no glove no love you make him where the condom that way if you forget to take your pill the condom will be the back up.

And in the future don't ever tell a man your own the pill they love that. And the love to spred their seed. Keep that info to your self.


i keep feeling nusea like everyday and i dont know if i feel sick hungry or just nervous but i dont think im nervous or hungry yesterday i felt like i seriously needed to puke i was starving so i ate a hambuger fastish and i was around smoke from cigs but usually im not that bad around it but i kept for like 2 hours after eating feeling like i needed to puke like ligit i needed to and i went home and drank water laid down and felt fine. sometimes i feel like i have car sickness like bad and im not driving in the car haha. its just annoying and its going on for like a week now everyday why is this? (link)
umm i don't want to alarm you but you sure sound prenant to me those are the signs. hungry feeling like you want to throw up.

I don't know you and i don't know if your haveing sex or if you've erver had sex. but you sound pregnant i would get a pregnancy test quick.

If your not then i don't know what it. but look on the bright side atleast your not pregnant. thats if you don't want to be of course.


I have a girlfriend that I have been going out with for 14 months. She lives 2 hours away and I see her almost every weekend- I either take her back to my house or I stay at her house for the weekend. Things have typically gone fine until about two months ago. We have fought more and more. I am friends with my ex's uncle, and this bothers her tremendously. However, me and him are good friends and I am not planning on stopping hanging out with him because he is an awesome guy and in some ways my idol. Anything that has to do with my ex girlfriend, my girlfriend is totally against it, even though I am totally over avoiding my ex and we have even somewhat become friends. My current girlfriend and I started going out approximately three weeks after my last relationship, which lasted 10 months and was my first love- quite a painful experience although I am over it and I feel like it taught me a lot. I am just not sure what to do about this whole situation. I feel like I am growing more distant from my current girlfriend the less time I spend with her, and I feel like I want to experience other women someday, and I feel like there are some things I need to explore and do on my own while I am single, while I can. I know she loves me like crazy and I love her too- I don't know if I want to lose her forever. I am only 20 though and I know I have my whole life ahead of me. Would someone please give me some insight on this? (link)
You just answerd your own question. Yes you are ONLY 20 you feel like you want to get out there and see what and who else is out there so do it. You are a afraid that if you break up with this girl you will hurt her. But its better to be honest with her that waste her time and your time. You're not in this relationship whole heartedly so whats the point. Don't do things in life half ass. Either do it the 100% or forget it its not worth it. You know what you have to do but you just want to take the easy way out and not confront your issues.

And your girlfriend going crazy just because your hanging out with your exes UNCLE? thats a sign that she is insecure and it will just get worst TRUST ME. You won't be able to talk to another female for the rest of your life. I mean its not even your ex your talking to. Then I would understand. Its her Uncle I mean she really needs to get over herself.

Any way bottom line your way too young for all that stress Get out while you still can. We all get our hearts broken and we all get over it. Its apart of growing up.


I am a 26 year old black male and I've been married for almost 2 years. My wife has 3 kids. I love our children but I don't have any biological children and we can't have kids together because she has had an hysterectomy. I take care of my house hole, wife and kids. My wife is a stay home mom. She gets every thing she wants and need. All I want is a biological child. We can't afford a surrogate mother and last night she told me that I can sleep with another woman so I can have a child. What should I do and where can I find a woman just for that reason? (link)
oh man this is a tuff one. you really got your self into a situation. did you know that she could not have children before you got married? Do you plan on having the baby mamma around? Will you be co-parenting with the baby mamma? No one does something for nothing you would definately have to pay for someone to have your child.

in that case you should save to get a serogate. I know your wife told you to go ahead and have sex with someone but she just said that to try to please you. No woman wants to see her man with someone else TRUST ME. If you find some one to have your baby with your wife will resent you and the baby momma. There is a good chance that she will become jelous too. Especially when she sees the bond that that you and the mother will have.


your asking for trouble if you go down that road. your marriage will suffer. it would be wrong to sleep with someone else nothing good would come from it. your wife might hate the fact that you had sex outside the relationship even though she told you to. Or you might catch feelings for the woman you have sex with cause she gave you something that your wife could not.

You have to ask your self this question. does having a biological child mean that much to you? does it mean more than your marriage. bottom line if you want this so much just save up for the serogate. but you should not have any type of relationship or sex with anyone.


Okay, so here lately I've been really wet 24/7, and I haven't been horny AT ALL! I don't understand why I've been so wet for. My discharge doesn't have a smell, or a color. Its clear.

*Kind of personal information below, but I don't care.

Today I was taking a poop, and before I wiped, I pee'd. Well, when I went to wipe, I noticed something long, thin dangling from my vagina hole, and I wiped it and it was like gel, or jelly.

It was clear, and no smell, && I rubbed it between my fingers, and it didn't come apart. Kind of like the silly putty that farts when you press it in the cup and it makes a sound. It didn't leave any access discharge on my fingers, it stayed together.

Im alittle scared, because I don't know whats wrong with me. I showed my mom, and I told her where it came from, and she goes "Get it away! You got some kind of disease!" But I dont thank I do? (link)
don't freak out the fact that the discharge is clear and without a smell indicates that this is normal a lot of women get this. Yours sounds like its heavy. If it is
Clear and stretchy: This is "fertile" mucous and means you are ovulating.


i don't know the full details i dont know how old you are and i don't kknow if you've ever had sex.
And i don't know if this occured befor or after your period my first thought was that you had a yeast infection. don't freakout if it is a yeast infection you're not going to die. Try vagisil cream or monestat cream this happens to alot of women. But i don't think that you have a yeast infection at all.Go to a doctor and explain whatever you have can be fixed trust me. i know its weird but don't freak out it sounds normal.


16/f
I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months. We're really honest with each other and trust each other and all that. So we have a pretty good relationship. It's just I get so jealous easily. I don't show it at all. But I hate the feeling. It's just whenever he's talking to a girl. Usually if I think she's really pretty or I know he used to like or if he has been with her it really gets to me.
One time, he saw one of his exes. He just was like, "oh great. she's a stalker" I didn't know her but I got jealous, even though he doesn't like her. Why is that? How do I deal with this and make it go away? I know for a fact I'm not gonna lose him and I don't feel like I am. I even tell myself that. I don't have a reason at all to feel this way.
I get this way with my crushes too. Can anyone help me with this? (link)
the reason why you feel so jelous is because you are insecure about your self. Every time you see him just talking with a girl you start to compare your self to her because for some reason you feel that you are not good enough. You have to stop that. The only person getting in your way is you. You have a good man. There are millions of women out there wanting what you have. Hold on to what you have and be grateful.Get those thought out your head. You're freeking out over absolutely nothing.


I can't get horny for my boyfriend anymore. It feels good when he touches me and I still love him, but I just can't.
If it helps I haven't had my period since July 21st and I started the BC shot in August ( my periods are always irregular). Also. I;m 100% not pregnant ( got tested).
What doctor do I need to see?
Do I need to take hormones?
Is it the pill?
Please help! (link)
it definately the birth control thats one of the well known side affects. loss of sex drive its normal. you have to let you body get uesd to the hormones. it will take about 2 months.

if you want things to get back to normal i think you should stop taking the shots and get on the pill. Use something like loestrin. its gentle enough and the side affects are minimal.

But you should go to the doctor and explain how you feel. Whatever you do don't just switch to the pill without the doctors notice or else your body would go into shock and you will have bad cramps.

i know cause the same thing happend to me if you look it up on the internet the main side affect is low sex drive so thats definately what the problem is.


I'm the same girl who asked this question...
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=586062
so this same guy from the previous question told me he liked me and he hadnt stopped liking me.we were talking later and he asked me if i would be friends with benefits him because he likes to flirt with a lot of girls and he wants to be "emotional" and "physical" friends with benefits.I told him i didnt want to do that and he said he had to decide what he wanted to do.i kinda feel like hes trying to keep me liking me so that if nothing else works out ill still be here for him.what should i do!?is he playing me!? (link)
YESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS he is so playing you. Where are you meeting these guys? Friends with benefits is an absolut no no. Your asking for trouble there. Trust me i know. Stay far a way from this guy.

I know i don't know you but you have to think more of your self. It sounds like you have low self esttem any girl willing to go out with losers like these has to have low self esttem.

you have to treat you seld right. don't put up with these guys bull shit. you have to raise your standards and you will get a real man that respects and treats you like a queen forget about these little boys.


Okay so with me and this guy Angel it's a long story. I knew him since 2nd grade, he moved, then 6th grade he came back, and we started dating, I fell in love with Angel! we dated all the way to 7th grade, thenn he cheated on me and I found out and well he denied it of course. I didn't want to kiss him after because it was just hard, but a week earlier I told him I was over it. So he got mad and broke up with me!

I didn't take him back but I was still in love with him!
I dated other guys and of course he dated other girls! Then last summer he wrote me on myspace and he wanted another chance, so I gave it to him. Like two weeks later I found out he cheated on me again! I just gave him his last chance, Buut like a month or two later he broke up with me because he didn't want to "hurt me" anymoree.

when he broke up with me he was at my friends house with her and her boyfriend, and I guess when he broke up with me [Over a txt] he cried, he said he wants to be with me but hes not ready, He still wants to mess around, and still be able to call me his girl but he knows he can't do that, and he doesn't want anybody else to have me! So when he broke up with me he kept txting me after saying sorry and all that bullshit, I didn't wanna forgive him because he hurt me AGAIN!
But it was hurting me to not be able to talk to him, so like 3 days later I txted him and say I forgive you. Then he called me and told me hes sorry and he loves me, And I told him we could just be friends! So we were, he started dating other girls "playing them" of course. And I started dating other guys. And me and him were still kind of like messing around. We were still having sex. And we were like bestfriends, we knew like everything about eachother! I trusted him and he trusted me!

But then he moved to Seattle. We stopped talking for like 2 months. Then he comes back and he calls me out of no where and tells me to come outside! I went outside and there he was!(: I gave him the biggest hug and we went to his friends house to like kick it.

Months past and we kinda like stopped talking because he was too much into messing around with different girls so I was just like I'm done with him. So we stopped talking. Then the last time we had sex, I ended up getting prego!

He was hearing it from everyone, and I was at my friends house and he was laying down next to me and he asked me and I said yes, then I can't remember what he said but he said something and I puked! Haha,

But anyways he was around but then he went to juvie. Then like a month or two later he gets out and he talks to me and he heard I was drinking and so we started fighting, Then I ended up having a miscarige! :(

I tried to talk to him to tell him what happened but he already kneww and didn't wanna talk to me!

Now he lives right across from me it's kinda creepy! ha.

But theres this guy manuel, and he lives kinda by me and I always see him, He dated my sister before but I liked him first and when he liked me Angel told him that we were dating when we werent and I guess angel was the one that got them talking. So anyways manuel and angel are friends, and he knows me and Mauel are dating now! But before me and mauel started dating he was telling me that angel would always talk about me and call me a bitch and stuff, and when Mauel would talk about me angel would tell him to shut up!

But i asked manuel what happened with him and my sister and he told me, then he was saying shes a hoe and stuff, and he started naming guys she had sex with, he said ANGEL! i started cryinggg! I felt ughhhh! like one of my friends just had sex with a guy that I reallllyy liked and now I find out the guy I'm in love with had sex with my sister! Like what the fuck! So at that point I was like I'm soooo done with him!

And he kept trying to talk to me, like to say hi and stuff and i would just walk past him and feel like crying! But anyways me and manuel are dating
and the other night we were on the phone,
and angels sister samantha keeps tryna go out with manuel, and he don't like her, and I guess he showed angel the txt messages from her,
But anyways when we were on the phone she started txting him, and like 5 minutes later Angel txted him and was like "Fool why the fuck are you txting my sister" and mauel was just like Stfu, You already know she wants me and I already got a girl I don't need her!

And angel was just like who chelo? and he was like yeah, and he started freaking out saying manuels fucked up that they are suppose to be homies and manuel was just like whaat and he started saying that he was gonna drop all his bitches for me and that I'm always gonna be his baby and shit, and he was just going on and on,
Then i guess manuel got him mad because he said "Neta wey I'ma Treat her better then you ever did, I got one girl and that's all I need, I don't need putas on the side, And i'ma treat her like a lady, not no bitch. Unlike you." and angel was just like "you know what fool fuck you puto, I messed up I know but I was gonna change for her, your suppose to be my homie wey and your dating MY GiRL, That's my baby so we'll see wassup tomorrow"

Anyways manuel wasn't even txting back and angel kept txting! Then he got REALLY mad because,
Manuel was like "fool I gotta go cause I'm on the phone with Chelo and your ruining the connection, Alratoz" Then he got helllllaaa mad!

And Now I realllllyy don't know what to do!
I'm still in love with Angel and I always have been! I love him more than anything! but he had sex with my sister and I'm gonna have to live knowing that! ughhhh! I have no idea what to do! (link)
Is this the kind of guy you want? Is this how you want to be treated? You want someone who cheats on you and sleeps with your sister? Ask your self those questions and see what the answer is.

People do to you what you alow them too. you aloud him to treat you like shit, you aloud him to cheat on you. The first time he did you wrong you should have cut him off right then and there. But you were young so you get a pass. But your older now learn from your mistakes

He fooled you once we all get fooled. But you knew exactly what you were getting into. He showed you his true self a long time ago. But it seems like you don't want to belive itor see him for what he really is. Thats the thing with women we always want to change a man or give 1 million chances. But people are who the are you can't change him. And you can't make the relationship the way you want it if he is not willing to make some changes to. He can talk about change all he wants but you have to see it too. Actions speak louder than words.

I know its hard cuase you know this guy for a long time. And he was like your first love. but you have to ask your self. Is it worth it? Is it Worth the stress. You love him yes but love your self first. show him that you will not put up with his bullshit show him that you deserve more. I think you love him cause you've known each other for so long your remembering the good time you had. But be honest with your self is it more good times, or was it more bad times.

Give yourself some time and distance away from him i know he lives close to you but try to avoid him. And i promise you you'll get over him. now what your sister did was wrong but blood is thicker than water. You need your family don't let a man come between you. And if he can do that with your sister? He is not a good person. what he did with your sister should only tell you how much little respect he has for you and her.

I mean out of all the girls he had to choose your sister. and he actrually thought you were dumb enough not to find out? Come on you can do better than this guy. And please remeber you can't change him. he is who he is.



How do you make your tummy flatter and more toned and your thighs less jiggly?
What kind of exercises? (link)
try a dvd call hip hop abs i tried it for 2 weeks and lost 4 inches and i was still eating junk food and i didn't do it every day it really works


My boyfriend is going camping this weekend with a group of friends.. part of that group of friends is his ex girlfriend..I can't go because i have to work. should i be worried? (link)
I should not be the person to answer this question cause i have been cheated on and don't trust men but i'll try to be understanding.

okay as much as i hate to say this........ you have to trust you boyfriend trust that he can go out see his ex and nothing will happen between them i'm not saying turn a blind eye still watch him use you womans intuitiion. after all he is a man and 9 times out of ten most men suck. but maybe you have one of the good ones




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