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I Love Him... But He Had Sex With My Sister?
Okay so with me and this guy Angel it's a long story. I knew him since 2nd grade, he moved, then 6th grade he came back, and we started dating, I fell in love with Angel! we dated all the way to 7th grade, thenn he cheated on me and I found out and well he denied it of course. I didn't want to kiss him after because it was just hard, but a week earlier I told him I was over it. So he got mad and broke up with me!
I didn't take him back but I was still in love with him!
I dated other guys and of course he dated other girls! Then last summer he wrote me on myspace and he wanted another chance, so I gave it to him. Like two weeks later I found out he cheated on me again! I just gave him his last chance, Buut like a month or two later he broke up with me because he didn't want to "hurt me" anymoree.
when he broke up with me he was at my friends house with her and her boyfriend, and I guess when he broke up with me [Over a txt] he cried, he said he wants to be with me but hes not ready, He still wants to mess around, and still be able to call me his girl but he knows he can't do that, and he doesn't want anybody else to have me! So when he broke up with me he kept txting me after saying sorry and all that bullshit, I didn't wanna forgive him because he hurt me AGAIN!
But it was hurting me to not be able to talk to him, so like 3 days later I txted him and say I forgive you. Then he called me and told me hes sorry and he loves me, And I told him we could just be friends! So we were, he started dating other girls "playing them" of course. And I started dating other guys. And me and him were still kind of like messing around. We were still having sex. And we were like bestfriends, we knew like everything about eachother! I trusted him and he trusted me!
But then he moved to Seattle. We stopped talking for like 2 months. Then he comes back and he calls me out of no where and tells me to come outside! I went outside and there he was!(: I gave him the biggest hug and we went to his friends house to like kick it.
Months past and we kinda like stopped talking because he was too much into messing around with different girls so I was just like I'm done with him. So we stopped talking. Then the last time we had sex, I ended up getting prego!
He was hearing it from everyone, and I was at my friends house and he was laying down next to me and he asked me and I said yes, then I can't remember what he said but he said something and I puked! Haha,
But anyways he was around but then he went to juvie. Then like a month or two later he gets out and he talks to me and he heard I was drinking and so we started fighting, Then I ended up having a miscarige! :(
I tried to talk to him to tell him what happened but he already kneww and didn't wanna talk to me!
Now he lives right across from me it's kinda creepy! ha.
But theres this guy manuel, and he lives kinda by me and I always see him, He dated my sister before but I liked him first and when he liked me Angel told him that we were dating when we werent and I guess angel was the one that got them talking. So anyways manuel and angel are friends, and he knows me and Mauel are dating now! But before me and mauel started dating he was telling me that angel would always talk about me and call me a bitch and stuff, and when Mauel would talk about me angel would tell him to shut up!
But i asked manuel what happened with him and my sister and he told me, then he was saying shes a hoe and stuff, and he started naming guys she had sex with, he said ANGEL! i started cryinggg! I felt ughhhh! like one of my friends just had sex with a guy that I reallllyy liked and now I find out the guy I'm in love with had sex with my sister! Like what the fuck! So at that point I was like I'm soooo done with him!
And he kept trying to talk to me, like to say hi and stuff and i would just walk past him and feel like crying! But anyways me and manuel are dating
and the other night we were on the phone,
and angels sister samantha keeps tryna go out with manuel, and he don't like her, and I guess he showed angel the txt messages from her,
But anyways when we were on the phone she started txting him, and like 5 minutes later Angel txted him and was like "Fool why the fuck are you txting my sister" and mauel was just like Stfu, You already know she wants me and I already got a girl I don't need her!
And angel was just like who chelo? and he was like yeah, and he started freaking out saying manuels fucked up that they are suppose to be homies and manuel was just like whaat and he started saying that he was gonna drop all his bitches for me and that I'm always gonna be his baby and shit, and he was just going on and on,
Then i guess manuel got him mad because he said "Neta wey I'ma Treat her better then you ever did, I got one girl and that's all I need, I don't need putas on the side, And i'ma treat her like a lady, not no bitch. Unlike you." and angel was just like "you know what fool fuck you puto, I messed up I know but I was gonna change for her, your suppose to be my homie wey and your dating MY GiRL, That's my baby so we'll see wassup tomorrow"
Anyways manuel wasn't even txting back and angel kept txting! Then he got REALLY mad because,
Manuel was like "fool I gotta go cause I'm on the phone with Chelo and your ruining the connection, Alratoz" Then he got helllllaaa mad!
And Now I realllllyy don't know what to do!
I'm still in love with Angel and I always have been! I love him more than anything! but he had sex with my sister and I'm gonna have to live knowing that! ughhhh! I have no idea what to do!
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That's total BS. You should totally stick with Manuel and forget about Angel. I know it's going to be hard to forget about him, but know about the fact that he's just all talk. If he constantly cheated on you and has all these 'bitches' he's going to continue doing that if you guys continue on dating. Manuel, he's a good guy. He told Angel straight up he's not giving you up. He's not going to cheat on you, he's not going to hurt you, he's protecting you, you're in his care. Forget about Angel. Simple. As. That. Don't lose something that'll probably something you'll regret losing. I'm not talking about Angel here...
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Is this the kind of guy you want? Is this how you want to be treated? You want someone who cheats on you and sleeps with your sister? Ask your self those questions and see what the answer is.
People do to you what you alow them too. you aloud him to treat you like shit, you aloud him to cheat on you. The first time he did you wrong you should have cut him off right then and there. But you were young so you get a pass. But your older now learn from your mistakes
He fooled you once we all get fooled. But you knew exactly what you were getting into. He showed you his true self a long time ago. But it seems like you don't want to belive itor see him for what he really is. Thats the thing with women we always want to change a man or give 1 million chances. But people are who the are you can't change him. And you can't make the relationship the way you want it if he is not willing to make some changes to. He can talk about change all he wants but you have to see it too. Actions speak louder than words.
I know its hard cuase you know this guy for a long time. And he was like your first love. but you have to ask your self. Is it worth it? Is it Worth the stress. You love him yes but love your self first. show him that you will not put up with his bullshit show him that you deserve more. I think you love him cause you've known each other for so long your remembering the good time you had. But be honest with your self is it more good times, or was it more bad times.
Give yourself some time and distance away from him i know he lives close to you but try to avoid him. And i promise you you'll get over him. now what your sister did was wrong but blood is thicker than water. You need your family don't let a man come between you. And if he can do that with your sister? He is not a good person. what he did with your sister should only tell you how much little respect he has for you and her.
I mean out of all the girls he had to choose your sister. and he actrually thought you were dumb enough not to find out? Come on you can do better than this guy. And please remeber you can't change him. he is who he is.
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