You need advice???ASK ME!!!!I am Emily and i love helping others...I want to see happy people around me and people who smile!That's why i try to help you!It is said that i give good advice,what do you think????
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I have been going out with my boyfriend for 5 months. This is my first boyfriend and I love him a lot. But I am worried that he is losing feelings for me because before he would always say how he'd want to marry me someday and now it's like "things might change" and stuff like that. I don't know what to do and it drives me insane. If I ask him if he loses feelings for me he'll deny it but one of my friends asked him before and he said that he did before. What is that supposed to mean? (link)
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Well 5 months with one boy, 5 months with a girl...Boredom comes and feelings change..This is normal...Apparently your boyfriend still loves you but started feeling this routine etc...You should start behaving like the first days when you were together...Do different things and make him jealous but not too much just a little bit...Make him understand that you don't think that he is something sure or that you will always have him and start "fighting" for him and this thing you2have...Beause he is not permanent neither you, things change people change and maybe you will break up if you will not do something NOW.....Good luck with your boyfriend....Hope i helped...
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is it true that when you exercise and stay active during your period it helps reduce cramps? and is it also true that tampons are more comfortable than pads. one more thing, how often do you change a tampon? thanks for answering. (link)
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Well, when you excercise not only when you have period but generally the pain is not that strong...And exercising during your period also helps...I have used tampons and pads and believe me tampons are better.You should put an other one in the next 3-4 hours..I change it every three hours for sure...But during the night that's ok changing it only once...Or at all, i have done it...The are tampons for girls who have not had sex...Hope i helped..
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please help me..........
you know how in highschool how you form "groups" that you hangout with party with do things with...... see it's always been so hard for me to find the right one. i'm very preppy but at the same time wild.
i'm on the soccer team and the girls and guys practice together and hangout together and so we end up becoming friends whether we like it or not. it's a very stuck up group. everyone talks about everyone. basically everyone's insecure but covers it up by teasing and shit. i'm the most wild one in the group. i'm crazy and on trips i always do random things and have fun. some people think it's hillarious but most started to constanlty tease me saying i'm so retarted and annoying. i come off like the crazy girl that doesn't care what people think but deep down i do. it bothered me. so i stopped being wild. but that didn't really work. even when i was serious they (mostly the guys) repeatedly said crap about me behind my back...........because i was "the girl" to talk about. anytime i mess up....... like run out of gass in my car, forget to turn in a paper, show up late, they're like wtf she's so dumb. my bestfriend (who's been my bestfriend for years) happens to be the most popular girl on the team. she sticks up for me but it doesn't really do that much to stop them. all i wanted was to be around people that respected me. so i stopped hanging out with them and quit soccer for a couple months. i tried mingling with other groups. it was hard because everyone already has "their people" they hang out with and has their inside jokes and parties to go to. i didn't have fun with any of them. but i tried and tried. i missed my bestfriend and the girls i hung out with in soccer (bc the guys were the ones that mainly were the jerks to me) so i was just like fuck it im going back to my soccer click and i don't care what the guys say. but when i show up at the parties now they're always like ugg why is she here and they try to ditch me and my bestfriend said it's hard always sticking up for you! and i really need a job. and theirs a job opening that pays 10 dollars an hour at the soccer club. my bestfriend works there so it would be fun..........but so do all the guys :(
i don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!
i feel so sad :( (link)
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Oh God!!It is hard for you i know...There is only one thing you should do!Be yourself...Be spontaneous be you...You should tell your best friend stop telling others treat well to you...You should do it yourself...If you have a problem with guys then you should be the one who has to deal wiith it not your best friend...Go and work there if you are sure that you will not give up...Stop giving up and stop running away from your problems...The best solution is to deal with them...And being with those friends doesn't mean that you don't have to have other friends too...Right?Ok i hope i helped!Bye and good luck!
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when you hang out with a group but half the people like you and half of them don't should that bother you? like should you stop hanging out with them all together or keep hanging out with them and forget the bully ones? (link)
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If you don't have problem with that continue hanging out with them...But if you have hang out with the ones who like you...
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Okay I'm 15/m and I recently meet a guy 18/m. We're both gay. I wanna ask him out but I'm not sure if he's to old for me. He also thinks that sex isnt a big deal so I'm afriad if we get together he might fuck people behind my back. He doesn't think sex is somethign couples should worry about, so I think thats the kind of thing he'll do. Help?! (link)
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It depends on you....Do you like him????Then ok be with him!!!!But you know what???If you have a problem with his opinion about sex and his behaviour don't be with him....Or you can tell him before being with him your opinion...Hope i helped!
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Ok so it was my birthday yesterday and my friend H brought this guy to my birthday, S. She told me he respect women, he's a really nice guy et cetera because I just got out of a painful relationship about a few months ago and I've been trying to move on. But I told my best friend A that if I didn't think there was any chemistry, she should try to see if she should go for him..
A and I have been tight forever and just three weeks ago she kept bringing home this guy who she really liked and I used to back off and give them privacy. But then he moved away so she was a little depressed and she said she wasn't sure if she wanted another guy.
So I met S and he was really hot and really sweet so I told pretty much all my friends I was into him and maybe it could work out.
So me and A practically spent the whole night with S. I danced with him and my friend K for an hour and she was kind of following him around after and making sure he didn't fall over drunk. Then he went outside to have a smoke and A and I left. Then he texted A and said someone had to keep him company so she was going to text back that *I* was going to come down. At that point, I was pretty down because it was 4 AM and I was like "I don't think he's interested", then A looked up at me and she's like "I'm sorry, honey... but I think he said he would do me because while you and me were talking E (this other guy) asked him or something like it, I'm not sure and he harsh thought I wasn't listening so he said yeah" so I was like ok...? And I told her to go keep him company because he was a nice guy and he was good for her so she looked at me all sad-like and she's like "No... no, I can't. It's your birthday" and I insisted and she said no and asked what she should text him with if I wasn't going down. She then about five seconds later she looked into the mirror and she's like "my mascara is running but I guess he'll have to deal with that" and she's like "I guess I'll go chat with him a little bit" and internally I was like wth? but by that time he had come upstairs and was sitting on the couch so we both went and talked to him till early hours of the morning. While he was talking to us, he was also texting this girl who he said he met last night and she wouldn't stop talking and now wouldn't stop texting and he kept texting back because he was drunk and she was sending pictures of herself and he was showing E and being like wth?.
And this morning, we were talking about him and A is like "Oh my god, do you remember when S texted me, it was so hot" and I was just like ok what just happened here?
Now, I'm not sure if S is interested or not. Even if he was, he was pretty drunk. I'm not even sure if he said that he would do A and now I think she's totally into him, she kept pointing out stuff they had in common last night to him. Am I getting this wrong but I was supposed to have a shot? She always jumps onto every available guy nearby and usually it amounts to nothing but I really like this guy I don't think I had enough of a chance to get to know him yet even because we were so all over the place last night and she pretty much just bluntly told me that she was going to go for him. What happened to chicks before dicks? (link)
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I don't thing that she is a real friend...NOWAY...She cannot understand you.....If you want this boy and any other try to be with him...Don't give up....Even if your "friend" wants him....You want him,right?????Do whatever you can good or bad to be with him....She is selfish....She wants all boys for her...This is not right!
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well theses it how it goes me and my boyfrined we all good but the problem is that hes always changeing all the time he says he fanna do something and then he doent tell the truth so if yah wnna know more just right to me bak plzzzz i really need yah to talk to me (link)
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The best thing is to explain him the way you feel!!!Try!!!!
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There is this guy named Thomas that I really like. We are pretty good friends, and he's really nice. He's athletic, funny, nice, cool, fun, kinda cute, and everything I want. But I have recently realized that I like him more than a friend. I'm almost positive that he likes me, too. And when he is driving down the road, he makes a point to stop his truck, just to say hi, and if I'm walking past his house, he comes out side, sometimes in just boxers to say hi, and give me a hug. But there is two problems, #1- He is 16 and I am only 13, and #2- He has slept with half the girls in our Jr/Senior High School. What do I do???
signed,
LeeAnna Sears, 13, Girl (link)
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I am i6 and yesterday i told my ex boyfriend who is 25 to break up...25...Not 19...He is not that older, is he????No!!!!Come on...Give him a chance!!!!!And if you are not ready having sex etc you will not have sex!This is an order!!!!!!!!:DIf he wants it that much that he can't wait tell him that you don't want to be with him.......Don't get stressed, be yourself and have fun!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!:D;)
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a guy said he liked me so i asked him out about 2 weeks ago and he said no. but whatever, i don't care. it's just that every night after this i've been having these dreams where i meet a really amazing guy (usually at the beach at night) and i feel love even though it's just a dream. i'm 14/f and i've never had a boyfriend in my life. i get a lot of pretty complements so im not ugly. it's just weird. i don't get it. does anyone know why i'm having these dreams? and are they trying to tell me something? if so what? thanks. (link)
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It helps if you read my other question first. it'll clarify a lot for you! oh, and i'm really sorry in advance- i ask a lot of questions, and some are a little stupid. :-\
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OK. Well, i finaly built up the courage to tell him i liked him. and his response was : "I'm not very good with relationships. but i wouldn't mind staying friends, maybe we could try in the future." alright. here's the thing. i've known him to be very honest. but what if he didn't mean it? are things going to be really awkward between us from now on? was this a bad thing for me to do? and another thing- what if he finally ends up liking me, but i stop liking him? will that make things even more awkward? and what do i do if it happens?
ok, that's it i guess. sorry for allllll the questions. i'm just weird like that.
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Hey, relax!!!!!It depends on you...If you want to be a friend with him, or like before you can be...Why?Because he shouldn't have problem with it, you should...But you don't so that's ok...It wasn't bad telling him what you feel.Congratulations about that...This means that you are a real self confident and souper gir, with courage...Expressing your feelings and your thoughts is important...And good...If you stop liking him you will not be with him...That is the most normal thing not to be with him if you ll stop liking him...You like him today,yeah?Tomorrow maybe not and this is ok...I don't know if this will be awkward if you will tell him that you don't like him because it depents on him not on you..
You should be yourself and continue be self confident and able to express your feelings without being afraid...
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my boyfriend acts like a jerk when hes with his friends.. he was just over with his friend today and he didnt even give me a hug ! he was being a total fruitcake .. then my friend screamed for them to come back when they rode their bikes away for him to give me a hug, and he didnt ! i dont know what i should do.. help. (link)
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Boys do this but he is overdoing it...He is not right.What you should do is to tell him what you think and then if he will not change break up with him.You cannot be with someone if you don't feel well.You will definitely find an other one who will make you feel happy and he will pay attention at you, or at least he will act like your boyfriend...I mean, ok he is your boyfriend but if he does not act like your boyfriend then it is like he is not...Right?????Good luck!
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My ex boyfriend goes out with this girl i'm cool with. i guess she started sayin shit to me and i got mad then he told me i started it and said i said all this stuff i didn't say and i heard that his girlfreind said "we never went out cz i dunt go out with fuking ugly people." I told him she said that and he didnt belive me. he kept sayin that im trying to break them up when i aint. i dnt care that they go out. It dunt bother me Anymore. What should i do. doe she hate me that much or wat. im so confused.
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Firstly be patient.Don't tell her anything because it will finally be bad for you..Then, do what people do in movies...Take a cassette with you and a little recorder and talk with her.You will be recording your conversation.She will not know this...Then you will go to your ex not when they will be together, and tell him to listen to the cassette...
But you will mention the things he has to know...For example tell her"Why did you lied?You know i didn't tell this about boys and that i never started it?"She will not even imagine what is going on.Tell whatever you want.And he will listen to it...The truth and he will understand that you say the truth1Good luck!Hope i helped1
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alright. my boyfriend and I broke up about 4 months ago. & I still like him / havn't gotten over him yet. we only went out for 3 months. I really want him back and give it another try. He says he likes me but he also likes another girl. This girl that he likes calls him alot and shows him she cares about him, while I don't do anything bc I feel like I have no chance whatsoever. He told me that I should try ( call him and stuff) but I don't know if I should just move on or try to win him over. What would you do? (link)
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Excuse me, you told him that you like him and he told you to try harder?GOD!I can't believe you like a guy like him.Who the h... does he think he is???He thinks that he is everything???You told him that you like him you haven't been egoist and took the risk without caring about rejection and the only thing he told was that??He is egoist can't you see it????Forget him..He doesn't even deserve a try..Let him be with the other one. You will not do whatever he wants because he is not sure...Come on!Get over him...
And he shouldn't tell him how you can "win" him...This shows me that he believes that he is the number one boy...Who is he?Brad Pitt????
Anyway, i told you what i think.I am really sorry if you wanted to hear sth else but this is what i believe...Kisses and good luck with this one...
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ok why dont i get a boyfriend ? im a big flirt.. im really nice to boys and im pretti.. i want one so bad because im always getting these feelings when around guys.. but i dont know i think im just scared or guys just think of me as another .. guy .. (link)
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You are so self confident that boys are afraid of asking you ou..Yeah, i think that this is what is going on...Boys are like that..They see you pretty self confident and popular and think:will she want me?I don't risk it asking her out she can have anyone she wants why me????
OR they don't want a gf that flirts with a lot of boys because they will be jealous etc..
If you want a bf stop flirting with all boys and flirt only with the one you like...
Hope i helped.....
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i went camping and met this guy. he asked me to dance and well i had a boyfriend at the time but i dont know what happened to me i dance with him. and after we went to this play ground were no one could see and sat on a slide and talked about each other. well we kinda madeout like every time we were alone and im going back there this summa i dont know if he will still like me but i have a bf again and i like him. i know i will end up making out with the other kid what should i do? (link)
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Well these things happen juring summer vacation...New boys or old ones that come again and finally you get crazy...I think that this is sth normal...But don't cheat again...Just tell your bf that you don't want to have a bf juring summer...Tell him that you want to be alone and that if he wants it you will be again together when september comes...So you can do whatever you want...Super!!!!Have fun and make this summer unforgetable!!!!!!!!
AND you will end up making out with the other kid,yeah!!!!!This will not be bad!!!!!!
If you don't want to lose your bf just make it sure that he will not hear anything about the other guy...I told you my opinion...you decide!!!
Remember:HAVE FUN
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well heres the thing, i kinda like this boy and hes one of my bestfriends.. were really close and everything but i dont know what i should do.. because my bestfriend in the wholee entire world used to go out with him.. and im afraid she;ll get mad at me but im not very shure if i want to go out with this boy but i do its confusing ... helppp (link)
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Well, i think that you should wait because you need some time to organise your thoughts etc. Because you want him and you don't want him at the same time.You should understand what is really going on to you.Something like that has happened to me too and i just continued like before without thinking about it..Do the same...Finally you will understand what is going on to you...Just relax and continue being friend with both of them..
Now, i think that you should talk about it with your friend.Before doing sth with the guy talk with your friend..Tell her how you feel..If she is a good friend she will understand you..He is her ex right?He is not now her bf.That's why you can do whatever you want with him...
If she will get mad etc i think that this will be a little bit reasonable but try to explain her.If she is a real friend she will understand you..
Don't do sth with him before being sure...There is the danger to lose a friend.In my opinion, a friend is more important than a bf because she will be there for you in your whole life...On the contray, a boyfriend will be there only some months...
Hope i helped...Good luck!
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Just few weeks ago I suddenly remembered something important! About three years ago, my best friend since childhood, George, confessed his love to me and I promised him that someday I would tell him how I feel about him. Sadly, I forgot my promise. It's been three years, and he still remembers it!! How could I forget it myself I don't know... But one thing I know that I still like him until now. But since we are not going at the same school again, I have to wait until summer to meet him. What should I do when I meet him?? I feel so ashamed of myself that he still remembers my promise and I forgot it, and I was the one promising it!! >.< Help me!
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Well, i think that you should tell him how you feel.Tell him that you like him.Not now later when you will see him..Summer vacatiion i mean...Well, if you want to surprise him do this without doing nothing else now.If you don't want this start calling him or sending him mails...Then the next time you will see him smile at him be yourself and when he will ask you "how do you feel about me" then tell him the truth!You deserve being with the one you really like...Right?But if he will ask you earlier tell him the truth earlier...Don't program your behaviour.Be you and react spontaneously..Hope i helped!!!!!!!!
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Is there any way to hide the smell of whiskey? I've been eating these cookies my dad made. He put some whiskey and some other stuff in it and I have school in a few hours... (link)
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Brush your teeth a lot a lot of times and then eat chocolate.Eat chocolate.Bars of chocolate without whiskey!Much much chocolate and then brush again your teeth and then eat again chocolate not that much like before..Hope this will help!
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Well, thing is ALL my friends have such great bfs and I just get so jealous and mad because I would love to know that someone really really cares for me. Im sick of spening my friday nights alone. I just dont understand. I try a lot to make my hair look so nice for school and I dont wear pounds of make up (just liner, mascara, and gloss. sometimes shadow)and i think im just going to say screw it all and just not even try anymore. im like 15 and i have never been asked out in my life which then makes it obviously that i never had my first kiss, date, and bf. sometimes my friends ask about my "exs" and i lie and say, "yea i only had one bf didnt last too long." and then change the subject. Im a friendly person and im no slut and im not over-weight(no offense)im actually quite skinny. but yea i just dont understand. and im getting really depressed about it.
thanks for helping.
EM (link)
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Well,i understand that you feel like that because you would like to have a bf.But you shouldn't have a bf just to have one.This is wrong..You will end up hearting you and your feelings and you will regret it..Really...So think about it!Do you like someone???If yes then start talking to him and stuff like that.Become more sociable and behave to them(boys) in the way you behave to girls.Start going out more often and don't think "i have to find a bf" because you will not find one.I think that you should keep caring about your outward appearance and you should be much more self confident.Believe in you and love yourself...If you cannot do this how do expect others do it???? Smile and get known better with boys.Boys of your class or your cousins..Generally see how boys behave..I think that this should be the first step..Secondly see who you like (from the boys of your class or other friends i mean).The one you like..Flirt with him smile etc.!!!This is important..You will understand after all these that boys are like us(girls) they are not strangers and they want a gf who is herself, i mean true, authentic!!! Don't become like the ex of the one you like because this will be a huge mistake...If he would like this type of girl he would prefer her because she will be the "original" one.Got me???Hope i helped!!!Kisses and good luck!
P.S. I am 16 and i have had 3 bfs BUT i prefer now being with my friends because what you will have with boys is for 3 months but what you have now with your friends is sth valuable and sth that will defnitely become stronger and will last...
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I'm 90 percent positive that my friend has feelings for me; but just needed someone elses opinion.
I'll let you be the judge. We were friends for about 2 years and then several months ago he had to move away for a job in another state. Before he moved he gave me his computer so we could stay in touch. I never asked for one or anything he just offered it to me which I thought was a really sweet gesture. We messenger each other whenever he's not at work and he always signs off by saying "chow bella" which means bye beautiful in italian. Just in the last two weeks he has done two really romantic things for me. The first was that he sang happy birthday to me on my voice mail for my birthday in a sweet voice and said he'd be mailing up a gift. The other thing was that when I told him that I caught the bridal bouqeut at my cousins wedding last week he said "hopefully you won't marry anyone from (the town I live in). Since he lives out of town I think he was hinting something. When we have our talks on the internet he flirts with me and says things like I'm funny and a great person to know and talk to. Sometimes we talk for more than a hour. He is pretty shy and likes to beat around the bush and hasnt actually said he loves me- but I think his actions show it.
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Yes!I think he likes you,bella!!!! Well, i think that you should ask him first if he likes one girl or if he is with someone...And then, ask him if he likes you or sth like that..Well, if yes then you should think about having a boyfriend and don't caring about the distance... Hope i helped!!!!
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