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I don't wanna close my eyes
I don't wanna fall asleep cause' I missed you babe
And I don't wanna miss a thing
Cause' even when I dream of you
The sweetest dream will never do
Cause I missed you babe and I don't wanna miss a thing*
Website: HerreComesTheSun
E-mail: imsuchacutie@ispwest.com
Gender: Female
Location: Cordova
Occupation: single
Age: 13
AIM: HaNnAhRaCheL91
Member Since: August 30, 2004
Answers: 31
Last Update: December 9, 2004
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there iis this kid at my school that likes me and we have a dance next friday and he is going to ask me and I like him to a whole lot but I have a boyfriend that I like a whole lot so I dont know what to do I mean its not like I can go with the other person becaseu I am going with my boyfriend (link)
Hey girl,

wow, tough call. Mayb you can go to the dance with your boyfriend and see how much fun you have with him and then mayb you can get to know the new kid by just hanging out in the hallway or at lunch. Don't screw up ur relationship if you don't have to. Get to know the new guy first before anything. Good Luck*


Ok: so i love scary movies... spook houses, and doing the ouiji board. I live down in the basement all alone and after seeing freaky movies... like Saw I can't sleep. I think that there in my basement gonna come kill me.. and even though I'm 16... i still sleep with my t.v. on all night... even though I can't stand a speck of light in the night i LOVE watchinng scary movies... but i get so scared I sometimes cry! What can I do? (link)
Hey,

If you get that scared, stop watching them. It's that simple.


Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love? (link)
Hey girl,

I don't know. I have never been in 'love' but I think it is possible to be in 'real' love at 13. I define love by imagining yourself without that someone and realizing that your life would be misreable without them. When you look at them, you can imagine the rest of your life with them. That is what I think 'real' love is. And the reason why adults think us teens only feel puppy love instead of true love is because they don't think that we could possibly imagine our lives without our special someone. I don't think they think that we can have strong feelings like they do for their special someone. So to answer your question, yes. I think anything is possible.

~I hope I helped~


Ok. My cat Zoey will not stop pooping on the floor! She has a litter box and all she does is poop on the floor right next to it. She's not a baby, shes almost 4 yrs. old and she's always used the litter box fine, just recently she has started doing this, her litter box is clean because i clean it at least once every two days and i dont know what to do with her anymore, she has done this at least 10 times. I know that like putting their nose in it and saying no works on dogs but does it work od cats? Please if anyone knows anything i can do then tell me! Thanks in advance! (link)
Hey,

Everyone messes up a couple of times but since she has been constantly doing this, I think putting her nose in it and saying 'no' is the right way to go. I have a cat who is 4 and another who is 2 and being a cat owner, I know what you are going through(mine use the litter box too)because you don't wanna be hard on them because they are like your babies but there needs to be a time when you will have to put your foot down and let them know who is the boss. You can even put down a mat, like a plain door mat right in front of the litter box(that is what we do in case someone misses). If she doesn't improve however, confront your parents and vet. Maybe they could help. Good Luck*

*I hope I helped*


ok... our school is one of 2 high schools in the district... and srry if this is long.. but.. the other one had a "silently loud" protest the other day b/c the principle said they couldn't wear white, black, or pink t-shirts anymore... and the guys had to cut their hair... and the no one can wear black makeup....... like eyeshadow, lipstick, etc..... and now they wanna do that to our school... we are havin a protest on monday and everyone.. well.. mostly everyone.. is wearin black... everything black...... is there any other way to get them to realize that we mean buisness.???? thnx much.... i rate.. InsaneSanityBabi (link)
Hey girl,

Well that really sucks. Well, if your school is public, then they have no right to just tell you that you can't wear those items. You do have rights and if you serious mean business, take it to court. Good Luck*

~Hope I helped~


my friend richard is really cute but has a girlfriend well we went to a kickback and he got me drunk aswell as his self well when he was drunk he tried to take advantage of me he didnt get to but he did finger me and stuff lets just say we did 3rd base he doesnt remember what happened and my friend told me he keeps asking me if i remember what should i tell him? should i be mad? should i 4 get it? (link)
Hey girl,

Well you shouldn't have even let him kiss you let alone finger you! I mean come on, he has a girl friend. Should you be mad? Why? You were the one who let it get that far. If anyone has the right to be mad, it's his girlfriend. And telling him is up to you, but I think you should.


Hi! okay do you think its weird to shave between your eyebrows? because i got dared to so i did now i got to do it like EVERY week! well does anyone else do that? do you think its weird? (link)
Hey,

No offense, but I hope you are a guy. lol. But I think you are. No I don't think it is weird. Just don't let anyone else know. Mybe try going awhile without doing it and see how it looks. Who knows? It might look fine. Good Luck*

~I hope I helped~


ok im getting contacts and i was thinking about getting colored i have blonde hair that is about the color of paris hilton my eyes r like light green. wut color do u think i should get i was thinking maybe a lil greener or blue? (link)
Hey girl,

Try hazel or brown, lite green or clear blue. Good Luck*


i really like this guy and hes in three of my classes, HOT. okay i like him, but i think he likes another girl, i didnt even get his sn yet what should i do? how can i show it? (link)
Hey hun,

Just smile alot at him and flirt!! flirt flirt flirt!! Put on your charm and win him over. And you are lucky, your advantage is that he is in three classes with you. Who cares if he likes another girl, change his mind. Be aggresive, b-e-a-g-g-r-e-s-s-i-v-e!! lol. Good Luck*

::I hope I helped::


ok is there a way u can get ur arms like..more strong like more shape cuz mine have fat that needs to go..like wut helps? dont say pull ups..lol cant do those ..but if neone knows ne work out ways like explain it ..um that would help thx (link)
Hey girl,

Okay, well I still say that push ups is the way to go. A simple way to build up your arms strength and burn the flab is to slowly work down to the ground. Example; Start doing about 20 push ups a day against the wall. Do this for 3 days. Then repeat the same methoid using a countertop. Then the TV. Then the third step on the stairs. Then the second. Then you should have enough strength to do the push ups on the floor. Or you can always buy weights and do lifts during the O.C. or the newest episode Laguna Beach. Good Luck*

::I hope I helped::


i have a hard time staying for one guy for a long time like if im goin out with someone and then i am talkin to another guy without my bf being there i seem to like him or am i just thinkin that plz help me lol
!LeAh BABY! (link)
Hey girl,

You have got a problem. You are going to limit yourself to the flirting with other guys, especially when you are already going out with someone!! Just because a guy is nice to you, doesn't mean you should dump your boyfriend and jump into this new guy's open arms. If you feel that limiting yourself to flirting it too hard, try to stay away from places where you might run into these kinds of situations. And bring your boyfriend with you too. Good Luck*

~I hope I helped~


i need to get a halloween costume for halloween but my mom wont buy one and she wont take me somewhere to buy one! i don't really want to make my own costume because nobody will help me and i can't do it by myself without it looking really bad! i don't know what to do!! Should i just keep trying to convince my mom? Or make my own,really bad-looking, costume? (link)
Hey,

Well there is always the internet. Try finding a cute costume and make sure that it will get here before Halloween and make sure that you have the money to pay for it. Still try to convince your mom though(just in case the internet option doesn't work out)And good luck*


i sing..and if u work ur voice alot..for example ima cheerleader and i yell alot..is that good or bad for ur voice power? does it make ur voice stronger or weaker?

thx (link)
Hey girl,

I sing alot too and I love it. You have a really good question and the truth is, it depends. If you have a voice lesson the same day you have a football game, don't yell as loud when you are cheering. If you strain your voice too much, you will rub the vocal cords sore. So doing both is not gonna to make you loose your voice but don't do them both(in large amounts) the same day. It might be a struggle but it will work out in the long run.

*I hope I helped*


ok my bestest friend i new scence i was in dippers she took my boyfriend.one day i was walking to my boyfriends house,and i open the door and they were kissing i just broke down and started crying.i miss him really much .what should i do get a new boyfriend?im not my friend lisas anymore (link)
Hey girl,

Wow, that really sucks but you are gonna have to get over it. I know that is what everyone is probably telling you but you are gonna have to. I mean you shouldn't miss your ex boyfriend if he cheated on you with your best friend. He doesn't deserve your time and energy if he actually would do something like that. Adn as for your friend, she should have known better. That was your boyfriend. Not hers. She made a choice, she picked a guy over her best friend. And I strongly feel that you shouldn't give her a second chance. They made a choice and now they must suffer the consequences.

::I hope I helped::


My friend amy has a boyfriend named Beau! They are what like 13 years old and 13 years old.. They havent been going out very long, but Beau wants to go n a shower with her n i dont want this to happen.. what should i do (link)
Hey girl,

If you don't want your friend's boyfriend to go in the shower with her, tell her!! If you think she will be making a mistake, let her no. She deserves it so that she knows that you care about her. And talk to Beau. Let him know that he shouldn't be rushing your friend. Good Luck*

P.S. I think I know who this is
*lylas Hannah Carroll


I am going out with this guy in Nebraska...and i live in Florida...we have been going out for 4 months now...I kno a long distance relationship is not the best thing but its working for us...I am only 15 and i can seriously see me and him in the future...am i too young to think that???i dont just have strong feelings for him...i really love him...and i just want to kno if i'm too young to think that we could be together in the future...please help me and thanx for all your advice!!
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Hey hun,

No you are not too young!! I know that alot of adults(especially grandparents) think that you have to be old to truely be in love. But that is not true. All I can say is that you shouldn't feel ashamed because you are in love. Say it loud and say it proud girl!! Good luck with the realationship*

~I hope I helped~


when should it be okay to have sex? (link)
Hey,

When should it okay to have sex? Well, it depends. It depends on the people and the place. I am a strong believer of waiting until the wedding night but if you think that your relationship is ready for sex, then go for it. But you need to really think about it before you go ahead and do it. Ask yourself. 'Is this the person I want to loose my virginity to?'or 'After we are done, what will happen to our relationship?'. And until you are sure of the answers then diffently no, you shouldn't have sex. You also need to take in to consideration about you will be having this wonderful moment. The answer is in private. Just make sure you know about what you are doing before you do it. And use protection! There are so many dieases you can get from sex these days that can be prevented from a condom. Good Luck*

::I hope I helped::


here is my ? kinda stupid i know lol but i have a black dress and shoes for homecomin and i was wonderin what color nail polish i should wear? cuz i don't wanna wear black cuz that is 2 much. thanks for ne help i will rate u
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Hey girl,

If you feel like black nail polish is too much with the black dress and shoes, go classical and just use clear polish with some glitter. It will look great without clasing the outfit or making it look too goth.

*Hope I helped*


my girlfriend has posters on her wall of a bunch of celebrities that she thinks are "hot". She claims to me all the time that she doesnt check them out or think about them in any way but i think she is lying to me. I dont know what to do now. Is she lying to me about checking other guys out or what. She claims they are stupid little pictures, well if they are so stupid why are they up? (link)
Hey hey,

She is not checking out other guys if she has posters on her room. All gilrs think Orlando Bloom is hot but we have no chance with him! It is fun to think celebs are cute but we love are men back home. Try not to get so obsessed over posters. She's going out with you. Not the boys hanging on her wall. And remember they are just pictures. But if you have such a problem with it, tell her that the relationship is over. It's your choice.

*I hope I helped*


This might be a stupid question, but how do you know when you're in love with someone? How does it feel? (link)
Hey Hey,

You will know when you are in love when you can't picture you life without that someone. When you are around them, you don't have to put on a show or act a certain way but your self and they are cool with it. You have a certain amount of confidence when you're with them and you can't think of anyone but them. Their touch makes you feel like you are walking on the clouds and when you look at them, everyone else disapares. That is how you know when you are in love.

~I hope I helped~




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