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Iam a down to earth person , ilooovvee giving advice because its easy to me and iknow jus what to say. if you have a long question you can always Inbox Me for advice . im soo cool to talk to so jus hit my line up . ihelp with everything with teens , love , school , bullying just everything and im sure that at the end you will most definatly LOVE me . -Jessica ;)

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This summer one of my friends is moving to live with his mom in a different state (His parents are divorced). How can I keep up with him if I don't know his phone number, Email, etc?

You Can Try To Use The Internet As A Source , Try Finding Out If He Has A Facebook . You Should Catch Him Before He Leaves && Find Out What Source You Can Use To Stay In Touch With Him .

-Jessica =)

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I want to get a robo dwarf hamster but i dont know wat to name it. i need boy girl and both names.Please and thank you. =o :)

Try Bonnie For Girl && Rufus For Boy . Idk IGuess Those Will Help , Good Luck With Finding The Right Names !

-Jessica =)

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My cousin stayed at my house last night and she woke up screaming and crying because she had a nightmare and I didn't know what to do to help her. I gave her a hug and a kiss and she was still crying. She's 18. I'm 24. Whatelse could I have done to comfort her ?

It Must Hav Been A Nightmare That Was About A Loved One That Passed , It Could Have Been About You , But Really To Comfort Her iWould Wait A Few Days && Then ask Her What Her Dream Was About Because Once You Knoe The Dream Then You Can Really Help Her In Whatever It Is Thats Wrong With Her .

-Jessica =)

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I haven't had a boyfriend in two years, and there's a guy that I like, and he might even ask me out. I also haven't had my first kiss yet, and every time I say it to my friends, they're shocked. What should I do?

You Should See What The Guy Is All About , Go On Some Dates With Him && Hang Out With Him More To See If He Is The Right One To Have Your First Kiss With . && If He Really Is A Nice Guy Then You Might Be Able To Tell Him Tha You Nevr Had Your First Kiss But That Part Is Up To You But iRecommend You dnt Tell Him Because It Just Makes The Kiss More Interesting But Make Sure He's The Rite Guy , && Dnt Mind Your Frannds Dont Even Tell Them Anymore Jus Get Your Kiss Then Brag To Them && See Their Reaction !


-Jessica =)

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I met this kid three years ago he's cute, funny, sweet, he means the world to me. I love him obviously and he used to like me but the weird thing is he never asked me out even though it's OBVIOUS that I like him. But that was 2009 it's 2011. 2010 we went a little too far and he kinda stopped talking to me because of his girlfriend. And over the summer we started talking more when they broke up. and we became better friends again. Like we hung out 24/7 in 2009 and he talked to me on the computer all the time he IM-ed me first but never anyone else. Now I have to talk to him first and he doesn't always answer. But I miss him and I at least want our friendship to go back to the way it was. They got together again this year and just broke up two days ago I'm obviously going to need to give him some time but I need to know how to get him to like me again I think he still does but I'm not sure and I don't understand him. Also my best friend likes him but I know he doesn't like her and she used to date him in like 5th grade. She's better friends with him though because they've known each other for so long, hang out more, they live closer, but he doesn't talk to her much anymore, she doesn't really care she doesn't TRY to hang out with him like I do. So I mean she knew I liked him since forever, and I knew she liked him but she recently admitted it again. I mean she LIKES him....but I love him.....and I need him back. He's so perfect he's everything I've ever wanted please help me! I need to know how to approch this situation I'm thinking of inviting him over this weekend to hangout like we used to.

Thats Smart To Invite Him Over , && If He Does Come Over Then iThink If Its Not Hard Yuh should Tell Him How You Really Feel Unless Yuh Feel Tht Its Going To Jepordize It Even More Then Dont . If That Doesnt Work Then Try Finding Out How He Feels About The Whole Break Up With Him && This Other Girl . Jus Talking Really Solves Alot Of Problems .


-Jessica =)

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http://i54.tinypic.com/wv604n.jpg

I love this, and I originally wanted it on my wrist, but now I'm having second thoughts. I would say the back of my shoulder, but I already have one there.

Any suggestions, or do you think it would look good on the inside of my wrist?

i do know that if you get it on your back , its gonna hurt more so try your arm i guarantee its gonna be perfect there .

-jessica =)

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He left me giving any reason. why?

there could be several reasons why he left you without telling you . you never know , he probably didnt want to break your heart and it was better left unsaid .

icant really tell you much because you didnt give me enough details so hope it helped !


-jessica =)

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how to do mobile chating

umm you can try mocospace.com or try facebook.com

im not really sure what youre asking but ihope that helped

-jessica

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I had this one crazy best friend from 2nd grade to 12th grade. She ended up having a lot of problems. She had a lot of mental problems, and did a lot of mean things to me. She hurt my feeling many times, and I put up with it, because most of the time she was fine. But, she was a huge back stabber and a liar. I tried really hard to fix it, but i just couldn't. i couldn't help someone who didn't want my help.

Anyway, I've gotten some new friends since, and I am very close with them. The problem is, is I am having problems trusting them. Actually, I'm having trouble trusting everyone. I'm just so scared that I'm going to get hurt or they will do something to me, like my last best friend did.

How can I get over this?

I constantly get angry, but don't say anything, because I think I am overreacting, but then I'm scared they are just going to walk all over me. :/

dont even worry , what you should do is talk to them about the issue that you had in the past days and hopefully they understand and know what youre going through but if their the type that you know wont be willing to understand then find you some new friends and check em out to see if they could understand your trust issues , now that should be a true friend you can trust if they understand where youre coming from . =)

-jessica =)

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What do bed bugs do? How do you get them and how do you know if you have them?

they can bite you and you can really get them if there is an old matress in your room or any old furniture , they can leave some serious bumps . you know when you call an exterminator or if you start to get some icky bumps .

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are cigars addictive like cigerattes? are they AS addictive? will one have me hooked? thanks

yess they are very addictive , my father smokes them and iknow that they nicotine in them so you are bound to be hooked , my advice is to NOT smoke cigars , their like cancer sticks to me . dont smoke lol just find something thats more addictive like playing sports outside , stay active . =)
-Jessica

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Hey :B I'm in eighth grade and 14.

Last week, I was at my friend Emily's house and her little brother had his friends over. Amongst them was a 12-year-old boy called Cody in 5th grade. He was really cute, the kind of kid you KNOW will be hot when he gets older ;)

So later that day, he added me on Facebook and has not stopped talking to me since. He goes to my school, and I see him around sometimes but there's no time to stop and talk.
I'm not trying to sound full of myself or anything, but I think that he has a crush on me? Because

- he always starts the conversation first
- at school if he sees me, he smiles and waves
- on Facebook, if I ask him a question, he's always like, "oh, I'll tell you tomorrow if I see you"
- if I don't see him at school one day, he messages me, "i didn't see you today :( "
- he told me that he had been held back a year in kindergarten and how he's supposed to be in sixth grade, and how sixth grade and eighth grade arent really that much of a difference :>
- He asked me to go over to Emily's house again one day so that he could meet me there
- he asked me if I was busy this weekend and if I could go to our school baseball game to watch him play
- if there's an awkward pause in the conversation, he's the one who goes , "soo, whats up?" come on talk!"

It's really cute and sweet and all. I think I may be starting to like him as well:/ I'm always thinking about him, the song that he told me was his favorite soon became my favorite, and I'm online more often in hopes that he'll come online :P

But it's just wierd dating a kid like, three grades down and I just, I dont know. I'm confused:/ What should I do from here?

iThink you shouldnt date him because you are going to want to keep seeing him because youre dating him so while youre in highschool he's still in middle school , its more like a long distance relationship , dnt go for it but then again follow your heart .

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Well there's this guy who's close to my family. He's about 2 years older than me and I don't really see him that often. The thing is, I keep on having this feeling that he likes me more than in a 'friendly' way. Some reasons are: he always says 'hi' and my name to me whenever he see's me. He also smiles at me most of the time. He once touched my arm (it may have been to get my attention), but it was in a really sweet way. Also, he used to always stare at me and sometimes it was like we were staring at each other for ages (but maybe its just my imagination).
Anyway, so do you think he has feelings for me or am I just overreacting?

basically to me it seems like he has feelings for you but doesnt know how to express those feelings . you should be totally up front to him and say we need to be truthful to each other , because if you both are realy good friends then he would understand the whole truthful thing so i think you both should talk it out because you never know , he might feel the same way about you ,
good luck , SwaqqAdviceGirl

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