Q: She dresses like a freak, does stupid things, sticks her tongue out like an idiot, appears naked in her music videos, and literally only sings one song these days. WTF? She used to be my role model, but now I hate that stupid bitch. I know Ariana Grande defended her, but she defends everybody. What my friends say about Mileys “wrecking ball" is,“good song, bad singer" what is wrong with her?

Q: I'm 14 and I've noticed that there is always this thick layer or white stuff, it's not gooey or slimey or wet. It's not inside my vagina but on the inside around my vulva, it's really embarrassing and I don't think I could tell mum or a doctor. I've always thought it could be toilet paper? Not sure.
Any ideas on what it is and how to get rid of it?

Q: Im 16/f and I do not get the whole fascination with dressing up, lots of makeup, dying hair etc. Like all the girls at my school are starting to wear these pretty dresses and doing their hair and they all look so beautiful..but its like i dont give a shit about any of that. Ive always been decent looking without doing a whole lot so i never really got into fashion or lots of makeup..I would like to tbh. Today i tried doing a smokey eye, and it kinda looked like shit lol. And i also tried looking up skirts and dresses that i could buy and they were all ugly and expensive. And all that stuff seems like a lot of work to keep up looking really nice everyday. I just dont get it, why is it so important? To feel good about yourself, sure but why else? I like looking nice but at the end of the day it doesnt really matter.. i dont wanna spend so much time on something that wont really get me anywhere and idk i just dont get it.

Q: I want to tell someone but it will cause drama and they’ll think I’m lying & it will cause a lot of drama. I don’t want to be taken away from my brothers & sisters or something. My step dad touches me every time my mom isn’t around and I feel really uncomfortable around him & he’s really big so I can’t fight him. He puts his hands in my private areas & flirts and says all these disgusting things. When he touches me I just freeze up. I hate him. Sometimes I think about running away or over dosing my self but I really don't want so im asking for advice in telling my mom. I'm scared to tell my mom because her and him have been together for years and sometimes I feel as if she love him more than she loves me. When she’s not working, she’s partying or out of town gambling. I think she wishes she never had kids. My step dad has the power to lie on me and get me in trouble. It seems like my mother gives him more attention than she gives me. She gets designer clothes, bags from him. He has money so if she left him we would be homeless. I just want it all to stop I want him out my life and to life the rest of my life happy like it was before this all happen if that's possible. I cry my self to sleep at night and wish I wasn't me I want this to be the last time I do this so please give me advice on what to do

Q: Any man want to have s fun with me?

Q: 20/f
I've struggled with my faith since I was in high school. It started when I didn't think I was leading the life "God" wanted me to, so I started going to church more. I read my bible every day, prayed constantly, changed how I treated others, and even tried to clean up my thoughts. However, the more I read my bible, the less I believed that there was a god. Then I started researching. Long story short, I don't believe there is a god and I've been an atheist for about 2 years.

I'm not ashamed of that in any way. In fact, my life has improved greatly because I don't feel restricted by religion. I don't mean that I sleep around and do awful things without fear of consequence, I just mean that I do things for their moral value, not in hopes that I'll be rewarded after I die.

My problem though, is that my family is SUPER deep in their Christian faith. My grandparents raised me in the church of christ. While I'm okay with their beliefs, they strongly influence our family. I get dirty looks if my tattoos are showing, no curse words are allowed, etc- while those are all things I can deal with, it's things like their homophobia I can't comprehend. It's honestly stressing me out with the holidays coming up. They don't know I'm an atheist, and half the conversations they have involve topics we would STRONGLY disagree on. I can't even enjoy time with them because their views differ so greatly from mine.

My uncle in also very confrontational and I'm just afraid that if I speak up, there will be a huge ordeal and I don't want my family upset with me.. especially for something I don't think ANYONE should have a problem with! Also, I don't want to be afraid to voice my opinion. My question is, if there is a confrontation, how do I calmly deal with it? I know I'll want to scream and feel the need to defend myself which will end up making me look dumb. What do I do??

Q: My question is: can verbal bullying make you physically ill? I was in science and a girl was mocking me to half the class and they were all laughing. I kept turning to try and say something but my teacher was there (she's strict but has a good heart) kept telling me not to (well, she said my name in a warning tone, and I knew what she meant.) After a while another girl on her side (we were in the middle of a class debate) and was imitating me and laughing with her and like calling me makes. At this point I was crying and (badly) attempting to hide it. Eventually I went to the bathrooms and had a cry. My (not close) friend cane in and asked if I was ok then said 'Woah, your burning up' I had a temperature and my stomach really hurt. I went home because I felt so sick. Is it possible it was because of the bullying? Because before science I was better than ever. All answers appreciated. :)

Q: Hi

I have a vodoo doll i bought it as a novelty item i have moved hosue and it came with me ever since i haev had bad luck how can i dispose of it in the right way

Many thanks

Q: I get strep throat almost every year and this time I wanted to understand why so I looked it up and I got some info saying that it can cause like heart problems or something in the future. I want to know if that's true and if not is it normal or not to get strep throat so often?

Q: i used to love the classic Disney Cartoons as a kid they did great in the 20s 30s 40s 50s 60s 70s 80s 90s and early 20000s back when i really loved disney i used enjoy toon disney becuase it had wonderful cartoons but whats popular with Disney now is shows that i really cant stand such as Ant Farm Austin and Ally Shake it Up Good Luck Charlie and i regret the days when Hannah Montana Wizards of Waverly Place and Jonas were popular im real sick of it why did that all happen

Q: I've recently started seeing a guy, for about 3 weeks. He has been out of town and won't be back until a week and a half. Last night I was kissed by another guy, who I barely know, and definitely have no feelings for. I don't know whether I should tell my boyfriend? There is a huge sense of guilt and anger at myself, and I feel incredibly stupid for what I did. The recent week has been an intensely emotional week, dealing with all sorts of other personal issues and while I know it isn't an excuse, it has most likely contributed. I don't intend on seeing this man again, even as friends.

He kissed me, I kissed back. He touched me, I told him to stop. He continued, I told him to stop. He kissed me again and I didn't kiss back. Then I left. I couldn't take it anymore.

What should I do?

I am a female, aged 24.

Q: Is it wrong for a 16 year old and a nearly 24 year old to like eachother more than just friends?

Q: I have PCOS and I'm trying to take care of it, but in themeantime I have to shave my face, neck, and upper part of my chest. I'm a girl. They're little hairs, not like men's. But I still have to shave, every day..maybe even twice. I'm tired of it but I don't have any money to pay for electrolysis or get it waxed every week. I'm hoping someone can tell me ways I can control it, or at least tell me how I can irritate my skin less so it won't be red. I feel unattractive and gross.

Q: How do you know if he really isnt in love with you anymore

Q: I'm a 21 year old female and I'm a server at a popular restaurant/sports bar. There's a dining area, then a separate room for the bar, then a bar top where the actual bartender works. When I wait on a table and they order any type of alcohol, I have to ring it in, then the bartender gets the order and makes the drink. Once it's ready, she puts it in a window for me to pick up and take to my table.

The problem is that she doesn't make the drinks very fast, causing my tables to get angry at ME because they have to wait so long on their drinks. Now, I understand when there is a dinner rush and we're busy and she has several drinks to make (after all, she makes the drinks for her bar customers, and every server's customers) In fact, she makes drinks fairly fast when we're busy because she HAS to. But when we're slow at 2pm on a Wednesday, she hangs out in the kitchen talking to other servers or managers, not even paying attention the drink orders.

With any other bartender, I just go tell them that I have a drink and politely ask them if they could go make it. But with this specific bartender, she gets mad if you ask her to do anything and she purposely waits longer. Even if she sees you put in an order, she doesn't find it rude to continue a conversation with another server and wait until SHE'S ready to make the drink. I don't understand how she's okay with purposely taking a long time to make drinks when she knows it makes our tables upset with us.

I would go tell a manager but they're all friends with her outside of work and the whole situation would blow up in my face. At one point, I even emailed corporate, in a very professional manner, stating how upset I was that she wasn't doing her job correctly, causing not only me, but ALL servers to suffer, and NOTHING was done about it. What do I do? I can't continue to have dissatisfied tables because she wants to slack off!

Q: How to entertain a three year old for hours?

Q: My mom married a much younger guy last year, and living with him has been awkward because he flirts with me when my mom's not around. Yesterday when my mom was at work I was sitting on the couch watching a movie with my little brother and sister, they were sitting on the floor. My step dad came and sat by me. He put his hands in between my thighs over my jeans and started touching my breasts. He did while my sister and brother were sitting on the floor with their backs to us and it was dark. When he did that I was scared . I told him to stop and he told me not to tell him to stop. My sister & brother were watching the loud movie, so they weren't paying attention to us on the couch. I tried pushing him away and moving. He kept on bothering me the whole time and I was scared to get up and when my mom got home I went in my room. I never feel comfortable around him. He'll put his hand on my waist, rub my stomach and get too close to me in front of my mom and it feels uncomfortable, and he's always saying "You're beautiful" My mom thinks he's playing around. And he looks at me with perverted eyes, all the time. i know my mom loves him so much and I know she wont believe me & she'll stay with him because he has money and we have nowhere else to go. She has stayed with him even though he beat her up before.

Q: my partner has gone to his family in another country for several months. at first we texted occasionally and called around once a week. for the last 4 weeks i have heard nothing. last time we spoke all was fine. i thought i would give him some space for a couple of weeks so as not to pressure him as he is around family. then i called and texted and called again. phone was off and no reply. what should i do. i want him to come back but dont want to pressure him.

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