Member Since: January 13, 2014
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Last Update: January 20, 2014
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How do you know that that person wasn't asking about giving themselves a bruise because they want to self harm? You aren't good at reading between the lines, you can't tell the intention of someone who asks a question on the internet. That person vaguely said why they wanted to give them self a bruise and said it was important. Maybe it was important because they felt they wanted to harm them self but wasn't sure how to get a bruise. People who want to self harm ask how to cut themselves without it hurting to much or how to burn themselves. I'm not making the assumption that's what they wanted, but you can't make the assumption that they want to falsely accuse someone of physically bullying them. Don't act like you know it all and try to spread justice around. (link)
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People who want a bruise - could be to accuse their partner/sibling/parents of hitting them to get out of a situation. Wrong way about it.
People who ask about cutting themselves... its gonna f******* hurt. What a silly question.
Attention seeking people I think.
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So my boyfriend party is in a week and I want to have an amazing party for him. Ive planned to make Rasta colored jello shots, were going to smoke something in the smoker, and I'm making him a cake of course. Also, Our yard is 10x as big as our home so itll be an outdoor party and itll probably be chilly so well have a bonfire. But what else could i do to make it an amazing party? I want him to have a good night lol Thank you :) (link)
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I assume you will have speakers outside and all that?
Possibly get a marque and put table and chairs underneath so its like a chill space. And you didn't specify what he actually likes so it's a little hard to give you ideas because I am not sure what he likes. Get a funnel and get him to do some funnels. Play beer pong.
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Hey:)! I been hitting the gym lately. And I was just wondering what would be the perfect sort of weight dumbells for me. I'm female, 16 years old and 5'7 is my height.
How much would be perfect for me? Thanks!:) (link)
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If you're at a gym - ask a personal instructor, they will know whats best for you depending on your muscle mass etc.
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Ok, I'm a freshman in high school (female). I have a friend from last year(when i was an 8th grader, he a sophomore) who is a junior. We are in band together. WE where really good friends last year, and he had a big crush on me for a while (i'm not sure how long)but at the beginning of this year after B.C he started ignoring me a little. but he was still friendly with me at times.
But....
SO this season he had started ignoring me full time. This was around the time that people in the band could tell that me and another freshman in the band (my boyfriend now) liked each other.
During the season i would go up and say hi and be friendly but he'd just say Hi very curtly and walk away,
so the season passed, we had our field season pics taken. A friend of mine pushed this guy into the hallway cause i had to confront him about it.
I confronted him about the past few months and he told me that he just had been having a lot of problems and didn't know how to approach me.
I expressed my feelings that i felt like he hated me, right as i said that he hugged me tightly saying he could never hate me (we have gone through quiet a bit together)
He hugged me again tight like that. WE let it out and i felt like we were friends again :) but that was back in November/December, and he's fallen back into ignoring me.
It doesn't help i have to sit next to him in our Concert arch.
I know he;s depressed and possibly suicidal, but he won't let me in to help him!!
I care about him, and i want to help... I don't know what to do :( Please help (link)
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You can't make him come to you for support or tell you whats going on. I know that some people have to work through their own situations themselves, I know this from a personal experience. Sometimes you just don't want other people pestering you or asking how you are every second.
Don't assume he is suicidal, that's not fair. Tell his parents that you think somethings up and then they can do what they think is best for their son.
Never pressure him to talk to you or tell you whats up. Maybe give him some space and don't text him all the time because it can get annoying.
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14-8th grade-Female
Ok, so recently, on a popular site, (not facebook, twitter, or instagram) I ended up in a very long and not yet ending comment conversation with another user (male). Somehow I believe I may have developed a... crush... on him. The only problem is, I have absolutely zero idea how old he is, but it hasn't come up yet because I have my age displayed on my profile but he does not. Looking at his profile, he seems older than 13 but younger than 30. I tend to think about him a lot, and we talk about twice a day. I'm just so fearful that I'll eventually find out he's 27....
I know how dangerous the internet is, but he just seems so... great. He writes so intelectually, but he uses words like 'awesome'. I'm just so flustered. What should I do about this? Thank you. (link)
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Your 14 - you are nowhere near ready to go through anything even remotely serious at this age. Your still a kid, have fun while you still can. Your going to have different boyfriends all throughout your teenage life - your interests will change when you get older, your body will change. Everything changes, just chill out and be the kid that you are instead of being 'flustered' over an internet guy.
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Hey 15/F (please don't juge)
I hade sex with my bestfriend and he used a condom.but just to be sure I want to take the test. I can't wait till after my period because it comes and goes. I don't have a cycle for sure. So saturday its 2 weeks since we did it. Can I take the test on saturday? (link)
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I would wait another 2 weeks to test.
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Okay so here goes about a month my boyfriend I did everything but have intercourse together but everyone is telling me that I have nothing to worry about because his penis didn't go inside me but i am having some doubt because i am having symptoms of pregnancy and we haven't been dating that long either only about 2 months now at the most . my symptoms are food cravings for the past two weeks I have been eating a lot of chocolate and this week I started wanting chicken salad sandwiches and I don't even like chicken salad at all . I am having really bad head aches and backaches and feeling sick to my stomach . am I pregnant or could it possible be my nerves oh yeah and it is to early for me to know if i have missed my period or not . (link)
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You cannot be pregnant if you didnt have sex. You said 'his penis didn't go inside me' - which makes me assume you didn't have sex and you just did foreplay. You don't get cravings that quick either and if you THINK your pregnant, your body will react to that and basically pretend it is until you snap out of it. YOUR NOT PREGNANT.
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I want to lose 15-20kg and ill starting going to the gym 5 days a week,ill eat more fruit and vegetable,drink plenty of water,cut junk food and i want to know how long will it take me to lose the 20kg,? Now i weigh 75kg. (link)
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There is not way to tell how long it will take you to lose the weight. It depends on your body and how fast your metabolism is going. If you maintain eating healthy and going to the gym, you'll reach your goal, just don't expect it to happen straight away. Working hard = The greatest end result
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alright so my husband and I have been together for 5 years and married 2 1/2 years.. and in the past I have caught him with porn on his phone (first time about 3 years ago..) and I know he still does it.. ive seen it.. but everytime I confront him he denies it! and says he doesn't know how it got there.. hello.. im not dumb.. it doesn't just pop up!! theres only been one time in all the years that he actually confessed to it! and that night we had a long talk and I explained to him how it made me feel and what not.. he hugged me and comforted me and promised me that he would never do it again.. but he has.. and I just found some stuff on the tv tonight that he was looking at porn related things.. what do I do?! things have been going really good in our marriage and I don't wanna say anything and make things bad again.. and I don't wanna not say anything and him think that because he aint "getting caught" that he can continue to do it.. I don't understand why he does it.. we are VERY sexually active.. an what not.. so its not like he isn't getting any.. so idk why he insist on watching it.. idk if its me.. or him.. if I should say something... or not.. and yes, I know its just porn.. and I know its not like he is having an affair.. but its the fact that I have told him and explained to him NUMEROUS times how it makes me feel and everytime he promises he doesn't do it or he will stop... but he doesn't stop and he does do it!! I don't want porn to ruin my marriage! (link)
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Hey,
This is really interesting because many of my friends and family friends have gone through this. I know it looks bad and it's not you or him. A lot of males actually look at porn - it's not because they aren't attracted to you or want to have sex with you. It's a fact that males think about sex more than females do.
But because you have explained to him how you have felt multiple times and he says he won't do it again - maybe he has a slight 'porn addiction' and just can't stop watching it?
Not trying to scare you or anything but it is something that you could look at?
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