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Hi i am a person that has lived through some really bad parts of life and some really good parts of life. i have an open mind and love to help people with problems or just simple questions they have. :)
Gender: Female
Age: 20
Member Since: April 15, 2010
Answers: 10
Last Update: April 19, 2010
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i'm 17/f ill try and keep this as simple and short as possible !! basically last summer i met this guy named jared through friends, we got along really well, we were both attracted to eachother. anyway we kissed and stuff but never went any further...we text eachother a lot. when we got really close he said to me he really liked me but he wasnt ready for a relationship, and he was really sorry to do it to me. i said it was ok we could still be friends and all was good. yet when another guy showed interest in me, jared fell out with me over it. from this point onwards i realised he got REAL jealous if he thought another guy liked me. we were forever falling out, then making up again. anyway we stopped talking for 3 months and one day i saw him and he was like im real sorry for how i treated you i was such an a** and we made up. we kept talking and a month later he said he was ready for a relationship and he really wanted to be with me, i said yes b/c i was mad about him and had been since the day i met him. when we started dating he said so many times he wanted to forget me but he just couldnt. anyways things were going good, but we ended up breaking up last month b/c he werent too sure how he felt anymore. i think he doesnt want a relationship anymore, his longest relationship was with me for over 3 months. yet he still wanted to remain friends....i rejected the offer of friendship, i said id love to still be friends with you but i cant when i have strong feelings for you, otherwise i will never get over you. he was upset and angry when i told him this. i havent spoken to him in weeks now, do you think its really over ?? and do you think i did the best thing by choosing not to be friends with him ??? (link)
if you really have strong feelings for him then it is the best thing for you guys not to be friends cause their will be unwanted tension because even though you try and act all cool about everything you wont be able to. and the fact that he gets jealous is not a good sign. other guys will notice you. you cant control that.


I like your views on People are dating and have different REligion View. well I grow up in a christain family and we belive in god and we do hoildays and go to church.
well I been dating this guy for 9 month. and he is sweet and funny and good to me. and we get along pretty good. but how ever his family Daugher Married a family who are kunck off of christ of christ and that they don't like Clebartie Hoildays and think crosses and Pegans. and well my bf can be strong minded. and it not that he don't like crosses andthink there bad it just he belive don't need them to remeber and stuff all you need is job. well i do care and love him but not sure if i married and have kids with him becouse it be alot harder. we seem to be good together but it get to religion it seem like a issue too his family. i mean thye like me. theiy belive i am gift from god. becouse well I am Hard of hearing n born with celf palated and small and such. i don't know. I realy need some tips and advice and like soem others thoughts think
amanda (link)
there are always problems when you marry outside your faith but the problems usually arise after children. ah and when you marry you usually go with what ever religion your husband is and either way you will have problems with which others one family that you dont share religious views with.


My friends were talking at lunch today and one of them said that her boyfriend got cum on her last night. What does that even mean? What is cum?

I hope I don't sound too stupid LOL! (link)
its semen....you know sperm


I am seventeen, and I've had my period for about 4 years. It has always been regular [never late. always early or on time.] Right now it's 2 weeks late, and I know irregular periods are completely normal for someone who's had it for a couple years. But shouldn't it be pretty regular by now? I am NOT sexually active, so there is no way I am pregnant. (My mom is freaking out and telling me to confess already, ha.) Anyways, should I be a little worried that it's THIS late? (link)
as your body develops it is natural for your period to come later than usual. i wouldnt worry since you arent sexually active because there are several factors that can cause a later period. stress, diet, hormone enbalance..i wouldnt worry to much unless it doesnt show up for a couple of months. however if your period is going to start being irregular you can get on birth control to help. i would talk it over with your mother first since she is quite worried about your sexual activity...


Ok do guys like it better if a girl is tight or loose?
I know what it means kinda but still confused.
Can someone explain and tell me which they prefer? (link)
like all the rest before me has said guys really dont care but if YOU are self consious about being loose there is thing called keggling. its where you tighten the muscles of your vagina by squeezing and realising the muscles. it will gradually tighten the muscles. but i wouldnt worry about it to much. guys are guys..they just like a hole to stick it in :)


19/f well I've only had 1 real boyfriend. here are some reasons i get very cling/needy, i call too much, and because whenever a boy gives me his number, smiles at me, or does something else i get way too excited and thinks that he likes me, and i know he doesn't. Now what are some ways i could break these bad habits? i've been trying to but it's very difficult. any ideas? thanks!! (link)
i know how you feel. i use to do the same things. but i just came to think that you have to play a little hard to get. yes if he gives you his number call him BUT not everyday. he will have your number and if he wants to call you he will. if not then go on to the next one. and dont be all over a guy. let him know that yes you would like to be his girl (if that comes up) but not that you NEED him. a guy likes a girl that is independent :) hope i helped good luck!


I'm in love with someone I dated in high school, and have been for years now. I think I married the wrong woman and I don't know how to tell my wife or whether to tell her at all. Telling a spouse you don't love them romantically anymore is one of the harshest and most damaging things you can do on an emotional level but I'm starting to wonder whether I'll ever be happy again. I'm struggling over whether it's better to live in pain forever or cause that same pain in someone else.

I'm 25 and male, we have no kids. (link)
well it will hurt her more for you to stay with her. however you may be confused about this woman. you are 25...you might not really know what love is. but i would definately tell your wife. its better to be open and honest with her. she deserves that much. :) hope i helped


so this person i am seeing says some of the most hurtful things to me. then goes out and does something all sweet, and thinks because he has done this wonderful thing it makes up for those hurtful things he says. is words i qoute " actions woman not words"

that is what he says when i confront him, what do i do? he never can talk serious when i bring up this stuff he starts acting like a child and making noises so he cant hear me! it frustrates me beyond belief! i have hadto tell him to grow up! wwhat happend to the man i met that was loving caring respectful ?

ps i am 21 female (link)
true actions speak louder than words but words cut deep. he can not expect you to just get over the hurtful things that he said just cause he is nice to you. in my opinion he is just being nice to you afterwards to keep you around...walk away from him for good if he cant treat you with respect with WORDS AND ACTIONS. you deserve better than that :)


I want my nose peirced I'm 13 and I want to no if anyone got it done at my age and regreted it?help!! (link)
i think you will need your parents permission to do so but if you get it done and you regret it you can always take it out. it doesnt leave a scar (at least on me) but word of advice if you take it out and want to repierce it go to a professional its not like an earring and you can do it yourself. it hurts a heck of a lot more. :)


I feel like all the nicknames for my boyfriend are too common and so I thought I wouldask you if anybody could help me with a list of cute names to call your boyfriend? No matter whether it's one name or 100 I thank you for helping me! Thank you (link)
i think something from a different language is usually the cutest. make sure its something simple and you can pronounce. it can mean sweetheart or any english pet name but i think it adds a little something if its in a different language. :)




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