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guys! argh
i'm 17/f ill try and keep this as simple and short as possible !! basically last summer i met this guy named jared through friends, we got along really well, we were both attracted to eachother. anyway we kissed and stuff but never went any further...we text eachother a lot. when we got really close he said to me he really liked me but he wasnt ready for a relationship, and he was really sorry to do it to me. i said it was ok we could still be friends and all was good. yet when another guy showed interest in me, jared fell out with me over it. from this point onwards i realised he got REAL jealous if he thought another guy liked me. we were forever falling out, then making up again. anyway we stopped talking for 3 months and one day i saw him and he was like im real sorry for how i treated you i was such an a** and we made up. we kept talking and a month later he said he was ready for a relationship and he really wanted to be with me, i said yes b/c i was mad about him and had been since the day i met him. when we started dating he said so many times he wanted to forget me but he just couldnt. anyways things were going good, but we ended up breaking up last month b/c he werent too sure how he felt anymore. i think he doesnt want a relationship anymore, his longest relationship was with me for over 3 months. yet he still wanted to remain friends....i rejected the offer of friendship, i said id love to still be friends with you but i cant when i have strong feelings for you, otherwise i will never get over you. he was upset and angry when i told him this. i havent spoken to him in weeks now, do you think its really over ?? and do you think i did the best thing by choosing not to be friends with him ???
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Being friends can be the best thing for you guys at least for now. Give yourself and him some time to think about stuff. Don't get jealous when he talks to other girls and tell him don't get jealous when you talk to other guys. Everything happens for a reason. If you guys were meant to be, you guys will find a way to be back together.When you're friends with a guy and the next thing you know you guys hook it and then you start to have feelings for him, things change. Being friends and then being your boyfriend is different. Feelings changed, sometimes people change and then everything else changes. Eventually if it was meant to be, things will work out, if no there's other fishes in the sea. So i would suggest be friends with him and see where that leads you guys again.
Good Luck!
I hope this helps you(:
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if you really have strong feelings for him then it is the best thing for you guys not to be friends cause their will be unwanted tension because even though you try and act all cool about everything you wont be able to. and the fact that he gets jealous is not a good sign. other guys will notice you. you cant control that.
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