(male/18) So my best female friend stayed the night at my house last night like she usually does a few times a month! but what started out as a soft neck massage.. ended up with us sleeping in the same bed and flirting and cuddling and talking ALL night..i think im starting to like her ALOT more then just a friend.... and she seems to feel the same way BUT she is really into (and practically dating) this other guy... im so bummed out cause 1)she is my best friend and i dont want to make a move or tell her anything that might make things awkward and 2) i care for her so much that i just want her to be happy wether we are just friend or we are dating.. i dont know what my next move is but all i know is i cant get her out of my head! PLEASE HELP! :/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? DrPlayer answered Monday April 19 2010, 11:21 pm: If she is truly your best friend you need to support her whatever her decision is, to be with you or another person. I see this kind of thing happen a lot. If she doesn't pick you the best thing to do is find another girl that you like more. It's the only efficient way to get over someone. Plus if your feelings get in the way of your friendship you might want to consider ending your friendship or not seeing her as often because noticing her with another boy will just make you feel like crap. It's stuck between a rock and a hard place but you have to push through it. Best of luck man. [ DrPlayer's advice column | Ask DrPlayer A Question ]
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