Hello,
My name is Jelly Belly (as far as your concerned :P) and I am apperently really good at giving advice...so people tell me. . .
If you have a question feel free to e-mail me or whatever and I will answer it with the best to my ability.
I am a video game and anime geek, and I live on google. So drop me a line if oyu have a question or just want to say "Howdy!"
Well either way I'll Talk to y'all later!
~Jelly Belly
E-mail: jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Arizona
Occupation: Trader Joes Employee/Student
Age: 19
Yahoo: jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com
Member Since: February 5, 2009
Answers: 17
Last Update: February 6, 2009
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Is soy milk okay for adult cats? If so why? (link)
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"We would not recommend feeding your cat soy milk in place of fresh water or as the major ingredient in her diet...However, if your cat likes a taste of soy milk as an occasional treat, it shouldn't cause her any harm—just keep the portion small."
source:http://www.aspca.org/pet-care/ask-the-expert/ask-the-expert-pet-nutrition/can-cats-drink-soy-milk.html
I know that cats stomaches are very simular to a human stomache. Some humans are lactose intolerant and have to drink soy milk so I would imagine that it might be simular for a cat to have the same problem.
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on the front it said that it was a REAL diary. and that its a real story, and it really belonged to a young girl on drugs in the 70s.
but as i was reading it, i noticed that its written more like a book, and doesnt necessarily look like it was written by a 15 year old girl on drugs.
does anyone know whether or not its a real diary? because this story tears me apart and i really would like to know if its real. thanks!
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Alright, I have spent almost half an hour reading this site and tring to find its credentials and I beleive it to be correct
Link
http://www.snopes.com/language/literary/askalice.asp
Go Ask Alice, is not a real diary. In fact the "publisher",Beatrice Sparks, has apparently written many books like this one about ananomus teens and bad choices particularly written in diary format. And although she has stated that she has been the author of these particular novels, she turned away from claiming ownership to Alice. Rumor has it that she approched it this way because there is apperently more than one author.
Either way, whether it is fiction or non-fiction, the story is a classic. It had me almost crying from cover to cover, and I hope you continue reading it and enjoy every word!
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me and my boyfriend have been together 7months nearly + he sed hes dun stuff with other girls, i dont know if i should believe him or not. he also said hes had sex but hes told his best mate he wants to do things with me too but i dont think if hes had sex it will be the same as if he hadnt and i dont want him to finish with me because i wont have sex with him, also if we did have sex how long do u bleed for? if he fingered me what happens after :S?
help me please! no idea =[ x
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Sounds like this guy is a hound dog,
if you don't want to have sex with him then don't its that simple. You are the boss of your body, he cannot have what you do not give.
That being said, if you do have sex with this guy please be careful and take it real slow, and make him take it slow and gentle at first. used a water based lubricant (oil based breaks down condoms) and use a condom or a Vaginal Contraceptive Film, you can get all 3 at drugstores regardless of age.
If he fingers you, you most likely not lose your virginity. Yet again tell him to be gentle at first, no full fisters the first time. If it hurts tell him to stop, or use less fingers.
I wish you the best of luck in your happy endevors!
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im only 19/f and i get way too many headaches. i ususally get one every day! i use to take advil/alieve then stopped. and i drink water so its not that. anyone else have any ideas to why this happens? also what type of doctor should i see for it? (link)
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I'll try to answer this to the best of my knowledge. It's possible that it could be stress or acute migranes.
Headaches are something really not to mess around with for it could be a nerve damage thing.
try this symtom checker
http://symptoms.webmd.com/default.htm
it'll definately help you in finding what you need specifically.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope you get better,
~Jelly Belly
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So I was wondering what other things I can do to give myslef an orgasm. I'm a girl, 16/f, by the way. I don't like fingering myself, it hurts and doesn't feel good at all.
please don't give me any links. thank you!! (link)
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Alright girlie, the most important thing about pleasureing yourself at a young age is trying not to take your own virginity, trust me it can happen. If fingering yourself hurts though i don't think you have to worry about it.
Probabyly a good way for you is to do it in the shower, just sit down in the tub and imagine whatever fantasy you want. If you have one of those hanging shower heads that can be attached and be manual, those are perfect cause you can just let the water stimulate your clitorus.
Or you can lie down in bed ans start imagineing your scene, its always important in any masterbation to do foreplay cause it gets the natural juices flowing. Play with your breast nipples things that are sensitive to you. Then when your ready to actually begin, i guess, you can take two fingers and make like a peice sign. then put your clit (its the big lumpy thing in the middle) and gently rub up and down.
The clitorus is acctually the most sensitive part on a female body, so thats really what you want to stimulate. And you don't have to have penetration of any type to get it.
god i feel like a dirty old hag!!!! LOL!
well i hope that helps darling!
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I am in love with a girl. Before she was having boyfriend. I want to marry her. But my concenn is whether on her first relation they had sex. (link)
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Why is this a concern? If you love her, If you really love her and she loves you won't care about her past, includeing who she's had sex with.
At the same time I understand your concern if your worried about STD's.
But if your worried about if shes a virgin or not, you probably don't really love her the way that you or her deserve to be loved. I don't know the details so I can't get to in depth with my answer.
if you need to ask anymore questions feel free to email me at jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com
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15/f okay so i was going out w/ matt for 4 months and during those 4 months we never hung out. only twice... we only hooked up once.. sad i know but he was never allowed out because of his grades. so around like new years my bffs \"bf\" like would have all these parties and so matt was never there because he wasnt allowed to go. so i started to get close to this kid tyler.. like really close.. like we never did anything but we would always be all over eachother and i know its so wrong but i guess i was just like doing that because i could never have that feeling w/ matt. i dont know then i started questioning my relationship w/ matt but then i came to the conclusion thatllike it was just a stupid mistake and that i wasnt thinking clearly about the whole tyler thing. so idk like a week or two later i was starting to get like fed up w/ matt so i broke up w/ him because it was starting to become such a dissappointment to be w/ him because he could never hang out and we basically only saw eachother in school and every weekend hed be like oh yeah i can deff hang out and then he wouldnt be able to so i told him that nd i broke up w/ him. now ever since new years tylers been telling me he loves me and stuff and hes never felt this way about anyone before. and i talked things out w/ matt and i told him i might give him another chance if we could actually have like a steady relationship like a couple should and then he stole this note from my friend and it said all this shit about how matt could be really immature sometimes and that tyler would probably be the better guy. and idk i told matt everything that happened w/ tyler. but at the end of the note i said that i think tyler would be the better guy and stuff like more comfortable to be around? i guess? i dont know but i feel like i didnt give matt the chance because we never hung out. now the weekends coming and im suppsoed to be hanging out w/ both of thme and this is basically going to decide which one id rather be w/ ... if any of them that is. and i have no idea what im going to do. i tried talking to my friends about it but they just keep telling me the same things and i just need someone elses opinion.. thanks.
sry this is so long. (link)
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Alright, this is something you need to come to a conclusion to yourself. You need to sit down by yourself and answer this question.
"Which one do I like and Which one do I love?" and really spend the time to think about this.
For instance:
Is Matt really grounded evrey weekend so he claims, are his grades really that bad. And if so why isn't he taking the time to fix them so he can be with you?
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Is Tyler what I'm really looking for, or is it my instinct of a teenage girl? Is Tyler really intrested in me, or is he intrested in the color of my underwear?
this is going to be a battle between the two, but do not let yourself not make a desicion, indesisiveness is one of the greatest sins in the world I think. You can not have both.
On the otherhand, you are VERY young, and they are really young, so why don't you just let fate take over and go where your heart tells you. Maybe drop those two and find someone else.
The most important thing when it comes to high school is to have fun and don't let drama consume you. Its just high school.
I hope you go down a glorious path and I wish you luck!
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I’ve been really close friends with this man for several years. We run in the same circle (of friends) and have the same passion for the arts. During the past few years, I’ve expressed my feelings to him which is more than just a friendship (I love him). His answer is always…I love you, with no further detail. I’ve asked on several occasions, Love me how? As a friend, like a sister? How? He clams up~ No answers.
A few months ago, we were talking on the phone and he blurted out, “I love you, I really really do.” Then hangs up the phone. What am I suppose to do with that? Again, what does it mean. I blow up…..I ask him, what does it mean, no answer. I proceed to ask him to stop screwing with my head. If he is going to be my friend, then be my friend.
And if he could express what his love means, then stop saying it.
Nonetheless, he continues to express that he truly does love me and we are friends. We don't speak for months. He deleted me off his friend's list. I recently attended an event and found out he was there, but left when he saw me. (We run in the circle of friends, so it is inevitable that we will see each other again).
I don't get it...why am I being treated this way....What did I do wrong? What could his reason be for avoiding me? (link)
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The number one reason, You scared him,
You asked If he love you and he did, guys aren't as complex as girls if they say I love you they mean i LOVE you, like i want to be with you. And he probably didn't understand why you blew up at him.
My suggestion, apologize, even if you don't know what you did wrong, apologize and say that you didn't want to lose him as a friend, In fact you were in love with him and you wanted to be something more.
When a guy gets nervous and doesn't say anything you usually can get anyhting you want outta him if you touch him. Grab his hand, his sholder and assure him that its okay to speak his feelings, that you don't want to hurt him.
But First thing is first, you have to rekindle that old flame, and that is going to take time, but if you can pull it off, the relationship will be stronger.
Don't get mad at a guy for not talking, guys aren't meant to talk girls are. Stay calm, no matter how frustrated you get, even if he yells always stay calm, its easier to rationalize when your not trying to defend yourself verbally. Just take a couple breaths and go over your answers smoothly. You will probably have to start from the ground up, but cut the guy some slack, he probably sees you as the most beautiful thing in the world, and id afraid that he's going to break it, or afraid that you'll hurt him agian.
Whatever happens good luck, may fortune and love smile upon you!
any more question feel free to email me at jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com
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my so called best friend is really annoying she lies about stupid stuff all the time to try and get attention or to impress people. she will try and say something to make you feel bad and make her look like shes better then everyone else. shes not popular at all and not a whole lot of people like her.. she always has to be right, she complains about everything and if i say no thats not right then she'll get mad and say im not stupid i know what im talking about and or that I always have to be right which isnt true and during practice i had hurt my elbow and she said stop being a baby you complain about everything that didnt hurt as bad as my arm did.. just stupid stuff and im really sick of it, i like her cuz shes not always like that but i dont know what i should do or if i should talk to her about it? (link)
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I understand you situation, and I know this is going to be hard to read because no one likes to lose friends. But If someone brings you down and never picks you up, or makes you feel bad about being you then its time to drop them. Not saying you can't be friends, but maybe you should think about finding someone else be your "best friend" and just let her fall to the waistside as a friend. Both are just equally important, but life is to short to be wasteing your time with people who make you feel worthless.
As for being popular and stuff, the most popular kids are the ones who don't care about being popular. Just be generaly pleasant and friendly, and don't let stupid or jelous people push you around. Even if it means you have to break your "pleasantries". People are inclined to suppress those they are threatened by, kinda like your friend.
She's jelous of you maybe cause you are generally nice and people like you, so she's going to conciously or subconciously push you down.
Don't be a vitim.
don't stop being her friend all together, cause you'll need people to back you up if you fall, but don't let her so close that she drains you. Make some more friends, talk to other people and ask their intrest.
I wish you the best of luck!
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hello, Im 18 years old and i have a boyfriend, we've dating 8 months. I know he loves me, and I guess i love him too... He almost 20 years old,and as any guy he wants to have sex.he isnt a virgin, unlike him, im virgin. the problem is my parents, they told me not to do this till marriage. bc my countries' religion is islam(muslim). But we are not religious, its just old traditions. in addition, after few months he going to university which is 4 hours from me. i dont know should i do this? he wants to and i kind of want too, but I'm not sure and afraid...and also my dad gonna be mad on me (link)
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The First question comes to my mind is Are you willing to give up on the traditions of your religions for this guy? Now I do not mean this in a bad way at all, In fact its a question you should ask yourself. Every momther and Father wants their little girl to stay pure for as long as they can, why do you think they invented chastity belts? But If you want to have sex with your boyfriend know that is entirely your decition and that you will own up to the consequences that fallow. From what I am seeing you are a 18 year old WOMAN not a girl, you are an adult and you make your own decitions, not the ones your parents make for you, but with that power comes great responsiblity, you must be able to accept and own up to all your desicions and take any consiquences with a grain of salt.
Your boyfriend is going to a university only 4 hours away, that's really not that bad if you think about it, you can drive down to see him, or he can drive down to see you evrey weekend, once a month. Trust me I would die to have an oppertunity like that with my boyfriend (he's a marine and stationed in Hawaii, so its an 8 hour expensive flight to get to him). So don't worry about that, if its love the absence will make it stronger.
If you do decide to have sex just remember you are a virgin and you need to take it slow and gentle at first. use a condom or a Vaginal Contraseptive Film (you can find both at drugstores) and to use a water based lubricant if needed (oil based breaks down condoms). It might hurt a little at first, but since you waited till you were 18 (GOOD FOR YOU BTW!!!) your opening just might be developed enough where it won't hurt real bad.
well I hope this helped,
If you have anymore questions e-mail me at
jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com
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i've always always wanted to get my belly button pierced but have been so afraid of it hurting and not being able to play sports and stuff. i play softball so would it get in the way at all? and does it hurt? my stomach isn't bad but its not perfectly flat either..so would it still look good? and is there anything else i need to know? thankss (link)
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To get your belly button peirced you have to a body shop, and you have to be 18, if not you have to have a legal gardian sign your paperwork.
i do not suggest doing it yourself, the flesh of your bellybutton is very sensitive and can get infected really easily.
Insted I would wait 2 years, peirsed bellys are so sexy in college you'd have TONS O' FUN.
If you really want some type of decoration I suggest getting a sticker in any shape you want and sticking it near your bellybutton and getting a tan. Obviously the sticker will make a cute little design, and guys just love it!
If you happen to do it yourself, or get a friend to help you, Please keep your new peirseing clean, clean it twice a day with an alcohol or sailine solution. and when or if you do it make sure the needle you use is also sanitized in a saline or alcohol based solution. and also numb the area with ice.
And if you think is doesn't look good its easy to always take it out and let it heal, you still need to keep it clean so it doesn't scar or get infected, but fortunatly peirseings are temporary.
Well good luck I hope you have fun!
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1. Can you give a guy head and THEN have sex with him?
2. What does it mean when a guy can "only last a minute or so?" Is that good or bad?
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Yea, you can give a guy head and then have sex with him, your saliva makes and extra lubricant. But at the downside, If you give a guy hed before sex his performance goes down and that probably what he means by a "minute or so" it means that the sex won't last very long. To help him give you an orgasum, have him foreplay with you first till you orgasam a couple of times, Girls tend to orgasam more and get back up on that pogo stick, while guys are usually one shot jhonny's (lol jk for some men!) When you do have intercourse make him stop before he cums and regain his composure and start again, it will not only help him increase his performance, but it will also help you acheive your sexual orgasam.
FYI I can't spell sorry!
If you have anymore questions feel free to email me at "jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com"
The most important thing about sex is to have fun!
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im not gonna have sex for a while now. but i wanted to know if it will hurt. my boyfriend is a very rough person when it comes to this stuff(he likes his hair pulled and back scratched)he already tried fingering me and it hurt so much. i have a very high pain tolerance and using tampons hurts for me. is there anything i can do in the meantime to lower my pain tolerence? (link)
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Wait till your out of high school to have sex. Your body is not developed well enough before that, and it will be painful and messy. Also, tell your boyfriend to be gentle, just because he likes it rough doesn't mean you do. He's probably useing to many fingers at once, tell him to use like one or two at first. If he doesn't respect the fact that it hurts you and you need to take it slow, maybe you should let him go, even if its temporary.
I completely understand what your going through, for I went through the same thing. Just take you time and let your body grow slightly. I didn't lose my virginity till I was 19 and the first time didn't hurt at all.
If you do decide to have sex make sure you foreplay, that gets the natural lubricants going, and that you use waterbased lubericants, because oil based breaks down condoms. use a condom, or a contraseptive film (you can get them at drugstores I.E. wallgreens, I even found some at Albersons once) and tell him to take it real gentle and slow for the first couple of times. VERY SLOW, and then when you get confortable, maybe you can try it rough.
if you have anymore questions e-mail me at
"Jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com"
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I've been liking this guy for 2 years now.I've been knowing him for that long too.And I feel lke I love him.I want to tell him how I feel but right when i approach him,i get scared and never get the chance to tell him.So, what I wanna know is how do I show him I like him without me actually telling him I do? (link)
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Well,
I don't know if there is an actual way of doing that, but guys love a girl who have the confidence to say so, even if its meek. I would suggest going to a movie or even taking him to a park to explore or something, with just the 2 of you, and not nesscarly saying you love him, but mention that you find him intresting and you want to know more about him. Don't be afraid of him, he's just a normal human being as you are. And don't be afraid to ask questions, the more you know about him and the more he knows about you the better relationship you guys will have. Take you time with it to, you don't have to rush it, if it was ment to happen it will.
I wish you the best of luck and i hope love prevails,
If you have any more questions e-mail me at jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com
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What I mean is you actually have to own up and tell the guy you like him. Guys are horrible at guessing games. Don't be nervous look him in the eyes and tell him straight out.
P.S Hint: If you get to scared, step back and breathe for a second, remember, fear is only created by the mind, If you don't take chances you'll never open your opertunities.
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Whats the play Don't dress for dinner about? Also, are there any parts for a 14 year old girl? (link)
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"Don't Dress for Dinner is a frenetic case of mistaken identity with more twists than a corkscrew. When Jacqueline decides to visit her mother for a few days, her husband Bernard sees an opportunity for a cozy weekend with his new mistress. His bachelor pal Robert calls to announce his return from Hong Kong, so Bernard invites him along as his alibi, also hiring a Cordon Bleu-level cook to cater a delicious dinner. But when Jacqueline realizes Robert is coming for a visit everything changes, and the high speed farce begins! One impossible situation leads to another as the hapless friend Robert finds himself the target of both amorous attention and wrathful vengeance, while Bernard tries desperately to salvage a scrap of illicit bliss from the wreckage of a weekend."
Source:http://www.theatreinchicago.com/playdetail.php?playID=2913
Looking up this play darlin' it would seem that the cast (and humor) is more for the mid-age (20-30) cast members. From what I'm getting from it's an all adult cast. But if your thinking of trying out do it anyway, If you don't make it thats fine but you put your foot in the door for the next play that does require a 14 year old girl. And who know maybe oyu can be an extra, or a stage hand.
If you have anymore questions feel free to e-mail me at "jellybeansandtinkerbell@yahoo.com"
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im writing a paper on a midsummer nights dream. it has to do with the theme of dreams, the dream realm, and how to dream realm mixes with the real world and causes confusion and misconception.. things like that. what are some specific examples from the book i could use? quotes would be great too, if you can think of any. thanks! (link)
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Here is some dream quotes:
"Swift as a shadow, short as any dream;
Brief as the lightning in the collied night." Act 1 Scene 1
"I have an exposition of sleep come upon me.
" Act 4 Scene 1
"My Oberon! what visions have I seen!
Methought I was enamoured of an ass." Act 4 scene 1
" I have had a dream, past the wit of man to say what dream it was." Act 4 Scene 1
"If we shadows have offended,
Think but this, and all is mended,
That you have but slumbered here
While these visions did appear." Act 5 Scene 1
Source "http://www.allgreatquotes.com/shakespeare_midsummernightsdream.shtml"
What you could also do is maybe incorporate Sigmund Frued, A very famous phycologist (I can't spell) and his study of dreams, the road to the subcounsious. An excerpt from his Book The interpretaions of dreams is here "http://www.wsu.edu:8080/~wldciv/world_civ_reader/world_civ_reader_2/freud.html"
Basically what Mr.Freud beleives is that dreams are a subcouncious way at looking at what we face in the real world. So I guess you can describe it that way.
Well I hope this helps,
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I have a trojan virus on my cpu I downloaded a software to remove it but when I attempt to run it it says I am not the administrator and for me to contact my network admin. I tried contacting my internet company and they cant help me. Is there anything else I can do from home to get rid of this virus. (link)
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This happened to me about a couple months ago, but what your should do is download AVAST virus protection. Its free for 90 days and it goes through your entire harddrive and cleans up.
Here's the site: "http://www.avast.com/eng/avast_4_home.html".
It'll promt you to restart your computer and when you reboot it starts phishig through evreything and if it finds something it'll ask you what you want to do with it. My advice is to stick it in the chest. The chest blocks out the virus but allows the user to double check it make sure its not important.
Well I hoped this helped!
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