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me and my boyfriend have been together 7months nearly + he sed hes dun stuff with other girls, i dont know if i should believe him or not. he also said hes had sex but hes told his best mate he wants to do things with me too but i dont think if hes had sex it will be the same as if he hadnt and i dont want him to finish with me because i wont have sex with him, also if we did have sex how long do u bleed for? if he fingered me what happens after :S?
help me please! no idea =[ x
fanks
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Every girl is different.. some don't bleed at all. Some cramp up a bit with little spotting.
Your first time is not going to be very pleasant. It will probably hurt (unless his package is really small LOL)
And from your message I dont think this guy is going to be very gentle with you.
PRACTICE SAFE SEX!!!!
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Hey.
It sounds like you really like your boyfriend, but at the same time there is something wrong with what you just said. If you honestly think that he would break up with you because you don't have sex with him, then you really deserve better. Whatever you choose to do with him should be your decision because you will remember your first time for the rest of your life. Wouldn't you rather remember it being something that you really wanted to do because you were in love with a person? So if you decide that you do want to do this then you should definitely take it slow because otherwise it will hurt. And you might not bleed at all, some girls don't because they have already broken their hymen prior to their first time because of exercise or an injury. And of course use protection. But honestly, only do this if you are ready. This is your life and should therefore be your choice. Take care.
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Sounds like this guy is a hound dog,
if you don't want to have sex with him then don't its that simple. You are the boss of your body, he cannot have what you do not give.
That being said, if you do have sex with this guy please be careful and take it real slow, and make him take it slow and gentle at first. used a water based lubricant (oil based breaks down condoms) and use a condom or a Vaginal Contraceptive Film, you can get all 3 at drugstores regardless of age.
If he fingers you, you most likely not lose your virginity. Yet again tell him to be gentle at first, no full fisters the first time. If it hurts tell him to stop, or use less fingers.
I wish you the best of luck in your happy endevors!
~<3 Jelly Belly
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