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There is a girl at school, she seems nice. So recently she got a myspace. She tells me "Oh you're on my top so I better be on yours!" so of course that means for me to put her on my top. I'm a nice person, so I did. Now I find out she is not the best person. She FAST in other words. And I do NOT want to be associated with people like that. I want to take her off my page, but what do I say if she asks what happened in the most polite way?? THANKS! (link)
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First off, Myspace top 8's are not as important and deadly as everyone makes them out to be. If she asks, say it's only myspace don't get so offended.
Besides if you don't like her, find a calm way to talk to her about it. Maybe her reputaion is a stretched version of the truth. If not, use the first line, or tell her the truth.
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i am now 14 and am a girl. When i was 13 i became bulemic which led to me cutting i cut for almost 8 months. I stopped for a while, then started again. then my bf marc got me to stop btu then he randomly dumped me, then him and his friend molested me wen he was drunk but then i had seex with him by choice 2 days after he starts going out with another girl and doesnt care about wat he did to me. I was a virgin and havign sex for the first time was a big deal to me and he knew that and i chose him but now he betrayed me and used me, im cutting again and i dont kno how to stop. I jus feel so useless and hurt i dont know wat to do. . . (link)
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I'm really sorry. Don't let an immature jerk of a guy do this to you though. TRUST ME, I am 16 and since I was 13 this guy would mess with me constantly and he never really care for me. It's hard. I became anorexic and got exercise bulimia (which means i became active all the time, sick or anything). I started cutting as well. All because of one guy! It took a lot to get myself back together.
Forget him! All the time you do this to yourself you are letting him win. You could be out having fun and meeting the right guy to care for you like you deserve.
Try focusing on something good in your life, and everytime you feel the urge to puke or cut.. write. Writing helps a lot! Even if it doesn't make sense what you write, it still helps. Your friends can help too, go out and have girls nights out and all that good stuff.
It is hard work, but over time things will get better.
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I'm normally a ridiculously happy person, but during a class trip I was really downing the vibe. Everything and everyone was beginning to frustrate me and it's not because I'm moody; these people were simply being annoying...
My question is:
despite all the annoyances I may be presented with, what is a good way to overlook them and be a ray of sunshine? (link)
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I can relate to that at times! Try focusing on things that you enjoy and ignoring what annoys you.
I started my own site, Jamtoria's Advice on Myspace and am trying to go further with it. I also started my own blog page. Maybe try something like that, or focus on a sport or anything. But my personal favorite is thinking that I can be something and all the annoying things and letdowns make us who we are.
Hope that helps..
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Okay, so I like my best guy friend. Thing is, hes enagaged. He will call and ask if I want to go over to his house and play videogames. He referrs to the times when I go over to his house as "dates." He also says that he plays better when I am not around because when I sit next to him I make him nervous. He is always flirting with me. He will tease me, playfully hit me, and playfully kick me in the butt. He is also sensitive to my feelings, and is always trying to figure out what is wrong when I am upset so he can make it better. If he goes to the store, he will usually ask if I would like to go with him, or if I go to the store he will usually go with me because he said that he would feel bad if something happened to me. Also when we go out he will pay for me. I try to pay him back, but he wont let me. Also when I leave his house to go back to mine he will walk me out and watch me as I walk home to make sure I make it okay(we're neighbors. he lives like 2 houses down from me.)
Now him and his fiance have been engaged for almost a year now. They have not set a date, and they do not live together. They only see eachother on saturday, but other than that, they talk on the phone a couple times a day. She is leaving soon for another 4 years of college in another city, some 400 miles away and he is not going with her.
Before I ask my questions though, I would like to add: As much as I do like this guy, I would never get involved with him as long as he is with his fiance. I have no intentions of breaking them up either. If they were to break up, I dont want it to be because of me.
So onto the questions. Do you think he likes me? Do you think he is possibly having second thoughts about getting married? And do you think its weird that they are engaged but dont live together and havent set a date for their wedding yet??
I know this is kind of long, so I appreciate you all for taking the time to read and respond to this. Thanks! (link)
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Well from that, I know he really cares about you and it is possible he has feelings for you plus second thoughts on his engagement. I respect you greatly for as much as you like him to not want them to break up especially because of you. I know how much these kind of situations suck.
Maybe, try randomly and jokingly bring up "so when are you two setting a date?" and see what his facial reaction is. And for a better reaction, try doing that when he is messing around with you.
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what are some good bands that are kinda uncommon. I know alot of bands so any ones that are known to lots of people ill probably already know and i need some new music. i like rock and stuff like that
thanks :) (link)
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I like somewhat emo/alternative rock, so you may or may not like these bands, but try:
the dangerous summer
the appearance
ericson
no one goes home
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i know a lot more, just can't think at the moment.
sorry, hope you like those at least:]
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Is it true if you get a physical for school since you have to do that every time you start a new school, is it true that doctors during the physical [or just in general by tests] can tell whether you're a virgin or not? Thanks [: (link)
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I'm pretty sure your school can not figure that out. However if you go to a gynecologist they can find out if you are a virgin or not.
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Is there any way that I can see all my friends on facebook that have no gender listed?
NOT female or male, but when they have NEITHER listed.
Do you know what I mean?
;] Thankss (link)
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I don't think you can specify in that category. Try asking them to just state whether they are male or female in their profile.
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Hello. I'm so sorry for asking another stupid question about myspace, but I'm extremely upset right now. My ex boyfriend, and now my current boyfriend, went and deleted his whole myspace. He wasn't thinking at the time, but there were messages he wanted saved from me in the past. He didn't realize this till after he already got rid of the profile. Does this mean there's no way at all to get that same profile back that he had? By a certain amount of days or something? I'm really about to cry right now. I also had tons of messages in my inbox from him from when we first started chatting and everything. Just in case he ever left, I really wanted those messages so I'd have all of the memories. It made me happy to read them. It hurts knowing I can't get em back. If there's any way at all he can get that profile back just the way it was, someone please let me know. Please don't answer unless you actually know what you're talking about. Thank you so much. (link)
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I'm sorry if he deleted his myspace there is no way to get any of his old stuff back:[ But if you still have yours all the messages in your inbox should still be there.
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this is really bugging me, and i can't tell for sure. so i need you guys to help me out. :]
- he told me that he was cold and i felt his hand, so basically he let me, and didn't pull away.
- we talk a lot, joke around a lot, and are happy when we're around each other.
- he tells me about his personal life.
- when we face each other, his legs are always outstreched and are merely just a few inches away from mine.
- he opens up to me.
does he like like me or does he just like me as a friend? how can i 'flirt back'? (link)
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I have been in that situation before.. Try just messing around, like joke on him, and do little things that make you have to touch, flirt with someone else in front of him. It'll drive him crazy for you, if he really likes you.
But don't get your hopes to high, he could very well like you, but he might not. Sometimes guys send out mixed signals and don't realize it.
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15/f.
I got really hurt by someone the other day and had a fit of rage. But...i didn't know what was happening to me. I was so full of anger that it felt like I could KILL somebody. It scared me....I started yelling and screaming and hitting myself. My eyes were like all red from the tears and anger.
It was ...its..indescribable. It really was scary. I'm afraid I might do something bad in the future because of it. What can i do? I'm usually a pretty content person :'( (link)
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I'm 16/f and I go through that same experience sometimes. And yes, it is incredibly scary. You said you are a pretty content person, it is a result that you don't really make a big deal about things so they bottle up, and eventually have to come out.
Try starting a journal, or online diary. It lets you get your stress out, I've started one and it has helped me.
Or you could see a therapist, I have a friend that used to. And they really do help if you open up to them.
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Has anyone on here ever re-dated a guy and had a successful relationship? I want to know if a second try is always disasterous. (link)
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I personally do not know anyone who re-dated a guy and had a successful relationship. But I'm sure it could happen with the right guy.
I have gotten myself in a cycle with the same guy for four years, and in my opinion if the guy truly means everything to you, keep trying. If you can live without him, do. It's an awful feeling trying again for a letdown, but it happens sometimes.
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Hey i was just wondering what si the best way to lose weight. Well not so much lose weigh because i am thin i just have a pot that i want to get rid of and get some nice abs for the summer!!!! thanks fir all the help:) (link)
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Try Pilates! It is a fun 20 minute work out that is fun and simple. Plus it's main target is the abs.
After about a week you should start noticing a difference (maybe not a big one but a difference). If you want to increase loosing the weight there, do sit ups every once in awhile when you get bored:]
After a month you should be very pleased with your results:]
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i've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, but he lives far away. recently, i discoverd that there is another boy that likes me and i sort of like him too. he kissed me the other day and now i'm really confused. any suggestions? (link)
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This situation can be confusing and not uncommon. I agree with 'xomegaroni', you need to talk to your boyfriend about this. Yes, it will be hard, and he might get angered, but he needs to know. Do you love your boyfriend? Could you see yourself with him a few months down the road? You said you "sort of" like this other boy. If you are "in love" with your boyfriend, don't leave him for this other guy. Unless, there is something unspoken about your boyfriend. Just let your boyfriend know how you feel and talk it out. I know you'll feel much better afterwards!
And if you decided to break up with said boyfriend. Don't rush into a new relationship with this other boy. Take things slow and see where it leads you.
Hope we helped! :]
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