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Ok, so I'm going to some important presentation in a week and luckily the presentation doesn't have a dress code. I'm going to dress...well I don't know how to put this without sounding like a poser. Um...sorta hardcore? I guess that will do.
And I decided what I want to do is have my top layer of hair really messy, and my bottom layer neat. How would I do this? I tried hairspray and gel and you could easily see the hardness of the gel and the texture in my hair, and I don't want this. (link)
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If you use a less agressive gel that doesn't harden so much you can put it in your hair and then lie off you bed so your head is upside down until the gel dries and it looks less goopy. Let gravity do some of the work! I would also use hairspray while it's drying and then do the bottom however neatly you want...
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Well, the other day my bf stayed over at my house for the first time. I had been telling him that if we got a chance we could take a shower together if my mum wasn't home. I'd been promising for quite a while and I could tell he was looking forward to it.
But when it came to it I freaked out, because I have a lot of insecurities. He has seen me naked before and we've done stuff (not all the way) but still i didn't feel comfortable. As soon as I told him this he started trying to convince me, telling me that he loved the way I looked and I shouldn't feel insecure. But I persisted in saying I didn't want to. Finally, with much hesitation and a great deal of disappointment he agreed. So I went to have a shower. 10 minutes later he opened the door of the bathroom and came in. I screamed at him to close the door. Afterwards I wouldn't speak to him because I was so shocked he would come in. He did apologize for not respecting my wishes and I could tell he felt really bad the entire day. He didn't know why he'd done it but he said he did it to show me that he wanted to see me like that and I shouldn't feel insecure. But I still have lost a lot of respect for him for doing that.
So what should I do? Just forget about it or talk to him about things? Do I have a right to feel mad at him for what he did? I've never known him to be like this before. He's never been pushy or anything and always respected me.
19.female.
Thanks! (link)
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I am kind of going through this stage with my boyfriend too... It's a hard one! You don't want to disapoint them when it seems like it would be so easy to just do this thing to make them happy... I have continued to tell mine no and he COMPLETELY respects that but I took a shower at his house the other day and I'm not going to lie and say I didn't lock the door just in case he tried what your guy did... SO back to the advice... I would try and talk to him about the real reason why, even though he loves your body, you don't feel comfortable in such a "vulnerable" setting of a shower. He obviously cares enough to try and make a gesture and he DID leave when you told him to so I wouldn't be too angry. But I would advise you to be wary in the future for misunderstandings of what he thinks you want. Keep the communication lines open and talk to him! I hope this works out for you! Good luck!
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do you think it is okay for a freshmen and a senior to go out if theres only a 2 year age difference? (link)
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Oh I think that's fine! If the younger person is mature enough at least... The age difference isn't necessarily what can hurt the relationship I think it's more like what you want out of life and the relationship at this point. As long as you are on the same page and talk about it I think you'll be fine.. But be SO careful about the physical part of the relationship please!
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f/sophomore. I know I shouldn't worry...But I'm beginning to. I think I did very well on my PSAT...like a 1500 or something lol. I'm in all honors classes and my reading/math state level test scores are high. Should I stress? (link)
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If you read, have a good vocabulary, and your math scores are high then you will be fine! Sophmore and JUNIOR year of math are the most important (I think) on the SAT so keep paying attention and it wouldn't help to review the most basic stuff like fractions lol Those are on there A LOT! I got a 1900 on the SAT. The test is long but nothing was too mind boggling... Just pay attention! :) Good luck!
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