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there's another guy that i like but i have a boyfriend
i've been with my boyfriend for just over a year now, but he lives far away. recently, i discoverd that there is another boy that likes me and i sort of like him too. he kissed me the other day and now i'm really confused. any suggestions?
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When you are in a relationship with someone who lives further away, it is common to get bored. I am guessing you are young. If this is the case, I encourage you to play the fields and date this other guy.
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This situation can be confusing and not uncommon. I agree with 'xomegaroni', you need to talk to your boyfriend about this. Yes, it will be hard, and he might get angered, but he needs to know. Do you love your boyfriend? Could you see yourself with him a few months down the road? You said you "sort of" like this other boy. If you are "in love" with your boyfriend, don't leave him for this other guy. Unless, there is something unspoken about your boyfriend. Just let your boyfriend know how you feel and talk it out. I know you'll feel much better afterwards!
And if you decided to break up with said boyfriend. Don't rush into a new relationship with this other boy. Take things slow and see where it leads you.
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Talk to your boyfriend & explain your feelings & what happened. Rough I know, but you should really try it. It's disrespectful to your boyfriend to have feelings for another guy, especially if you kissed him. I'm not blaming you, long distance relationships are difficult, but if you're going to be in a relationship with someone you have to treat them with respect & stay faithful no matter what. It's very common to develop feelings for another guy, so don't worry. You just have to be honest with him & sort your feelings out. Obviously it would be mean to be dating two guys. Also, make sure that any relationship you have with the guy you kissed is worth it. If he doesn't see you as a gf or just wanted to hook up with you & you break up with your bf, you might be extremely disappointed because nothing worked out in either situation. Talk to both of them & explain your feelings. You'll probably feel less guilty if you do. Being confused is normal though.
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